Why is it easy for men to cheat after marriage Zhang Baotong 2019.4.5

Today's divorce rate remains high, with more than 70 per cent of divorce cases initiated by women. This phenomenon is the opposite of what it was a few decades ago. This shows that the economic and social status of women has improved significantly, but it cannot be ignored that it also shows that the phenomenon of men cheating after marriage is increasing.

I heard from an acquaintance that her husband was very kind to her before marriage, not only caring for her and taking care of her everywhere, but also not letting her do heavy work. Even her parents praised her husband, saying that it was a blessing for her daughter to marry such a man. Therefore, the woman's parents not only asked for any bride price when their daughter got married, but also paid their daughter a small car. However, less than a year after getting married, her husband cheated. When the woman found out that her husband was cheating, her lungs were about to explode. Because the woman was pregnant, she was afraid of hurting the fetal gas, and her husband pleaded vigorously, so the woman forgave her husband and warned him not to do it again. After the husband was forgiven, he was honest for a while, but he still often showed some abnormalities, which made the woman uneasy. However, the evidence was not seized.

Later, she heard others say that cheating is a man's nature, and anyone with this kind of problem is like a cat who can't change his stealing. And those men who don't cheat are not because he doesn't want to cheat, but because he doesn't have the opportunity, or he doesn't have the guts, or because he is responsible for the family and loyal to his wife. And those men who cheat on him are not that they don't love their wives, but that they can't resist the temptation of other women, or they want to taste the umami of wild flowers.

I was told the story of another acquaintance. The acquaintance's family was in the countryside and she became pregnant shortly after getting married. Because she didn't have a job, she went back to her parents' house to raise the baby. And her husband comes home to visit her every once in a while. Also, it's easy to get back and forth by car. However, gradually, the woman found that her husband had come to visit her for a longer and longer time. At first, I came once every two weeks, but then I came once a month, and then I didn't come once a month. The woman felt that something was wrong, so she secretly returned to her home, and found evidence of her husband's cheating at home. She had a big fight with her husband, and her husband begged her for forgiveness, she didn't want to forgive, but if she didn't forgive, she would have to get a divorce. Therefore, this matter made her very embarrassed.

Later, she learned that her husband's cheating was not on her own initiative, but was seduced by a third party, in order to make her husband take more care of him at work. It just so happened that because she was not at home, she gave a third party a chance to intervene and a chance for her husband to cheat.

There are many reasons why men are prone to cheating after marriage. Especially when the woman is not at home during pregnancy, it is easy to cause men's loneliness and boredom, and loneliness and boredom are the reasons why men and women are most likely to cheat. But this is only an environmental factor that is easy to cheat, and the main reason why men and women cheat is that they have too poor self-control and a poor sense of responsibility. If the cost of cheating is high and it is easy to detect, it may discourage men and women from making bold attempts at cheating.

Cheating is not just a hobby for men, it is also a hobby for women. It is conceivable that as long as one man cheats, there will be one woman who cheats at the same time. It's not just men who want to find other women to experience different feelings, women also want to find other men to experience different feelings.

There is an important reason why men and women cheat, and that is that there is a rift in the relationship between husband and wife, or there is a seven-year itch. It can be said that every couple is in love and loyal to each other before and after marriage, but after a long time, the relationship between the two gradually fades away, and there are troubles in the relationship. At this time, there is an opportunity for derailment.

It is very difficult to stop cheating, not only to plug the gap of cheating, but also to plug the source of cheating. Whether it is a man or a woman, first of all, you must control yourself and not cheat, and at the same time, you must also educate and control the other party not to cheat. Preventing infidelity is an important guarantee of a harmonious and intact marriage. This requires both husband and wife to be self-disciplined and responsible.