Shen Xingru slapped his thigh and said, "That's right, you also found out, right? The senior deserves to be a senior! So I think this is a good thing." Wanwan had been living cautiously and cautiously before, not daring to have extra emotions, for fear of provoking others. Now she's changed, and it's definitely because you've given her enough security to do this. ”

Su Jingao subconsciously rubbed his hands and said, "I thought you were here to ask the teacher for guilt, but I didn't expect it...... Miss Shen's insight and pattern are different!"

Shen Xingru's face did not show a trace of joy, but became heavier and heavier.

"Wanwan has lived in a difficult environment since she was a child, and it may be difficult for you to understand what it is like to not have her own room since she was a child. She told me that she had been sleeping in the living room all along. Adults watch TV, she sleeps next to it, and gradually gets used to it, as white noise. Sometimes her father came to the house to play mahjong and drink with friends, and she had nowhere else to go but to huddle silently. Sometimes a drunk person is delirious and will inevitably move her hands and feet, and her mother will come to stop her and be beaten by her father. Girls are precocious than boys, and they already have a sense of gender when they are young, so they feel uncomfortable when they encounter this kind of thing, you understand?"

Su Jingao was stunned when he heard this, in his growth environment, he couldn't imagine this kind of thing at all.

He sighed and said, "Wanwan never told me this. ”

Shen Xingru: "She is actually very strong in her heart, she will not deliberately show weakness in front of you, the feelings she hopes to get are equality, not pity." So do you know why He Qingjue has liked her for so many years, but she didn't agree? Because the first day they met, she exposed to him the painful experience she didn't want to be known about, and it was the most desperate day for her. She felt that He Qingjue's feelings for her were based on pity, which she couldn't accept at all. And you are different, you have a good opportunity to know each other, at that time she was full of spirit, life was full of hope, she felt that the two of you were simply attracted by each other's personal charm, so it was purer and closer to her ideal love. ”

Su Jingao said thoughtfully: "I'm sorry, I never thought about this before. ”

Shen Xingru waved his hand and said, "This is normal, understandable." Men, especially straight men, tend to think in a single line. You are like this, in fact, He Qingjue is also like this. Over the years, he has been defeated and defeated, and he has become more and more courageous, but he has never thought about what went wrong and whether he needs to change his model. ”

Su Jingao: "I feel very sorry for her, I hope to give her happiness, so that she doesn't have to suffer like before." ”

Shen Xingru nodded and said, "I also understand how good you are to her." In fact, I have known Wanwan for so many years, and I admire her very much. She has been through so many ups and downs before, but she has always persevered in her heart, which is not so easy to do. For example, if you volunteer to become an aerospace engineer and work hard for my country's aerospace industry, it is because you have the confidence and do not need to care about salary. Of course, I used to be like that. But Wanwan has had such a hard time since she was a child, and then she obviously has other choices, so she doesn't need to work so hard, but she has never turned her back on the ideal of love in her heart. Such a girl is worth cherishing. ”

Su Jingao thought so.

Shen Xingru continued: "Okay, now that the worldview has been rectified, it's the turn of the methodology. ”

Su Jingao was shocked......

He thought to himself, didn't Shen Xingru just be woken up from his sleep by Xiang Wanwan? Why did he speak so logically, one after another?

Su Jingao straightened his sitting posture, made an appearance of humbly asking for advice, and said, "Okay, I would like to hear about it." ”

Shen Xingru said: "Since we have reached a consensus that this change of Wanwan is good, then we should condone and promote this change of hers in due course." ”

Su Jingao nodded and said, "Well, I understand." ”

Shen Xingru: "At the same time, you have to work harder, give her more security, and make her feel loved more." In this way, over time, I think she has the opportunity to get rid of the shadow of her childhood, change her pleasing personality, and complete a rebirth of her own personality. ”

Su Jingao's hand on the armrest of the sofa couldn't help but scratch his scalp twice, and said, "It's too abstract, can you be more concrete?"

Shen Xingru said: "I know that seniors don't have much experience in love, but will you coax girls?"

Su Jingao: "I probably understand what you say. ”

Shen Xingru nodded with satisfaction and said, "Come on, senior, I'm optimistic about your potential in this area." Many people don't understand a truth, that is, the more dominant the person is, the more weak he must be, so that the energy of two people can be balanced in the process of getting along with each other, and they can get along smoothly. Let's take celebrities as an example, Huang Lei and his wife Sun Li are a typical husband-wive-wife group. Generally speaking, in this combination, the woman gives up her career and returns to the family, and she must put her husband and children first in everything. The man's career is getting better and better, and gradually the family status changes, and the person is getting more and more uncle. But Huang Lei's cleverness lies in the fact that he can separate the roles in his career and family relationships, he has many fans outside, has a successful career, has no vain contacts, and is supported everywhere he goes, but this does not prevent him from serving his wife and children at home, washing clothes and cooking, sewing and mending. This kind of realm is really not something that ordinary people can learn. ”

Su Jingao smiled: "So I've taken the first step to success, and I still like to cook for Wanwan." ”

Shen Xingru bowed slightly, expressing approval: "That's right, so the senior is a material that can be made, and I am very optimistic about you." Wanwan has been filming for many years, and it is indeed pitiful to eat irregularly. She needs the atmosphere of family very much, and she needs the warmth of fireworks in the world. ”

Su Jingao nodded and said, "I will do my best." So what now?"

Shen Xingru: "Now, well, I'll go back and see her first, it shouldn't be a big deal, make a little temper, you can coax her a little tomorrow." But what I just told you is the general principle and the general direction. This is like when we study civil law, we must first learn the general theory of civil law and the principles of civil law. As long as you remember the big principles, you will know what to do when you encounter individual cases in the future, even if you can't memorize specific legal provisions, you can deduce them according to legal principles. ”

Su Jingao couldn't help but nod his head twice.