Psychological role Zhang Baotong 2018.7.22

Psychological action is a psychological feeling, and this perceptual perception is sometimes wrong and unrealistic, but it often drives us to follow the feeling. For example, when I wake up every morning, I have to post my work online. After dawn in the morning, mosquitoes are more rampant, and I am most afraid of mosquitoes. So, I always have to wear long clothes, pants and socks and sit at the computer. However, in the summer, the weather in Xi'an is very hot, especially this year, starting from the beginning of July 17, the maximum temperature has been around 40 degrees for many consecutive days. As a result, the air conditioner is often left on all day and all night. It stands to reason that if you turn on the air conditioner, you won't see mosquitoes, and you don't have to wear long clothes, pants and socks anymore. So, I sat shirtless in my cabin in shorts and started writing or posting work. I couldn't sit for a while, and I felt like I had been bitten by a mosquito on my body, legs, and feet. However, after watching for a long time, I didn't see a single mosquito, and I also knew that when the air conditioner was turned on, the mosquitoes would not come out. However, my body, legs, and feet were just itching. I had no choice but to wear my shirt, pants and socks before the feeling slowly faded away.

I know it's a habitual mental effect, even if it's psychological, but it really has a very noticeable effect on my psyche and feelings. For example, I am very sensitive to the smell of smoke, and I feel dizzy when I smell it. However, my son likes to smoke. At that time, he lived in a hut and liked to smoke and play games. And I sit in the living room surfing the web or writing. My son knew I didn't like him playing games, so he always kept the door of the hut closed. But, for some reason, I always felt the smell of smoke in the house. And I have a strict rule for my son not to smoke in the house. So, as soon as I smelled the smoke, I knocked on the door of the hut and got angry at my son and said why are you smoking again. The son said no. I don't see smoke in the hut. But I just smelled the smoke. This kind of thing happened a few times in a row, and the conflict between me and my son intensified a little, and my wife saw that we were a little incompatible, so she let my son move to a new house.

There is one more thing that I will never forget for years. I used to work as an assistant to the party committee in the party office of the railway education center, and the railway school was going to be handed over to the local government, so I should go down to the middle school to take up a position, but the leadership positions in the middle school were full, so I went down to a primary school to serve as a secretary. At that time, the old principal had just retired, and the vice principal assumed the position of principal. Because the old principal and the vice principal had a great contradiction and were incompatible, after the old principal retired, the vice principal took over the principal and began to carry out a major shift change for the old principal's group in the past, from the director of teaching to the team counselor. I'm a bookish person who is very unaccustomed to this kind of practice, so I firmly oppose this practice. However, at the end of the semester, my assessment result was 68%. At that time, the regulations stated that a pass rate of more than 85% was excellent, 66% was qualified, and less than this proportion was unqualified. This surprised me very much, because I used to be at the top of every assessment in the education center, and I have only been in the school for less than two months, and I have not offended anyone. I read through the entire evaluation form one by one, and found that there were thirteen or fourteen evaluation forms that all unanimously marked me as incompetent, and these more than ten forms were connected. At that time, there were only about 40 faculty members in the whole school, and more than 10 of them were incompetent to me, and of course I knew who these people were, and they were all at the instigation and organization of an important person. Because ordinary teachers don't do this, and they don't have the guts, after all, I am their secretary, and I have a key role in their progress and growth, and I have not harmed their interests. It is impossible for them not to think about the consequences of doing so.

I gritted my teeth at this incident, but I couldn't help it. I have also been a teacher in the past, and I have also evaluated leaders, but the general situation is that although many people are dissatisfied with a certain leader, they still show mercy during the evaluation, and they don't want the leader to hate them. Because if you grade a leader as incompetent, it won't have much impact on the leader, unless more than 60% of the faculty and staff in the school join forces and act in unison. Moreover, this incompetent may be who drew it, although the leader doesn't say it in his mouth, but he can guess in his heart that he will hate you to death from now on.

This incident made me have no peace during the whole holiday, because the assessment results have to be reported to the leaders of the Education Commission, which will make the leaders think that I am too incompetent, and I have just been like this when I go to school. I originally wanted to report to the leader, but I didn't think it was meaningful, because the school was going to be handed over soon, and the leader couldn't manage it so much. After thinking about it for almost a holiday, I found that the school atmosphere had been ruined, so I decided to learn to be more mature, not to be too serious on the surface, and not to oppose the relationship with those people. But sooner or later I won't let them go. How many years have passed, the principal has long since left, and because I have made some changes myself, the results of future evaluations are quite high, but this incident has left a strong shadow on my heart. Every time I see those teachers, I feel a sense of rejection in my heart, especially when I see them together, I always feel that they are messing with someone's ghost and making someone's bad. In fact, people eat and drink together, talk and laugh together. Moreover, whenever there is an incompetent or unqualified assessment, the first thing I think is that it is one of them.

We often say that hearing is false, seeing is believing, and feeling is often illusory. But when we encounter something that we have only heard about but have not seen with our own eyes, what do we draw conclusions on? For example, we think: This person could not have done such a thing, or this person must have done it. And the formation of this feeling comes from those deep impressions that we usually accumulate, from that kind of natural imagination.

There is a very famous experiment in psychological effects. Psychologist Gardner experiments on a death row inmate. He told the death row inmate, "The way we carry out the death penalty is for you to bled to death. This is a little beneficial thing that you do to humanity before you die. "The prisoner was lying on the bed in the small room of the laboratory, and one hand reached out to a large room next door. He heard the nurse and doctor next door busy, preparing to bleed him. The nurse asked the doctor if it was enough to prepare 5 vials? The doctor said it was not enough, this person was big, and he had to prepare 7. The nurse clicked the tip of a knife on his arm to begin bleeding, and put hot water in a thin tube above his arm, which dripped drip down his arm into the bottle. The prisoner only felt that his blood was flowing drop by drop. After dropping 3 bottles, he was already in shock, dropping 5 bottles and he was dead, and the symptoms of death were the same as dying from bloodletting. But in reality he didn't shed a drop of blood.

In fact, there are many cases in the medical field, and many cancer patients with poor psychological quality are not sick to death, but scared to death, so in cancer diagnosis, doctors often hide the true condition of the patient himself. Another example is a man who is torn between his family and a third party, and he wants the fortune teller to calculate whether he will get divorced. If the fortune teller says he will definitely get divorced, maybe he is. If the fortune teller says he won't get a divorce, maybe he really won't. It can be said that no one can escape the influence of psychological effects, and how much impact psychological effects will have on people can only be adapted to people, and the effects on different people are also very different. If you want to overcome the influence of psychological effects on you, you must respect objectivity, understand yourself, and strengthen the cultivation of psychological qualities, so that you will not be dominated by psychological effects.