Zhu Zhu made breakfast before asking Mr. Dai to get up.

In order to avoid Xiao Chengcheng from stirring up trouble, Zhu Zhu would put her rice in a bowl alone, and after holding her aside, Xiao Chengcheng had a good habit of eating, and he took a spoon to eat quietly on the side.

After getting the child right, Zhu Zhu sat down to prepare for dinner, during which he couldn't help but ask: "Didn't you say that you only came back today, why did you come back in the middle of the night?" ”

"You weren't happy when you hung up yesterday!"

"You know that, too!"

Although Zhu Zhu figured it out by himself in the middle of the night, he still had to be arrogant.

"I've known each other for three or four years, I don't know what kind of you are? The longer the time to get angry drags on, the harder it will be!"

Mr. Dai has one thing that is better.

is that he has a very good attitude in front of Zhu Zhu, even if it is an occasional bad temper, it is all out of the outside, and he basically does not bring his bad temper to the house. It's always pleasant to talk to her.

Another point is that he is willing to coax her.

"Then you know why I'm angry?"

Mr. Dai ate quickly, and after Zhu Zhu's few questions, he had already eaten.

Walked up to Zhu Zhu, in front of the child, held Zhu Zhu and sat on his lap, and fed her!

Zhu Zhu's mouth is not open, nor is it open.

Glared at Mr. Dai: "What do you want to do, I think this is fine!"

When Mr. Dai saw that Zhu Zhu didn't eat, he actually ate breakfast directly into his mouth, and then tilted his body, blocking the child's sight, and directly fed Zhu Zhu with his mouth.

I'm a mother!

Mr. Dai's methods of teasing her became more and more clever, and Zhu Zhu felt that she was a little overwhelmed.

"I was really angry yesterday, why do you say that about me!"

Mr. Dai hugged Zhu Zhu's waist: "Well, after saying that, I knew it was wrong, and there was something wrong with the way I said it!"

"It's not that I can't accept criticism, but I ...... I think what you said is as if I didn't put my mind on sincerity, and you have denied my efforts, so I am very angry. ”

"I know!"

Mr. Dai said: "Actually, what I said yesterday was not only you, but also my husband himself, and I didn't do it myself, because when I played with Chengcheng, my mind was not on her, and I always felt that I was already by her side, so what else?

Zhu Zhu felt a lot better when he heard it.

Mr. Dai continued: "But we have to admit that our kind of companionship is really unqualified, and since we know where we are not doing well enough, we will correct it in time."

Half an hour of wholehearted companionship is better than the effect of our whole day's companionship, so would we rather put aside half an hour of spending time with the child for a while, or spend all our time on her absent-mindedly?

We all have our own things and our own lives. Children are just a part of our lives, not the whole story. ”

I have to admit that Mr. Dai said what she wanted to say.

That's what she thinks!

The child is not all they have, even if she is the mother of the child, it does not mean that the future life should revolve around the child.

Maybe many people will say, didn't you quit your job to take care of your children at home!

Then your mission is to bring the children well.

What does it mean to bring it well?

If the limbs of the child are not diligent and the grains are not divided, everything must be done by yourself, and the child is not tired and bumped into it, does it prove that the child is well carried?

Thanks to Mr. Dai, he doesn't think so.

After eating, Mr. Dai accompanied Zhu Zhu to the mall to pick up a lot of things for the child and her.

I haven't come back to live for more than a year, although Zhu Zhu has cleaned it a few days ago, but many things are missing, so the missing things are made up in time.

In a few months, the child will be three years old, and Zhu Zhu and Mr. Dai discussed whether to send Chengcheng to kindergarten.

Now they are all publicizing, saying that children going to kindergarten too early are not good for children's physical and mental health.

If you can delay school, try to be as late as possible.

But Chengcheng she is very bold, self-care ability is very good, can go to the toilet and eat by herself, and likes to play very much, but now she is generally a child, the baby is very, and there are very few people who can play with Chengcheng, and many grandparents are holding their children in their hands.

She couldn't have enough fun.

"Husband, there are still a few months to go anyway, when the time comes, we will send her over to have a look, if not, just wait another year, don't force it!"

Mr. Dai also nodded in agreement based on his own children's situation.

In this way, Zhu Zhu went to the nearby kindergarten when she had time, not to let the child learn things early, but to let her have a place to play happily.

So Zhu Zhu is looking for everything according to this requirement.

As soon as I entered, I told her how the quality of teaching in their school was, what the children would let them learn in the small class, and what level they could reach when they reached the large class.

Such Zhu Zhu was directly eliminated without consideration.

I have selected several of them, and when Mr. Dai has time, I will do a comprehensive evaluation.

Mr. Dai's vision is more long-term than Zhu Zhu's, and he is more thoughtful about things, and he finally screens them.

In the end, two were chosen.

"The final decision is left to Chengcheng herself, we will go whichever she prefers!"

In this way, they plan to let the children see the environment for themselves next week.

It was another week off, and Zhu Zhu and Mr. Dai went back to their parents' home.

Zhu Zhu's mother learned that Zhu Zhu wanted to send her child to kindergarten, so she disagreed!

"You don't go to work now, you can take the child with you for an extra year, what if you are bullied at such a young age!"

"I always have to go, and it's not like she's going to go to a big class at such a young age, they're all kids of the same age. ”

Zhu Zhu's mother still disagreed: "If you are tired of bringing it, send Chengcheng over, you can come and see it when you have time, can you still be tired to death with a child?" ”

and talked about the past.

At that time, with children could be the same as now?

At that time, children played with mud, touched snails, caught loaches, and stole sweet potatoes......

I don't go home all day long.

When it was time to eat, they ran back on their own when they were hungry.

Where do you need your family to look at it like this?

Not now!

There are many people in the car, and there are many strangers, and you can't look at the children if you are a little careless, and you are panicked.

Today's children learn early, starting to learn a variety of skills at the age of three.

The interest classes are one newspaper after another.

Times are changing.

One bite at a time, how did I do before.

It sounds like a mother-in-law who is not used to confinement of her daughter-in-law, how can I be so particular about confinement before, and I can't take tonic in the first week, so I have to discharge lochia. Ask for this and ask for that. At that time, when we were born, we had to pour cold water by ourselves, and we had to do our own laundry and cooking.

Therefore, when I see people now in confinement, there are all kinds of imbalances in my heart, and I don't serve.

The tone and tone are almost the same.

She said that her mother was a strange complex.

When he is enlightened, he is enlightened and makes Zhu Zhu give a thumbs up, and sometimes it is an old-fashioned old concept.