"Yes!" Qu Lihua listened to Robin say her personal experience, and it also resonated, modern people and young people are under a lot of pressure, especially middle-aged people, old and young, Qu Lihua is not married, she has been spending her energy on work in the past, and she has reached the age when she should find a partner to marry and have a baby, at this age, it is inevitable that there will be workplace anxiety, for Qu Lihua, this is a turning point, she is busy with work all the year round, she doesn't even have a partner, she has never met the right person.

I've been in a few relationships before, all because she was too busy with work and didn't have time to manage her relationship The other party left, Qu Lihua saw it very openly, she thought that women should rely on themselves, when they were young, they had a lot of choices, this man refused, change it again, it's not a big deal, she watched TV series, she didn't understand the kind of world that she hadn't seen before, and fell in love with a man, and after the man split his legs and separated, he had to look for death and life.

In her opinion, women should be equal to men, should not be inferior to men, discriminate against women, and have prejudices against women, which are all feudal ideas that have harmed many vulnerable women in the past.

Women should first be financially independent, financially independent, not dependent on men to support, you yourself have the confidence, to have the equality of negotiating with men, women have their own careers, have backbone, can straighten their waists, in order not to be bullied by men.

Equality between men and women, it is really difficult to do, now there are still some places in society that discriminate against women, in the workplace, women have to pay more effort than men, in the fierce competition, surpass competitors, sometimes even better than men, in order to gain a firm foothold in the workplace, rely on their own strength to prove themselves, work hard, and support themselves.

Sometimes she has to rely on this income to subsidize the family, visit her parents, take care of the elderly, what is missing at home, Qu Lihua has to buy it for her parents, give her parents a good life, it is really not easy for a girl.

Following Xia Yuxiang's head to go abroad for an investigation, it was a turning point in Qu Lihua's life, which not only gave her an in-depth understanding of the countries along the "Belt and Road", but also broadened her horizons.

There is also a harvest this time, she met Meng Wenjie, who is the same age as her, Meng Wenjie has no girlfriend, his situation is similar to Qu Lihua, he is usually busy with work, and he has almost no time to find a partner, and it has been delayed until now, and the family urged him to find a girlfriend, he agreed, but deep down he was always unwilling to compromise, he wanted to find a girl he liked to marry and establish a family.

Those girls who are too squeamish, or have princess disease, rely too much on their boyfriends, and have poor abilities, Meng Wenjie can't look down on them.

During this time, he got along with Qu Lihua, and also felt that Qu Lihua was very good, this girl was very beautiful, and she was young, and she had made some achievements in her career in the workplace, and she had a very promising future, she was smart and clever, and she was honest and kind.

Meng Wenjie did not show his feelings for Qu Lihua in person, he quietly found the head of Xia Yuxiang, saying that he wanted to pursue Qu Lihua.

"If you like it, just chase it, I think Xiaoqu is very good, I support you to chase her, such a good girl, you can't find it with a lantern, such a good opportunity, why don't you chase it?"

Meng Wenjie was a little scared, "This kind of girl has her own opinions and ideas, I'm afraid that people won't want to, I confess, how embarrassing it will be if I am rejected?"

"Now we have to travel together, in case people don't like me, how can I get along with her?"

"We have to meet every day!"

"Hahaha......" Captain Xia Yuxiang smiled, "Xiao Meng, why don't you have the courage?"

"I think Xiaoqu is very good, people are beautiful and have a good figure, but female white-collar workers, that is, you young people say 'white bones', describing the elite in the workplace, people are the backbone, her work performance is very good, and she is also reliable, I am optimistic about the two of you, and I also approve of your pursuit of her. ”

"Don't be afraid, if you like people, just give them a hint, if you think it's not good to confess now, just wait for the appropriate opportunity to confess in the future!"

"Okay, thank you, Captain Xia!"

"You're welcome, if you can promote a marriage, I will become a moon old, I am very happy, this is something I didn't expect, and it is also a beautiful thing!"

"You are all very young, you all have development opportunities, I still envy you young people, our generation is more difficult than you, at that time the economic conditions were not good, our generation had to suffer more, and we were not rich, and we have experienced a lot of things, many tests, in retrospect, our generation is not easy. ”

"We talked about dedication in that era, in order to build the motherland, but also dedicated their youth, we fell in love at that time, but also romantic, boys write love letters to girls, excerpt some romantic poems, give to the beloved girl, at that time I didn't have money to buy flowers, unlike you now have mobile phones, there are tablet computers, our era, the material conditions are really bad, even the pants are torn, or reluctant to lose, sew and mend and wear for another three years. ”

"Now I see a lot of young people who pursue fashion with holes in their pants and deliberately dress up as hip-hop, thinking that this is fashion, that is, the trend, I think they are too superficial, many traditional good virtues have been forgotten by young people, and it is difficult to return to our simple era. ”

"Be diligent and thrifty, be strict with yourself, be lenient with others, dedicate your youth to the motherland, go without money, talk about feelings, at that time I was really proud, I really wanted to do something when I was young, and now I am also old, looking at you young people, and I miss my youth. ”

"It's good to be young, you have a lot of possibilities, your future depends on you to create, so I encourage young people to meet the person they like, and boldly pursue it, because this time you met Xiaoqu, if you don't confess, such a good girl, you pass by her, maybe you will never meet again, the fate of people and people is really wonderful, you must cherish it!"

Meng Wenjie listened to the serious words of the head of Xia Yuxiang, and his heart was very warm.

He nodded, "Head Xia, thank you for your teaching, listening to your words, it really made me suddenly brighter, I made up my mind to pursue Miss Qu, through this period of getting along, I feel that I have waited for so many years, just to wait for a girl like her, she meets my criteria for choosing a mate, whether it is appearance, work ability, temperament and character, she is compatible with me, we get along very happily!"

"Okay, now that you have made up your mind, take advantage of the opportunity yourself, I'll wait for your good news!"

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