God is fair Zhang Baotong 2016.10.4

Lu Yao wrote a literary masterpiece, but died young; Jackie Chan had excellent acting in his life, but his son was addicted to drugs; Zheng Xulan can be described as a generation of genius in the music industry, but her marriage is not good; Wang Baoqiang has just become famous in the film and television industry, but his wife is on good terms with others. Pen %Fun %Pavilion www.biquge.info It seems that God has given you some glory, and he has to give you some calamity. But Napoleon fought all over Europe, crowned emperor, and turned the republic into an empire, but he was twice defeated and exiled, and died of illness on the island of St. Helena. Julius Caesar became the founder of the Roman Empire with great talent, but was assassinated by the Senate. Genghis Khan led his army to conquer Central Asia and Eastern Europe, but died of a violent illness during the conquest of Western Xia, and Qin Shi Huang completed the unification of China and established the first multi-ethnic centralized state, but died mysteriously on his fifth tour. The list goes on.

Emperors and celebrities are like this, let alone us ordinary people?

If you want to explore and see if God is really fair, you can look at the colleagues around you and the people around you, maybe you will find that the men of the Zhang family have the ability but are not in good health, the daughter-in-law of the Li family is capable, but the men are nesty, the Wang family and his wife are strong people, but the children are stupid, and the children of the Zhao family are all good men, but they have a bad reputation. On the contrary, the Zhang family is very poor, but the children are promising, the Li family has a nest but a beautiful wife, the Wang family is mediocre but healthy, and the Zhao family is incompetent, but they won the jackpot. We don't see perfect people, and we don't find people who are unlucky.

However, we always complain that we are always inferior to others, not as good as other people's husbands, not as good as other people's husbands, not as good as other people's husbands, not as beautiful as other people's wives, and not as smart as other people's children. In short, we always feel that we are not living as well as others, that we are being neglected by God. In fact, God is basically fair to each of us. And the imbalance we feel in our hearts is because when we look at others, we always look at the glamorous side of others, and when we compare them, we always look at the enviable side of others. If the length of a person is shorter than the other, it is natural to feel resentful. How would it feel if we were shorter than others?

Our life genes are different, our life circumstances and experiences are different, and even our luck is different. So, our life situations and outcomes will also vary. If we live in China and the United States, if we live in the city and in the countryside, if we live in the rich and poor, if we live in the Zhang family and the Li family, the situation will be very different. But God will always open a window for us at the same time as he closes a door. You have no idea how he orchestrates our fate. And he will always let you gain something, but also make you lose something. You won't have the best of both worlds.

If a person's efforts and ability are not enough, not to mention it in the unit, it will make the leaders and colleagues look down on you, and even the doorman in the communication room will not treat you as a person. If you work hard and are too capable, your colleagues will be wary of you everywhere, and will even dig holes in your back and lay black bricks behind your back. It's not enough for you to be strong in your work ability, but you also have to be able to sneak around and cater to the leader, otherwise, you can't do it either. I've worked in the agency for nearly a decade, and I know this very well. I ranked first in the year-end evaluation in the unit, and ranked first in the group in the railway branch every quarter in terms of the length of news reports. And I come early and leave late every day, and I always rush to do the work in the office. However, I did not have the two cadre adjustments in the unit. Later, when the leader left, he told me, "People spend 20 percent of their ability and time on work and 80 percent of their ability and time on interpersonal relationships, but you are the opposite." "Then I realized that it was not enough to work hard in the unit. I haven't seen anyone queue up for the leader to buy a train ticket all year round, usher in the send-off, please eat and drink, and give money and gifts to the leader during the New Year's holidays. And I just buried my head in the cart and didn't look up at the road. Therefore, the leader still does not take you seriously. But if you get promoted to an official position by giving the leader a whisker, then your ability and character will be doubted by everyone.

Also, if you are not a leader in the unit, you will always feel oppressed, but when you become a leader, your words and deeds and every move will be closely watched. Others can talk nonsense, but the leader must be cautious in what he says and does; others are with female colleagues purely for work needs, but if the leader is close to a certain woman, he will be subject to rumors. When I was in the agency, I often heard private rumors from my colleagues, and even openly discussed who a certain leader's mistress was, and even where a certain leader liked to go. Some of the leaders' scandals are known to the whole unit and the whole system. However, one of the boiler workers in the unit often told us where he had gone to Miss Miss, but we forgot about it after hearing about it. Because he doesn't have to do with what Miss has to do with us. This is the saying goes, "the tree is the wind", or "lightning always strikes the highest mountain".

