723 Recognize yourself

Let's talk about another story that we are familiar with, which is also a situation that everyone can often encounter. Do I want it now?

It is said that in front of a very popular snack bar, a group of customers are queuing up to buy food, and there is such a young man queuing, but at this time, a big man with a full face is in front of him.

The young man, who must have been strong-blooded, patted the big man on the shoulder and said, 'Why are you in line?

Actually, there's nothing wrong with that, we all think it should be normal.

As a result, the strong man who cut into the queue turned around and grabbed the young man's neck and scolded: 'What's wrong with Lao Tzu cutting in line?

It was said that the young man was wearing a pair of hiking shoes at the time, and his neck was choked, and he stepped on the strong man's feet in a hurry, probably because he was really stepped on, and the strong man let go The young man was so painful that he hugged his feet and screamed, and the young man also knew that the situation was not right, so he quickly turned around and left.

As a result, when the young man was about to turn around and leave, the strong man who cut in line silently picked up the stainless steel guide sign at the door and pointed it at the young man's head!

And then again!

Again!

This series of actions happened so quickly that the people around him barely had time to react, and the young man was knocked unconscious, and then everyone pulled the crazy man away, and he refused to give up, and he wanted to kick and beat the boy lying on the ground.

The scene was a mess, fortunately, the clerk quickly dialed 110, and the police from the police station arrived to subdue and take the man away.

So let's talk about it, how should we deal with this situation?"

After saying this story, he suddenly stopped, turned his head to look at the drone that fell next to him, as if he could make his serious eyes fall on all fans through the Internet at this time.

"The story of that driver, I think the white car driver is simply a psychopath, people are about to hit your car, and even you are almost in an accident, and you are still stupidly laughing with people? are you still there to say hello?

"On the contrary, I think the white car driver did a good job, and we will say another thing if he hit it, but after all, he didn't hit it, it's better to have more than one thing and one less thing!"

"The one who cut in line, tsk, that guy was so unlucky to meet such a person!"

"If I meet someone who cuts in line and turns around and grabs me by the neck, I'll grab him first and get him to death, it's not my problem anyway!"

"No, have you noticed? The three stories that Brother Yang told seem to be very similar to the situation he just encountered?"

"So is this what you want to tell us through these three stories?"

"Okay, Brother Yang, don't sell it, hurry up and tell everyone, why didn't you reason with those three people just now. ”

"That's right, you're not as weak as that young man, it's not easy to clean up those three people with your skills 1+1. ”

That's right, if Zhang Yang had stayed and given a little color to the three people who were still talking trash just now when he was gone, he wouldn't have to worry about losses at all with his skills, but he wouldn't have done it at all.

Zhang Yang couldn't help but think of the uncle he met before who had turned himself into an old man, and at that time he thought of a law in his mind, that is, the law of garbage man, and he felt that it was necessary to popularize this emerging law with the people in the live broadcast room.

"David Polley wrote a book called "The Garbage Truck Law", and with the appearance of this book, there is also an extension of a law, that is, the law of the garbage man, which is the kind of person who has a lot of negative garbage and needs to find a place to dump the garbage.

They are running around, full of negative garbage, full of frustration, anger, jealousy, calculation, hatred, pride and prejudice, greed, dissatisfaction, complaining, comparison, unpleasantness, ignorance, annoyance, revenge, and disappointment.

As the garbage in their hearts piled up and piled up, they eventually had to find a place to dump it, and sometimes, we just happened to bump into it, and the garbage was thrown at us.

So the three people who were still talking trash when I left just now are a bit like what I just described?

So, we don't have to mind when we meet such people, just smile, wave, stay away from them, and continue on our own path!

Let's not take their negative garbage and then spread it to our family, friends, co-workers, or other passers-by.

The bottom line here is that happy, successful people never let 'garbage people' take over a single day of their lives!

You must know that life is short, never waste your mind and energy on these things, it is best to smile when you meet such a person in life, after all, who will see it with garbage, you must know to cherish life and stay away from garbage!"

Zhang Yang said so much, and fans also understood, but there are still some people who feel incomprehensible in their hearts, thinking that no matter how they think about it, they feel a little cowardly.

"Doesn't that mean that we have been bullied by others, and we can't fight back?"

"Doesn't that mean that we have been scolded by others, and we can't talk back?"

"Doesn't that mean that someone else robbed the daughter-in-law, and we can't snatch it back?"

"What the hell? What kind of thing appeared in that violent scene just now? My daughter-in-law can't let people rob it?"

"But I still understand why Brother Yang did that just now, it was those three people who told you trash talk, but you don't want to worry about them, because if you care, it will delay your time and affect your mood, doesn't that mean?"

"This kind of realm is too high, I can't get it. ”

"But if I really meet someone in front of me cutting in line, I should also stand up and say it, after all, if you don't say it, I won't say it, won't there be more and more such people?"

After walking slowly forward for about 500 meters, a careful lake in the distance that was significantly smaller than Snake Lake appeared in sight, but this lake was more flavorful than Snake Lake under the surrounding scenery and the vast white snow on the top of the snow-capped mountain.

Zhang Yang's whole mood has become a little better, if the three people just now said trash talk did not affect his mood, it is impossible, but fortunately he held back at that time, after all, there is no need to worry about these people, especially at this time when he saw this beautiful glacial lake, the bad mood before that directly disappeared.

"What a little friend said just now is actually right, whether we meet people in line and cut in line, or people who don't give up their seats on the bus, these and other similar situations, we have the ability to take care of it, but we must also pay attention to the situation.

When you meet the kind of garbage people I mentioned next, you must recognize your own situation, hide if you can, and don't put yourself in it when the time comes.

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