Chapter 816.Gender Dominance Zhang Baotong 2018.5.31
For thousands of years, men have cultivated and women weaved, husband and wife loved, flying with wings, and resisting wind and rain together. Except for traditional notions such as "male superiority and inferiority" and "husband as wife", I have not heard of any advantages and disadvantages between men and women in terms of gender. Recently, a female best-selling author and sentiment analysis expert named Yang Bingyang, who goes by the online name Ayaaa, has been promoting the so-called gender superiority of women. It is said that she has more than 3 million netizens, so it can be seen that the impact is certainly not small.
When discussing the gender superiority of men and women, she gave an example on her blog that caused quite a stir. The original text is like this: When a female netizen feels very unfortunate that she is a woman, Yang Bingyang, one of the top ten Internet celebrities in 2015, comforts her with medieval black slaves. But this female netizen said: Black slaves are also unfair, male black slaves are at most working, and female black slaves have to become slave owners. Yang said: Then have you ever thought about it, 1. Female black slaves have a chance to leave offspring, and men have no chance. During the emancipation movement, the freed slaves were all descendants of female slaves and farmers, and male slaves were cut off from their children. 2. Those who are beaten to death are always male black slaves, not women. The female netizen was stunned for a moment and asked: It is tragic to be beaten to death and cut off children and grandchildren, but is it not miserable to be raped? Yang asked rhetorically: Then do you think that is human life more important or chastity is important? Female netizens admit that human life is much more important than chastity. Yang also said: I often tell such stories to the girls and reporters around me, the same reason, when the Japanese army slaughtered the city, burned, killed and looted, men must not be able to escape the doom, a pit buried thousands of people. And although women are raped, they still have a chance to survive.
Her story may have led many to believe that at least her 3 million female netizens would believe that women do have a clear advantage over men when it comes to gender. However, can these netizens see that when telling this story, their blogger put aside the big background and big theme, and took the quote out of context and generalized the whole thing. The Age of Black Slaves is a tragic and dark history in Africa and around the world, where slaves were sold, enslaved, beaten, raped, and even killed. Both male and female slaves were treated as human beings by the farmer at all, but as a kind of livestock, and they suffered the same misery. Besides, during the Japanese invasion of China, more than 30 million Chinese were killed, how many were men and how many were women? Naturally, men died more, but what about women? How many women were raped as young girls, how many women were raped or gang-raped, how many women committed suicide because they could not bear humiliation, how many women were turned into comfort women, and how many women were raped by the Japanese army and then killed and killed. Whether it is a man or a woman, once they are turned into slaves, the ending is equally tragic.
There are many such examples, after the fall of the Northern Song Dynasty, three thousand harem beauties were escorted to the north by the Jin army and assigned to the soldiers of the Jin army as wives and maids. After the Spanish occupied the Inca Empire, soldiers robbed the women and raped the princess at will, and even the princess of the Inca king could be taken by force. Russia created the Jiangdong 64tun Massacre and the Hailan Pao Massacre, killing tens of thousands of local Chinese men and distributing women to soldiers as wives. During the Japanese invasion of China, at least 400,000 Chinese women were reduced to comfort women. During the Soviet occupation of Germany, two million women were said to have been raped and gang-raped. When a country is ruined, war is not only a matter for men, but also for women, who become the spoils of war and the playthings of the enemy. In this case, although women have a better chance of surviving than men, when their homes are destroyed and occupied, their men, fathers, and sons are killed, and they are subservient to their enemies, do they feel that they are more fortunate and have a gender advantage than men? If we look at Hiroshima and Nagasaki, after the atomic bombings, did men die more or women died? This is a question that cannot be clearly explained. Even in today's Syria, women live in the midst of war, even though they don't go to war. So, if you look at Ayaaa's arguments, you can see how ridiculous and stupid her arguments are.
Men and women play different roles in society due to different biological structures. Internally, men mainly support their families, and externally, they protect their wives and children. This is also the reason why men are either killed in battle or captured and killed when their country is ruined. And the function of women is to bear children, so when the country is destroyed, they will be distributed as trophies to the officers and soldiers of the enemy country. Therefore, for thousands of years, in terms of family and country feelings, men and women have a common goal in life, that is, to accumulate more wealth and have more children, so as to resist natural and man-made disasters and defend against foreign aggression.
