The sun and the moon are reincarnated, the heavens and the earth change, and each day is hardly different from each other, and there is not much difference between each year and each year. In summer, the sun is always shining brightly, and the scenery outside the window is unchanged, and the air is so bright that it makes people feel dazzling. In winter, the sky is always overcast, and the cold wind blows in bursts, which makes people feel that they are not in a good mood at all. Spring is the season that people look forward to, but the spring rain is pouring all day long, as if it has soaked people's hearts. Although the autumn sky is high and the clouds are light, the autumn is high and cool, but it is like a passing cloud, and it has left in a hurry before people can really feel it.

When I go to work, I have to get up before dawn, then catch the car, and when I get to the office, I can't stop my hands and feet. After a busy day, in the evening, I have to rush home in a hurry. When I got home, I was cooking and washing the dishes. When I finished eating and cleaned up the dishes and chopsticks, it was seven or eight o'clock. When you sit down and watch TV, it's time to go to bed, because you have to go to work tomorrow.

When I go to work, I always look forward to the holidays, so I can stay at home and take a break. However, when it really comes to the weekend, it's not really interesting, go out to buy some groceries, watch TV, do something else, and before you know it, the weekend is over. Therefore, I always want to retire quickly, and after retiring, I can spend weekends every day.

In fact, retirement is so different from spending the weekend. I still have to worry about going to work tomorrow after the weekend, but after I retire, I don't have to worry about anything. You don't have to go to work anymore, but no one cares about you anymore. At this time, you just want to find someone to talk to, and you suddenly feel that it is not easy to do something. At this time, you realize that the whole world of human life has no meaning, and you are waiting for the day when you will be buried in the earth.

Looking back, there are only two or three things in this life that can make people feel energized: one is for desperate love, one is for the trip that says go, and then for the struggle to become famous in one fell swoop. However, none of these three projects were successful or satisfactory to me. Because my wife's poor health has seriously affected our married life, our marriage has been on the verge of divorce. When it comes to travel, I don't have many feats that I can handle. First, because I was reluctant to spend too much money, and secondly, I didn't dare to take a plane, so I pushed many business trips and business trips to others, and I could only run around the nearby Qinling Mountains alone from time to time. Fame is what I have been working hard and looking forward to all my life, but due to various reasons and lack of ability, I have only had some small names, but it is still far from being truly famous.

Therefore, when life has come to this point, I often feel empty-handed and accomplished. Especially after retirement, the days without stress go by day by day. And the approach of the end made me feel that this life was really aggrieved: this life passed like this, so plain that there was no sound and no footprints left.

In pessimism and depression, I can often only rely on nostalgia to talk about **. The nostalgic content is actually some ordinary past, but because of the different feelings and feelings, it makes people have a kind of ethereal and obsessed with the past like a dream. This may be the reason why some people like class reunions. In fact, the party is not interesting, you have thought about it but have been looking forward to it for many years. But the result is often a big deal to back your mind. Although many years have passed, the impression in your mind is still pure and youthful. But after decades of mulberry years, like beautiful flowers, like water flowing years, flowers bloom and fall every year, where is the remnant snow of yesterday now? All you can see is a group of old people who are so old that you can hardly recognize them, and this kind of scene smashes the beautiful feelings you cherish in your heart.

If you really think about it, almost all of our lives have been like this. There are few days of great joy, and there are only a handful of events of great sorrow. Therefore, living a good and ordinary life is the real state of our life. Life is not afraid of ordinary days, only afraid of feeling unreal.

Life is like this, day after day, year after year, plain, uneventful, busy all day long, but you can't see a little harvest and growth. Blandness often leads to boredom and boredom, and boredom and boredom can easily lead to loneliness and emptiness. In order to relieve the boredom and emptiness, some people will make trouble out of nothing, mediocre people disturb themselves, and cause some trouble for themselves and others. Sometimes, you may even feel that life is suffocating, and you can't remember anything that will make you memorable, or what will make you feel wonderful in the future. At this time, we might as well calm down, serve a cup of tea, pick up a good book, or put on a classic music, and find a quiet place to sit, so that the mood of leisure and anxiety can slowly calm down and immerse ourselves in a warm and beautiful state of mind.

People's evaluation of life's joys and sorrows, as well as the good and bad, always needs to have a reference comparison. You will feel inadequate compared to the above, and you will feel good compared to the bottom. In fact, whether the shoes are comfortable or not is your own feeling, there is no need to compare and compete with others. Other people's wives always seem to be better than their own, but there is no difficult scripture for any person and family.

There is no need to be too demanding in life for the sake of vanity, too demanding and unattainable, it will cause psychological and emotional damage. Material life is easy to satisfy, three meals a day, one bed at night, and people are often not satisfied with the pursuit of those high-end items. And those high-end items don't have much impact on our true well-being, except for satisfying people's vanity. Even if you live in a villa and get a famous car, you still have to live an ordinary life. The other day I read an article titled "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle". I was stunned for a moment when I looked at the title, and I had the feeling that the sun was coming out of the west. I wonder if this person is sick, and he has that strange disease that is extremely rare.

Ge You's mother once said, "If there are no patients in the hospital and no family in the cell, it is safe and happy." "Only people who have lived their whole lives can have this kind of profound insight. Give life a calm, give life a truth, face the ordinary and ordinary life, and keep a quiet time with your family, with a normal heart to people and things, with a plain heart to enjoy life, this is a sincere and beautiful life.

Enjoying life and living life in a dull way, and not pursuing a vigorous life, does not mean that we must give up our ideals and pursuits. When we talk about ordinary life, we mean our true and calm way of life, not the dullness and emptiness of the mind. No matter how ordinary life is, our hearts must look at the starry sky and face the sun. It is a source of beauty and light that enriches and warms our hearts. The world is gorgeous and life is beautiful because our hearts feel good. If we don't have the feeling of the heart, we are the walking dead, and a walking dead will not feel good if it lives in the palace. Ideals are the dreams in our hearts, guiding us to pursue a better time. Maybe we can't catch up with the shining dream of life in our lives, but the scenery along the way will still make us feel the true preciousness of life. 10