If Zhang Baotong 2018.7.7

"If" is a magic word that can bring people's associations into boundless mysteries and subvert a reality into many different versions. For example, if it had not been for the collision between the small planet that changed the earth's environment and caused the extinction of the dinosaurs, what would the earth be like now? If Napoleon had not been defeated by Kutuzov, what would Europe and the world be like now? If Li Zicheng had arrived at Shanhaiguan three days earlier, what would the history of China be like later?

If it is always our dissatisfaction with reality and a kind of imagination and yearning for a happy ending. When things don't go well in our lives, we have a myriad of ifs and ifs in our minds. When we're bored with our jobs, we think how nice it would have been if I could have gone to college instead of working as a worker! When we're angry with our spouse, we think how nice it would have been if I had found another woman instead of this one! When our kids weren't so aggressive, we think that if we had kept our kids in check, they wouldn't have been so bothered. Of course, we don't think about and can't imagine what would have happened if you hadn't taken this path in the first place, but had gone the other way. You didn't look for this woman but found that woman, and what is the result now? If you had really taken care of your children, what would have been the end? You can only imagine these contents, and the imaginary content is always peaceful and beautiful. If that happens, what will happen in practice? I'm afraid no one knows.

If it is a hypothesis, it can be used not only for our past, but also for our future, and it can serve as a warning and guide for our present and future, reminding us that if we were better at something, or work harder, our lives would be better. At the same time, it can also remind us how to deal with the unexpected, so as to become a mature and well-liked person.

If you can remain calm and resourceful in the face of calamity and danger, you may be able to escape the danger zone safely. If you can keep a clear head when you have been wronged by others, you will not put the blame on yourself. Even if everyone is doubting you, you can be open-minded and calm. But you have to be considerate of other people's feelings and wait for the truth to come out. If you don't want to blame others and want to clear your name with arguments and justifications, sometimes arguments and justifications can lead to more suspicion. So, sometimes waiting is the wisest way to do it, neither to increase the suspicion of others nor to arouse the hatred of others.

If you love to dream, but don't let dreams be your master. Dreams will take you to many psychedelic places and make you waste time in your addiction. If you like to be cranky, but don't let those thoughts become the target of your thoughts. Because many ideas are whimsical and unrealistic. If you encounter victories and disasters, be calm, not shocked, and deal with them in a calm manner. If you always like to tell others what is on your mind, then don't complain that others will ridicule you and laugh at you, and don't be annoyed that you have been deceived. If you can win a large sum of money and use it on a very risky investment in one go. Once you lose all your money, you must suffer silently and make a comeback, and do not say a word of regret about your loss. If you want to make your body and mind strong and healthy, you must do a good job of health care and exercise at ordinary times, rather than trying to hold it up at critical moments. If you can maintain the virtue of being approachable, get along with others, and treat each other with good feelings, you will not lose the same feeling even when you walk side by side with the king.

If neither enemies nor best friends can hurt you, if people trust you but don't rely on you too much, if you don't take your wife's love for granted, if you don't treat the needs of your children as a nuisance, if you can focus on and love your work, if you can enjoy life with a combination of work and rest. Then, you will have access to everything that this earth has. And, more importantly, you will become an informed, well-liked and respected person.

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