Over the millennium, there have been matriarchal societies, when women lived in a fixed cave or hut all year round. Men would go about and often come to the women with prey and food, stay with them for three or two days, and then go somewhere else. And the women stay in one place, have children, and when the children grow up, they drive their sons out of the house and leave their daughters behind. So, at that time, the children only knew their mother, but they did not know who their father was. Families are also run by women. Later, in the age of agriculture, the role of men became important, and a man-centered family style was formed. A man can marry several women and support a large family. Although the concept of patriarchy has lasted for thousands of years, and even many feudal etiquette and moral norms such as male superiority and inferiority of women and husbands as wives have been used to restrain women, both men and women only remember their duties, and no one considers and cares about the gender superiority between men and women.
On the surface, women may have a better chance of surviving than men in times of war, but in times of peace, women are no less troublesome than men. In terms of physiology, cohabitation between a man and a woman can cause a woman to become pregnant. And when you are pregnant in October, it is a woman's business to give birth once you give birth. Due to the weakness and beauty of women, they are easily raped, robbed, sexually assaulted and harassed by gangsters, and even raped and killed. This kind of thing happens not only in China, but also in countries around the world. In India, women are even more inferior and unfortunate, vulnerable to sexual assault and humiliation. And in some African countries, many young girls have been captured by some illegal soldiers to serve as **. Therefore, there is no gender advantage for women at all.
From Australopithecus australopithecus to the present, humans have evolved over a period of 300 to 4 million years. During these 3 million to 4 million years, men have lived with women, making the characteristics of men and women more prominent and attractive. Men are tall and rugged and strong, while women are petite and delicate and beautiful. Apparently they are moving and evolving side by side on two different life trajectories. Because men were involved in outdoor work all year round, while women stayed at home to take care of the household and children, this evolution made men more physically and mentally developed, and women became more and more feminine in this trajectory. This is also the reason why men are generally higher than women in terms of physical strength, mental power and vision. Although some higher education institutions have better academic performance than male students, it is because male students do not devote their main energy to their studies.
There should be no distinction between men and women. If there is a question of who is better and who is poor, it is, of course, that men are significantly superior to women in most abilities. While women are better than men in language and craft, the best orators and technicians are men. In fact, in many jobs and skills, women cannot compare with men. The result of human evolution is that men are becoming more masculine and women are becoming more feminine. It has been said that half of a man is a woman, and half of a woman is naturally a man. Masculine and feminine are the most perfect combination of the two poles in this world. Therefore, they can only fuse, but they cannot be separated, let alone compare high and low, and distinguish the advantages and disadvantages. Just like a male solo can't be compared to a female solo, a dancer can't be compared to a dancer. Each of them has its own characteristics and beauty.
In a modern society with a clear division of labor, no one compares men and women to the better. For example, in some heavy physical labor, people generally do not let women participate in it, just as they do not let women go to the front. Because women are better suited to care for others and serve others, they are better suited to careers such as kindergarten teachers, nurses, shop assistants, and secretaries.
Originally, Ayaaa wanted to improve the female netizen's self-confidence as a woman, but she deviated from the theme and the right track, leading herself and the female netizen astray to the woman's gender superiority, and also cited two very failed and sad examples. Men and women should not have advantages or disadvantages in terms of gender, but when it comes to finding a job, men are more suitable for work because of the characteristics of biological evolution. If a man's physical strength is better, he will not miss work because he is pregnant and has a child. Therefore, the general employer is more willing to look for men when recruiting. However, in Japan, as soon as a woman gets married, she leaves the workplace and returns home. This is only a problem presented by the social form and the social division of labor. There are men who are prime ministers and there are women who are prime ministers, there are men who are bosses and there are women who are bosses, there are women who can't find jobs, there are men who can't find jobs, there are women who can't find men, and there are men who can't find women. This is entirely due to the personal ability and luck of men and women, not the superiority or inferiority of men and women in terms of gender. Moreover, the two very poor examples she gave do nothing to help others improve their sense of gender superiority as a woman. As a well-known best-selling author and sentiment analysis expert, this kind of low-level mistake really shouldn't have happened. As a blogger with more than 3 million netizens, he should be a teacher, a role model, convey positive energy to the majority of netizens, and establish a correct three views, instead of spreading those negative, ignorant and absurd and outrageous fallacies to mislead netizens.