199. Calm down for a few days
Zhu Zhu returned home and did not see her sister.
Zhu Zhu's mother said: "Your sister is sleeping upstairs, and she didn't fall asleep all night yesterday." ”
"What's going on this time?"
Every time Zhu Bin quarrels with his brother-in-law, he will go back to his parents' house.
Mother, every time she says that the wind is rain, small things will be said by her to be big things, she is like this, children's things are not small.
"Your brother-in-law is not small now, your sister is tired of work, and she even wronged your sister, saying that your sister worked until the middle of the night to fall in love with other men, and actually did something to your sister, your sister has several bruises on her body, I don't know if the internal organs are injured. ”
Dad was very angry: "I kicked lightly at that time." Your mother and I are not dead yet, so we dare to do it! How long has it been since he did that bastard thing last time, and now he is here again. He was kicked in the brain by a donkey, and he didn't want to forget it. ”
Mom said again: "When your father went to pick up your sister angrily, he directly kicked your brother-in-law, kicked him in the mouth and bleed, and he still relied on the strength of the wine and wanted to beat your father!"
"What, dad is going to pick it up?"
"Your brother-in-law locked your sister in the room and didn't let her come back, and her mobile phone was confiscated, but fortunately, you called us at the beginning, and your brother and your cousin took your dad to pick up your sister. ”
Mom patted her thigh as always: "If this wasn't close, let me tell you, your brother-in-law's virtue, your sister was beaten to death, I don't know." ”
Brother Zhu Ming also sat on the side: "Brother-in-law, he had a hard brain, drank some wine, and no one answered his sister's phone, so he lost his temper and said that his sister was not working...... When we went, he still locked his sister in the room, if it wasn't for my father's beating, I slammed the door open with Brother Wei, and I didn't plan to release him. ”
When his brother said this, Zhu Zhu knew that this matter was really serious.
Shut people up, and confiscated mobile phones, this Tan Laosan doesn't want to pass or wants to spill with the strength of wine.
My sister slept all morning.
Calling her down for lunch at noon, she kept shouting that she had a headache.
My mother said distressedly: "You are in this class day and night, and if you increase your salary, you will be made desperate, I think it is better to find an easier one." ”
Actually, that's not the point, the point is that her daughter works so hard, and she is misunderstood to say something about messing around outside, can her mother not be angry.
She has nothing to say about her daughter's temper, but she can say that her daughter's private life is disorderly, and her mother can't swallow this breath no matter what.
After eating, my mother asked my sister for her opinion.
My sister said calmly: "If you can't go on, just leave." ”
When my mother saw her sister's statement, she was even more excited: "You should leave, let him know that if you don't work hard for this family, he is nothing." ”
After saying that, I asked Zhu Zhu's opinion.
"Zhuzhu, what do you think?"
Such a big thing is not something that can be done with an opinion as soon as the brain is hot.
In this matter, all the mistakes were caused by my brother-in-law's action, but if you want to really solve the problem, you have to seriously find the reason.
When her sister returned to the room, Zhu Zhu followed her.
The room was very quiet, my sister didn't speak, and Zhu Zhu didn't know what to say to comfort her.
Suddenly, my sister said: "Your brother-in-law didn't agree with me to continue to do it there, many times I didn't receive a call from him when I was working, he was already a little unhappy, this time the two of them had a bit of a conflict, isn't this what it is." ”
It turned out that before this incident, my sister was already in a cold war with my brother-in-law.
It just so happens that my sister is very busy at work these days, and many of my brother-in-law's calls have not been received, and after work, my sister's colleague said to go for a walk, relax and relax, and my sister didn't want to go home, so I agreed!
Coincidentally, my brother-in-law saw it, so he took my sister home directly, and then locked my sister in the room.
At first, the brother-in-law didn't think about anything, but how could the sister's temper be just like that, a verbal stimulus, and the brother-in-law drank alcohol, and the two argued.
My sister was so angry that she called her brother and asked him to pick her up and take her back to her parents' house.
The brother-in-law was furious and snatched his sister's mobile phone and forbade her to go back.
In the middle of the night, my sister called and said that she was going home, and she must have quarreled with her brother-in-law, and there were such things in previous years, so my brother decided to call again to ask clearly.
Who knew that if I hit again, no one would answer.
Now my brother was in a hurry, got up and knocked on his parents' door, saying that after my sister made a call, no one answered the phone, and then simply turned off the phone.
When my mother heard this, she was anxious, for fear that her sister would be beaten to death by her brother-in-law.
Anyway, in my mother's eyes, my brother-in-law has never looked pleasing to the eye.
"Call Zhu Wei, I see if your brother-in-law wants to turn the sky upside down!"
The three of them came to my sister's house violently, and as soon as I entered the door, my brother-in-law was still sitting on the stool with his eyebrows crossed, and my father came directly to kick him angrily, just kicking his face, and his mouth was bleeding all of a sudden.
The brother-in-law stood up, his hands raised.
"What, now even my father-in-law wants to fight?"
The brother-in-law finally put down his hand and said, "We have nothing to do, you can't take Hamahama away." ”
"She's my daughter, I can't take her home yet......?"
The door was opened by my sister.
