Chinese man Zhang Baotong 2016.6.23

A few days ago, I wrote an article "Chinese Woman", and now I want to write another article "Chinese Man". The reason why I wrote "Chinese Men" was mainly because I read some articles about "Chinese Men Are Not Worthy of Chinese Women". The article said that Chinese men are generally sloppy in appearance and obscene in temperament, and they are no longer "worthy" of Chinese women who are in line with international standards. Some people even said that "today's men are either dog-headed or shrunken, none of them are comfortable to look at, but girls are quite temperamental." Even the Japanese named Kato Kaichi said, "Chinese girls are so beautiful, slender, light, why are the men standing next to them always like that?"

Seeing this, I felt a little embarrassed. Yes, our migrant workers and ordinary people are some of them "with gray skin, dry hair, cold clothes and shoes, confused eyes, and even crooked backs, crab foxtrots, sleepy eyes, and malaise." But we also have a lot of handsome, dashing, personable, well-dressed, and dignified men. Why don't we take these people as the image and model of our Chinese men? Perhaps the majority of Chinese men are still relatively poor, not very elaborate, and lack a romantic atmosphere, so the image of the entire Chinese man has been greatly discounted and has fallen.

In order to evaluate our Chinese men fairly and accurately, I have found some of the most prominent and concentrated advantages and disadvantages of Chinese men, such as the shortcomings: not knowing respect, not understanding amorous feelings, virgin complex, not paying attention to image, too much face-loving, too selfish, too self-righteous, beating wives, bullying good and fearing evil. These evaluations really hit the nail on the head of our Chinese men, making us lose face and feel ashamed. But as a man, we also have more and more prominent advantages than men in other countries. For example, we Chinese men are sincere, take care of their families, do not drink too much, do housework, value marriage, respect the old and love the young, and be polite and polite. If you want to show off your romance and taste, you can go to a foreign man, but if you want to live at home, you should find a Chinese man who is economical and practical. Although the appearance of Chinese men is not so good-looking, they will make you feel good if they are married and live a good life.

We might as well get to know foreign men, compare them, and you will have obvious feelings. Russian men are high-spirited, but they are alcoholics, and in the Far East it even happens that if you give him a bottle of vodka, he can let you take his girlfriend for the night. Americans and French men are supposed to be relatively well-educated men, but they are lavish in spending money and more casual in their sexuality. This makes Chinese women simply unacceptable. There are also Japanese men, who should be the highest in Asian civilization, but not only do they not do housework, but they can also go outside to find a mistress to spend the night. If a Chinese woman finds this kind of man, will she be able to go on?

Many of our celebrities and celebrities are looking for foreign men, not to mention those who have been divorced, but how are those who are not divorced? Due to the differences in economy, society, region, culture and customs, Chinese men are actually the perfect match for Chinese women. He is like a shoe that is not good-looking, making Chinese women feel the most suitable and comfortable to wear.

Chinese society is plagued by internal and external troubles, poverty and backwardness for hundreds of years, and a good life of more than 30 years has just passed, and you have to compare with the rich people who have been rich for hundreds of years, how can your dress and demeanor be comparable to others? But we Chinese men also have their own unique advantages and advantages, that is, we are industrious, brave, simple, and kind. I'll give you an example, if you read it, you'll be in awe of Chinese men.

After the end of the Korean War, Ridgway, who succeeded Douglas MacArthur as commander-in-chief of the "United ****", wrote in his memoirs that the squadron was the strongest and most ferocious enemy he had ever seen, and they often launched countless attacks regardless of casualties. And they are also the most respectable enemies, they never kill the wounded or abandoned, they will put the wounded on the roads that the American convoy must pass and then leave, they never fire at the medical convoy, and they never attack any medical station.

It can be seen that Chinese men are the most heroic and kind men in the world. In order to defend their homeland and their women, they can go to great lengths to defeat the world's most vicious enemies. We have also seen the brutality of the Americans, Japanese soldiers and Russians, but the majesty and military discipline and bravery and kindness of the Chinese are rare in the world.

Chinese men are not only brave and good at fighting, but also have infinite wisdom, and their contributions to the world's science and technology, culture and civilization are also enormous. If we do not make big mistakes and no longer suffer from internal and external troubles, we will surpass the Western countries within 50 or 100 years, and we will still maintain the strong and prosperous status of the Chinese nation as we have done in the past few thousand years. At that point, Chinese men will once again prove that they are the best men in the world.

Although the depictions of Chinese men are somewhat ugly, it is fair to say that the overall image of Chinese men is indeed unsatisfactory. And these depictions are actually some complaints and complaints from Chinese women about the image of Chinese men, which also contain ardent hopes. Because they are no longer satisfied with the fact that men can provide for their families, but hope that their men can become their admirers and beloved.

However, in the thousands of years of Chinese cultural tradition, Confucian culture has always emphasized that men should be gentlemen. In "National Style, Qin Feng, Xiaorong", there is "a gentleman who thinks of words, and he is as warm as jade." ". The so-called jade has ten virtues, which can be described as a gentleman. The ten virtues are benevolence, wisdom, righteousness, courtesy, happiness, loyalty, faithfulness, heaven, earth, and Tao. "Benevolence" is the highest state of Confucian ethics and morality. Therefore, when we look at the evaluation and requirements of traditional Chinese culture for good men, almost all of them are inner and inner cultivation, but we don't care about what the appearance is. So, where are the requirements on how to dress and groom, or how to improve the temperament and demeanor? In the minds of ordinary people, the standard for a good man in China has always been to be an official and earn money. Moreover, Chinese men almost regard "returning to their hometown" and "raising their families" as their responsibilities and goals in life, and regard appearance and demeanor as an indifferent thing.

We live in today's society, and raising a family is no longer a difficult task, so we should not neglect the cultivation of self-image and good demeanor. This is not only a kind of self-image enhancement and beautification, but also a realistic embodiment of spiritual civilization. We have to compare our strength with foreign men, but also with their demeanor and charm. Because grace and charm are a strength in themselves.

Chinese women have been in line with international standards in terms of dress and demeanor. We men should also conform to society, keep pace with the times, and pay attention to and standardize our personal dress, demeanor, speech and behavior, so that our image and personality appear more solemn and attractive, and let our women appreciate and love us more.

But Chinese women should not just blindly complain and dislike, let alone belittle and scandalize their men, but should educate and guide them how to change themselves and beautify themselves. If you can mold your man into a man you like and admire, then you are a good wife for a Chinese man. Chinese men are the best men in the world. They are industrious and brave, smart and intelligent, and have a very high level of understanding, with the patient guidance and careful training of Chinese women, they will be able to transform the demeanor and charm of Chinese men into a kind of soft power, showing it in front of the world.