But who doesn't want to be a towering tree, who doesn't want to stand on the top of a mountain? Although our lives are ordinary, we yearn for the extraordinary, for glory. Therefore, we envy wealth and think that is the life we really deserve. We look up to celebrities and feel that this is the only way to live a lifetime. Therefore, we often think that if we were very rich or a celebrity, we would not encounter all these troubles and worries in real life. As everyone knows, celebrities are no less distressed and worried than we are. Because they also live in the same society as us, they will also encounter the same confusion and helplessness as us. Zhou Xuan, Ruan Lingyu, Yang Likun, Yan Fengying, and then Ni Ping, Yan Ni, Zhang Guoli, and so on in the distance, who does not have a bitter water of their own? There is an old Chinese saying, "A high place is not cold." If you can deeply understand this sentence, you should know that the higher the person, the greater the difficulties and risks he will experience. So, why are so many celebrities ending and ending very badly?

It's like when China is poor, other countries look down on you, but when you get richer, those countries start to envy you and besiege you. In fact, whether you are a worker or a peasant, whether you are an officer or a leader, you will also have troubles and troubles. Because no matter what you do, God will let you gain some and lose some at the same time. You don't get fruit without planting a tree, and you finally hope that the tree will bear fruit, but when you look at it, the fruit of someone else's tree bears more fruit than the fruit of your tree.

No matter how we give examples and analyze them, we will feel that God is not very fair and that he is always at the expense of himself. Yes, no matter how fair God is, there will be partiality. Americans live between the two oceans and live a peaceful and carefree life. Chileans, however, live in earthquakes and volcanic areas. Otherwise, the Japanese will feel unfair and will always stare at other countries. So, we still feel that God is unjust. In fact, there are parts of our destiny that God can control, and parts that God has nothing to do. There are many things in the world that God cannot give us, and we need to strive for them ourselves. God can give us a brilliant mind but not a wealth of knowledge, he can give us a pair of eyes to observe the world, but he cannot give us the skill to depict the world, he can give us wings of imagination but not the power to fly over the sky, he can give us some chance luck, but he cannot give us the determination and courage to change our destiny. So, we can't rely entirely on God's gifts.

God has always given us basic and limited, and there are more things that we need to strive for. God has given us the same minds and hands as Jack Ma and Bill Gates. But in reality, we are very far from Jack Ma and Bill Gates. There are more earthquakes and more dangerous earthquakes in Japan than in Chile, but life is much better for Japanese people than for Chileans. So, in a sense, we can't blame God for being unjust, we can only blame us for not working hard enough. A fruit farmer met Newton. He complained to Newton indignantly: "I have worked hard every day in the orchard, and I have seen apples fall to the ground countless times, but I have not been able to find the phenomenon of gravity. And you just lay down under the apple tree and slept and God gave you an almighty apple, so that you discovered the phenomenon of gravity in an instant, and made you a world-famous celebrity, God is so unfair. To this, Newton replied with a smile: "You work in the orchard every day, thinking about how to harvest more fruit, so you get the harvest of fruit, and I think every day about how to solve the mystery of gravitation, so I come up with the law of gravitation." In fact, God is fair to everyone, and what you think about with one mind, He will let you get whatever results you get.

There is a poem that says: I once complained / The cloth shoes with yellow soles / couldn't step on the green vitality / until I realized / Hawking's cooing wheelchair / embedded with deep traces of history / I cursed / The dark birthmark on the side of the face / Didn't reflect the beautiful face / Until I saw / The black man with a dark body / Showing a sweet beautiful smile / So I thought / God is fair / When one door closes / another door will open / I believe / God is fair.

Yes, God is fair. But we cannot rely on God's justice to our fate. If we all put our destiny in God, then do we still need to work hard and struggle? Moreover, many of our things are not something that God can give.

God is just a support and belief in our hearts. He is not a god who rules our destiny. The reason why we say that God is fair is to give people a kind of comfort and comfort, let people complain as little as possible, give more comfort, and guide people to strive for success and realize their dreams through hard work. Moreover, there are also people who say that God is unfair and that fate cannot be changed. For example, after a war, some people died, and some people were injured and disabled. The living became heroes, and the dead became ghosts. But there are still many miserable and pitiful people in our world. They need comfort and reassurance to pick themselves up. We ourselves sometimes have times of sadness and frustration, and we also need comfort and comfort. And trusting God is the best way to do it.

There are also those who think that only those with good fate will say that God is fair, while those with bad fate will not say so. But we also want God to exist, at least in our hearts, so we want to believe that God is fair. And those who do not believe that God is fair, they may grieve eternally because they cannot find comfort. (To be continued.) )