Xiyue continues to do her emotional counseling work, and today, someone has been consulted anonymously through social media, which is the first time she has encountered anonymous.

Anonymous: Hello, is it Xiyue, a counselor from Happy Love Network?

Yuzuki: Yes, hello, is there any emotional distress?

Anonymous: yes, I've been having a bit of a relationship lately and would like to ask for some advice.

Yuzuki: What is the situation? We are completely confidential, and once the consultation is over, all the conversation records will be cleared immediately, so you can tell me your troubles with confidence.

Anonymous: Well, I know, I came here because you have a good reputation.

Yuzuki: Okay, please say, I'll listen!

Anonymous: That's right, I liked a boy in high school, let's call him A, I liked him very much, he liked me very much, but I went to another place because of academic problems, and when I came back, I found that A liked a girl during this period, but I didn't mind, I was still with him. Later, because of an accident, I was forced to leave him, I thought he would wait for me to come back, but I didn't expect that when I came back, he was already married and had children. I was going to give up directly, but I still can't let go of him in my heart, what should I do? I want to go to him, but it will disturb his family, I don't look for him, I miss him very much, I don't know what to do, I am depressed every day, can you tell me what to do?

Yuzuki: First of all, you let go of the depression and distress in your heart. It is completely normal to encounter such things in a relationship, and from your story, you find that if you want to destroy and disturb his family, you must not want to do such a thing in your heart. At the same time, you can't let go of A because you miss it if you don't see it.

I would like to know how much affection you have for A, and some of our counselors are just unwilling to let go because they spend too much time with each other, so what is your reason?

Consultant: I'm right A, how can I say it, it's true that I can't let go, and it's also true that I love him, don't you like a person who is full of him?

Yuzuki: Do you have any other suitors now?

Consulted: Actually, I have a boyfriend now, he is very good and good to me, but with him I just don't have that feeling with A, maybe, I can't call him love. I didn't show him that I still like A, so I'm actually very entangled right now, I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend, and I don't want to destroy other families, but I want to be with A.

Yuzuki: Okay, I can totally understand your struggle. Have you met with A since you came back, and what is his attitude towards you?

Interviewer: I've seen it a few times, it's good, and I think he likes me a little bit.

Yuzuki: Okay, now please imagine with me and answer my questions.

Interviewer: Okay.

Yuzuki: You're on a lonely lonely guide, with no water, no food, nothing, you've been hungry for two days, tired, hungry, and thirsty. At this time, A and your current boyfriend B also come to the island, A has nothing like you, but in three days there will be a boat to save A, and he has the right to take a person from the island. But B has plenty of food, fruit, and warm clothes, and you have been hungry for three days, and B tells you with a hideous face that as long as you are with him, he can guarantee that you will always have food and clothing on this island, and will only love you for the rest of his life, and that B may have a ship to save him, and if you choose B, you may be on this island for the rest of your life, or you may return to your original place not long after. What would you choose?

Interviewer: I would not hesitate to choose A.

Xiyue: You have to think clearly, you choose A, you are going to starve for six days, and you may die of hunger at any time during this time.

Consulted: I still want to choose A, even if I die, I want to die in her arms.

Yuzuki finally understood that this counselor really loved A, she was thinking about what to do, if it was purely from a secular point of view, she would definitely want to guide her to give up, but as a professional emotional counselor, she couldn't do it one-sidedly.

Yuzuki: Okay, from this little experiment just now, I found out that you really love A, and I can fully understand this kind of entanglement and pain. So, can you tell us about the difference between how B makes you feel and A makes you feel?

Counselor: First of all, it is a personality problem, A is more cheerful, sunny, childish, romantic, I feel very happy and relaxed with him; B is a gentleman, a little solemn, dull, he is always meticulous, although everything is good with him, but I don't have that feeling of love.

Xiyue: Have you ever thought about excluding A and B and then trying to get in touch with C? He has both A and B advantages, have you ever tried to go out of them?

Consulted: I didn't think about it, I didn't want to, I didn't have the energy or I wanted to meet new people, to be honest, I just wanted to be with him.

Yuzuki: Are you afraid that A's wife will be hurt and B will be sad?

Interviewer: Exactly, that's what I'm struggling with.

Yuzuki: I think you should look for the point where there is an entrance that can be opened, and you say that B is a stable person, so maybe your confession is the one that will not hurt him. You can open this face first.

Consulted: Okay, I see, it's much easier to talk to you, I thought you would look down on me, but I didn't expect you to fully understand me, thank you very much.

Yuzuki: There's no need to be burdened, it's hard to talk about feelings, and there's no reason why anyone is right or wrong.

Consulted: Well, thank you, I already have a plan in mind, I'm offline, thank you. Good bye!

Yuzuki: Goodbye!

After the end, Xiyue is really relaxed, every day to face all kinds of emotional problems, are quite complicated, she can always empathize with the people who come to consult, from their point of view to know what they want, in fact, what advice can she make?

Splendid Garden.

"Shu Yue, don't you feel bored in the office every day?"

"It's okay, Ah Yan." Lu Shuyue always smiled crookedly, smiled brightly, raised her head and looked at Gu Yan, her face full of spring breeze.

"Let's go downstairs to the park."

"No, these designs will have to be asked within three months, and it's been more than a month, I'm afraid it's too late."

Gu Yan looked at her tired and aggrieved, and felt a little distressed in her heart, "You have to eat that meal, there is braised pork you like."

"Okay, let's go eat then."

At the dinner table, "Hey, Ah Yan, where is my mobile phone?" The person in charge over there said that there was a manuscript with wrong lines, saying that it was going to be sent to me, and I wanted to take a look at it now."

"It should be in the office, I'll go upstairs and take a look". Before Gu Yan started eating, he put down his chopsticks and went to find her mobile phone.

The office was messy, full of design drafts, and he had to open them one by one to find them.

Suddenly, he saw a portrait with only an outline in the far corner of the office, and although he could barely make out the face, he was sure that this person was not him.

So who is she drawing?

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