Get rid of the habit of getting angry, translated by Zhang Bao 2018.1.30

There was a little girl who had a very bad temper and loved to get angry at every turn. In order to get the little girl to break this habit, her mother gave her a bag of nails and said to her, "Every time you want to lose your temper, put a nail in the fence."

On the first day, the girl drove 37 nails to the fence. Over the next few weeks, as she learned to control her anger, the number of nails she hammered each day gradually decreased. She found it easier to control her temper than to drive a nail to the fence.

Finally, one day the girl did not lose her temper again. She told her mother about it. The mother advised the girl to remove a nail from the fence every day so that she could control her temper. The girl, at the request of her mother, took a nail from the fence every day. As the days passed, the little girl finally told her mother that all the nails had been removed.

The mother took her daughter by the hand, took her to the fence, and said to her, "You are doing a good job, my daughter, but you can see that these fences are full of holes, and you will know that they are not the same as the old fences." Every time you get angry, a small hole is left in these fences. ”

You can stick a knife at someone else and then pull it out. When something like this happens, no matter how many times you say sorry, the wound will always be there. Verbal trauma can be just as bad as physical trauma. Friendships between friends are invaluable, they will make you smile and can encourage you to succeed. They listen to your words, share your praise, and always open up to you. So, you can't just get angry and hurt their feelings.

The love in my heart is translated by Zhang Bao 2017.12.17

A boy falls in love with two girls at the same time and doesn't know which one to choose. Someone said to him, "You should ask yourself and answer truthfully." The question is, when you're happy, which girl would you like to share your happiness with? ”

Again, there is another question that you should answer truthfully, and that is, "When you are sad, who do you want to share your grief with?" The person you have in mind is the person you love. ”

Of course, it is perfect if you can think of the same girl when you are happy and sad. But if you don't think of the same girl, I suggest that you should choose someone with whom you are willing to share your grief.

In life, there is often more sadness than joy. When you are happy, you can have many people to share your happiness, so it is not so necessary. If you can live happily, you can even enjoy it alone. But unfortunately, not many people are willing to share the grief with you. If you are willing to tell a girl about your happiness, that girl must be someone close to you or understanding. But it's not entirely like that, if that girl only thinks of you when you're happy and goes to someone else when you're sad, then the lover is too unstable and she won't see you as someone with whom she can spend her whole life.

Of course, I would be happy if I was the first to share my happiness with her. However, if she is sad, I will be willing to stay by her side and alleviate her pain. Only then will I believe that I hold an important place in her heart.

If you're sad, who thinks of you first?