She packed her bags and walked out of the room without looking back.
The brother-in-law ran over at once and hugged his sister: "Don't go, don't go......"
"Don't go, wait to be beaten to death by you?"
Cousin Zhu Wei pushed it, and his brother Zhu Ming stepped forward and grabbed his brother-in-law's collar again: "Do you think that my temper is too good, and I think our family is easy to bully, if you really provoke me, you should be careful." ”
There was such a big commotion, and the two nephews were just watching from the sidelines, Tan Weikai called his mother, but his sister didn't answer and went home directly.
Zhu Zhu understood the ins and outs.
"I have a lot of conflicts with your brother-in-law, but he is usually good to me, so I can endure everything I can. Now, I want to work hard to go up, and the gap between me and your brother-in-law is getting bigger and bigger, and now our thoughts are not at the same level at all, and talking to him is sometimes playing the piano to the cow. ”
This kind of married life is actually very tiring.
"In normal times, I was still in the mood to teach him, but now I am too tired from work, and I really don't have the extra mood to care about him. ”
This incident broke out, and the brother-in-law bumped into his sister and other male colleagues taking a walk just ***.
The problems of the two of them are cumulative.
"Sister, divorce is a big deal, if you really don't have feelings, I won't say a word, I will definitely agree, but if you just encounter contradictions and frictions in life, I suggest you calm down for a few days. ”
After Zhu Zhu finished speaking, he actually regretted it a little.
It is said that if you start beating people, this day will come to an end.
Hitting people can only be divided into zero and countless times, this statement Zhu Zhu agrees.
In the middle of an argument, the brother-in-law and the elder sister pushed the elder sister down at the head of the bed, and the elder sister's waist hit the edge of the bed, and there was a large bruise on the waist. It was his fault, and there is no doubt about it.
But brother-in-law, he didn't mean to directly slap his sister's face, or punch and kick.
confiscated my sister's mobile phone, but I just didn't want my sister's family to interfere in this matter.
He was so excited because he thought his sister didn't love him anymore.
Zhu Bin didn't insist that she must leave, she half leaned on the bed, in a daze.
I guess I'm thinking about the past.
Zhu Zhu exited the room and went to find her brother.
"Brother, sister's matter, what do you think?"
Zhu Ming scratched his head with both hands, and put it down again: "Mom, she is so excited when she encounters something, divorce can solve the problem?" If there is no affection between the two of them, it is better to say one word directly: leave." The problem is that the two of them caused this conflict because they care about each other. ”
Hearing that the matter was quite serious, Mr. Dai asked for leave from the company and rushed over. Listening to Zhu Zhu tell the ins and outs, he said: "Every family has a scripture that they want to read.
The contradictions they present and let us see are not all the contradictions in their lives. When husband and wife are together, they will keep having conflicts, and then they will keep solving them. They just didn't solve the conflict in time, it doesn't mean that they have reached the point of divorce. ”
Mr. Dai touched Zhu Zhu's head: "I know that my sister is your own sister, and if you care, it will be messy, but there must be a sober person in the family, and don't expand this matter again." You and your mother do ideological work, first cool this matter down, and give time for my sister to think clearly. ”
Mr. Dai has always advocated that outsiders should not interfere too much in the affairs between husband and wife.
By outsiders, he means anyone other than husband and wife, including parents, siblings.
Therefore, sometimes Zhu Zhu and Mr. Dai quarrel, or even when they were in a mood, Mr. Dai would not let Zhu Zhu go back to his parents' house with temperament, and he did not allow Dai's father and mother to meddle in the affairs between them.
In the past few years, Mr. Dai still had to save face in front of her, and when he went to bed at night, although he did not apologize directly, he would still sleep with Zhu Zhu in his arms.
Zhu Zhu refused, so he came directly to strengthen it, in short, he had to hold it.
hugged and hugged, Zhu Zhu's anger disappeared.
It's not a big deal, what she wants is nothing more than Mr. Dai's attitude that cares about herself.
Later, Mr. Dai had no discipline in front of Zhu Zhu, and every time she had signs of anger, Mr. Dai immediately had a smooth hair.
And say to yourself: from the heart.
Zhu Zhu didn't hear it at first, but later learned that Mr. Dai was saying that he confessed.
Over the years, the two have formed a tacit understanding.
That's how they get along.
So Zhu Zhu felt that Mr. Dai's words made sense.
At the beginning, Zhu Zhuyi said that her mother still didn't understand it, if something like this happened, and her mother's family didn't support her, wouldn't her brother-in-law be more able to gain an inch.
"Mom, we have already supported my sister, as for how to deal with the matter, let's not interfere. You can't make decisions for your sister. ”
"I just don't feel worthy for your sister. ”
Mom said, and tears flowed.
Mom is soft-hearted.
Strength is only for outsiders to see.
"Is it worth it, sister, she knows it in her heart. We can be her strong support, no matter what she decides, we will support her, but we can't make decisions for her. ”
Mom listened to the advice.
In the afternoon, my brother-in-law's parents came, and now it is the time when the autumn harvest is busy, and they are not idle when they are old, and they have contracted a lot of land.
The clothes on his body were still muddy, and he probably had just received the news and rushed from the farm.