Don't test love Zhang Baotong 2019.2.18

We often see the ups and downs of love and the trials of life and death in movies and in order to render and express the steadfastness and firmness of love. However, love in reality is extremely fragile, and it cannot tolerate tossing back and forth and colliding and subverting. If you want to test your love and marriage, you may end up with a backfire and regret.

Da Lin and Xiao Yun went through such a test.

Dalin and Xiaoyun were 32 years old when they met, and Xiaoyun was only twenty-six or seventeen years old. The two met on a construction site. On that day, Dalin was bringing people over to install lighting facilities in the high-rise building, and Xiaoyun was sent by the company to inspect and accept their installation. Dalin is not actually a lighting installation worker, but he used to work as a salesman in a private company for many years, and later, because this work is very hard, he often has to go on business trips to other places, sometimes for ten days and half a month. Therefore, his mother thought he was working hard, so she asked relatives to help him arrange for him to work as a worker in a state-owned enterprise. But he thought that the work in the state-owned enterprise was not high, and it was only three or four thousand yuan a month, so he used his spare time to continue to do this kind of business in partnership with some friends in the past, earning pocket money for himself.

Xiaoyun is good-looking, graduated from college, and works as a technical manager in a construction company. This is really not easy for a girl born in a remote mountainous area of Guizhou. Although Dalin is thirty on a business trip, it's not that he can't find a partner, and he doesn't like how many girls his parents and friends have introduced him. He feels that he is dignified, handsome and handsome, has a car, a house, a job, and good conditions, so what he wants to say about the person he is looking for can also make people's eyes light up and never forget. If he can't even look at it, he'd rather not look for it. It's not that he hasn't looked for it in the past, but his parents don't agree with what he wants, but he doesn't like what his parents found for him. So, it's been delayed until now.

The two fell in love at first sight. Immediately, Da Lin invited Xiao Yun to dinner, and after dinner, he went to watch a movie, and then, Xiao Yun did not go back at night and lived in Da Lin's house. Three days later, Xiaoyun quit the house he shared with a colleague and moved to live in Dalin.

The two have lived together for more than half a year, and they haven't told their parents. But once, Da Lin's mother went to his house and found a woman's cosmetics and clothes, so she asked about Da Lin, and Da Lin told her mother that it was his girlfriend's thing. Because Dalin is already old, his parents are particularly concerned and worried about his marriage, and when they see that their son has a girlfriend, they have to meet him and check it. So, Dalin told Xiaoyun that her parents were seeing her. Xiaoyun didn't want to see Dalin's parents so early, and he didn't even want Dalin's parents to know. However, since her parents wanted to see her, she still made some preparations, and asked Dalin to keep in line with her about some things that her parents might ask, because she didn't want Dalin's parents to know about some things about herself and her family, for fear that her parents would have a bad impression of her or have concerns about her.

Dalin's father was the leader of a company, and his mother was an employee of a state-owned enterprise and had retired. The two elderly men met her in a restaurant in the form of inviting them to dinner. Originally, Dalin's parents were not very willing to Xiaoyun, the mother did not like the girl's thrush drawing, and the father did not want his son to find a rural girl, because he felt that rural girls would pay too much attention to their parents' families, and in many poor rural areas, girls live for boys, and the money earned must subsidize the boys in the family. Xiaoyun not only has a younger brother, but also an older sister. I heard Dalin say that Xiaoyun still has to provide for his parents. Dalin's father did not object to his daughter providing for her parents, but it should be her brother's responsibility to provide for her parents in the first place. Seeing that his son's attitude is so resolute, considering that his son is already old, he can't toss and delay anymore. Dalin's parents still agreed to their relationship.

When they met the girl in July, Dalin's parents asked them to prepare for the New Year's Day to get the certificate, and after the New Year, they got married on May Day. Da Lin Dao has no opinion, but Xiaoyun doesn't want to get married too early, because as soon as he gets married, he will have children, and if he has a child, he will have to take a vacation, and he is worried that he will not be able to keep his job. She didn't want to give up her job, because once she lost it, she would go to find this job with a monthly salary of 7,000 yuan. Furthermore, because the state issued a notice, high-rise lighting facilities are only allowed to be provided by state-specified enterprises, and are not allowed to be provided by individuals and unauthorized factories. In this way, Dalin's business could not be done, and his income was much less, and he only had a salary of three or four thousand yuan a month. In addition, Dalin is a worker who has just moved from a private enterprise to a state-owned enterprise, and he often has to work night shifts. Therefore, Xiaoyun is not very satisfied with Dalin's work and income.

She dragged on from July to May. At this time, she found out that she was pregnant and was about to have an abortion. However, Dalin and her parents persuaded her not to have an abortion and asked them to get married immediately. However, she insisted on having a baby, but there was no way, so Dalin called her parents in her hometown, and her parents also persuaded her to give birth to the child, but she insisted on having a baby, because she didn't want the unit leaders and colleagues to see that she was pregnant before she got married.

In fact, she doesn't want to have children, and there is another thing that is difficult to say. She has been having a crush on a young vice president of the company. The vice president is about the same age as Da Lin, but he is the vice president of the unit, and his monthly salary is not 3,400, but more than 15,000, and he does not live in a building of 70 or 80 square meters, but a very spacious villa. However, the vice president has been married, but he has been divorcing his wife, but his wife is not leaving, so the two have been fighting a cold war. The reason why Xiaoyun followed Dalin was that on the one hand, she couldn't see hope for the vice president's divorce, and on the other hand, she really fell in love with Dalin's handsomeness. There is another important reason why she has to have an abortion, that is, she doesn't know whether this child is Dalin's or the vice president's.

Xiaoyun's decision was made by no one who could stop it, so the child still beat it out. But this invisibly exacerbated the contradictions and dissatisfaction of Dalin's parents with Xiaoyun, they felt that this girl was very stubborn and willful, only caring about herself and not thinking about others. In addition, Xiaoyun never cooks for his son, and he earns so much money every month, but he only spends Dalin's money, and his own money is saved. She had a lot of clothes and cosmetics of her own, but Dalin didn't even have a decent one. They didn't care about her spending Dalin's money, but felt that she regarded Dalin as a wronged boss and Dalin as a free hotel. If a woman refuses to spend money for a man, it must be a sign that she does not love him at all. What woman is unwilling to spend money and cook for the man she loves? So, Dalin's parents asked Dalin to cut off relations with Xiaoyun, and Dalin's mother had a quarrel with Xiaoyun and immediately drove Xiaoyun away. However, Xiaoyun left, and Dalin called her again. This made Dalin's parents very annoyed and helpless. Seeing that Dalin was unwilling to break up with Xiaoyun, Dalin's father had to let them get married quickly. Because Dalin is 34 years old, if he doesn't get married, he will reach middle age. However, Xiaoyun still refused to get married and continued to drag it out. In the end, Dalin's father gave them an ultimatum to kick them all out and confiscate Dalin's car if they could not get their licenses by mid-November and did not agree to get married on New Year's Day. Because they bought the car and the house for Dalin.

In desperation, Xiaoyun had to react. So, she told the vice president about it and saw what the vice president would do. The vice president said that he was negotiating with his wife, and it was estimated that he would not be able to leave immediately for a while, so he asked her to marry Dalin first. As soon as he divorced his wife, let Xiaoyun divorce Dalin again. So, Xiaoyun got a marriage certificate with Dalin and got married on New Year's Day.