Chapter 1191: Confidence

"Yes, yes. The eldest girl looked at the two of them and nodded busily, "The article "What happens to Nala after she leaves" is small, but it is rich in connotation. Nala's awakening and exodus is certainly exciting, but Lu Xun is very human, and he calmly pointed out in "What Happens After Nala Leaves" that Nala's ending is either to fall or to come back. Today, we will still be deeply moved and inspired by this short article. I still remember Mr. Lu Xun's famous saying: Freedom cannot be bought by money, but it can be sold for money. ”

"Uh-huh!" Hua Banzhi nodded lightly when he heard this, "To be specific, we have serious jobs and can use our income at will." Freedom to do what you love. ”

"Even if you have enough confidence, you can't spend money indiscriminately. Hearing this, Second Sister Qi hurriedly added, "I don't mean anything else about that flower, that is, I don't panic when I have food at home, this money has to be saved except for necessary expenses, in case there is anything wrong, I don't even have emergency money." ”

"Your mom is right, reasonable control. Hua Banzhi chimed in, "Freedom is never something that money can buy. In the final analysis, a person's freedom is probably still the management of desires, not being coerced and controlled by money, and people possess money, but not by money. Therefore, true financial freedom must be the freedom of money, time, and mind. ”

"Because people can forget, they can gradually get rid of the pain they have suffered, and because they can forget, they still have to make the mistakes of their predecessors again. The big girl looked directly at her and said.

Hua Banzhi raised her eyebrows and looked at her when she heard this, "It is said that forgetfulness is a good state in life, after all, it is not a very happy thing to look back on the fleeting youth, especially for those fragile hearts." Besides, life is already bitter and joyful, and remembering too many things, especially unhappy things, is inevitably narrow-minded. So learn to let go when you should let go, and learn to defend yourself when you shouldn't. ”

"There is a rogue spirit in the world, and that is resilience. The big girl looked at her and continued.

"The so-called resilience, in layman's terms, is the so-called resilience, being optimistic about anything, not rejecting, and having the courage to learn and accept new things. Hua Banzhi looked at her with warm eyes and said, "Resilience is a very important quality, and it is the only quality that can help us get out of the predicament." As long as a person is resilient, no matter how much pain, frustration, and grievance, he can come through, just like a flexible rubber strip, which can bend and stretch, but never break. ”

"Mr. Lu Xun's words can always make people deeply inspired!" the eldest girl looked at the two of them and sighed.

Hua Banzhi looked at her with a serious expression and said, "Big girl, remember, your parents don't let you get married, it's not for you to be bullied. If you see you swallowing your anger and making cattle and horses for others, he is like an uncle, then ......"

"I'm going to knock you on the head and read so many books for nothing. Qi Ermei immediately said, "I don't know how to feel sorry for people, such a man should leave as soon as possible." ”

Hua Banzhi looked at Qi Ermei's eyes full of smiles, and turned her gaze to the eldest girl again, "You have to show the courage of women in the new era, the right that countless people fight for, we women have to fight for ourselves, and we can't give up." ”

"Hehe......" The eldest girl looked at them with a smile when she heard this.

"Don't be afraid of divorce, if you really can't get by, you will get divorced. Hua Banzhi looked at her with deep eyes and said, looked at Second Sister Qi and said, "Sister Qi, what do you mean?"

Second Sister Qi looked at Hua Banzhi and was stunned for a moment, and then said, "Yes, my mother's family is your confidence, my mother is not afraid of other people's jokes, as long as my daughter is doing well!"

"Mom!" the eldest girl looked at the second sister with a sour nose and red eyes, and said with a moving expression.

"This kid, mom is not one of those pedantic people. Second Sister Qi patted her on the shoulder and said, "That big girl, if you can't get a divorce, let's not divorce." ”

"Hehe......" The eldest girl looked at her in astonishment when she heard this, and said with a smile, "I will keep my eyes open and look at each other well." ”

Second Sister Qi smiled when she heard this, and turned her eyes to Hua Banzhi again, "By the way, Huahua is not married yet, why do you always think about divorce." ”

"Prepare for the worst. Hua Banzhi looked at them calmly and said, "But we have to think of a way to live a good life." ”

The big girl looked at the flower with a smile on her eyes, and she was shining under the light, so that people couldn't open their eyes.

Judging from Aunt Hua's experience, life is better now, she has never treated her well before life, and she still loves life.

The eldest girl also somewhat understood why Uncle Lin couldn't leave her eyes when she looked at her, because she was also deeply attracted.

"What do you want me to do?" asked Hua as her thick eyelashes twitched, looking at her.

"Aunt Hua is good-looking. The big girl looked at her with a smile and said shyly.

"This kid is not as youthful and energetic as you. Hua Banzhi's eyes were full of smiles, and he looked at her and smiled.

"Okay, we won't bother you. Second Sister Qi said and stood up, looked down at the big girl beside her and said, "Let's go." ”

"Aunt Hua, let's go. The eldest girl got up and said.

"I'll send you. Hua Banzhi sent the mother and daughter out of the door, and watched them both walk out of her sight before turning back to the room.

Lin Xiyan, who was sitting on the edge of the playground, watched the second sister Qi and her daughter go home, "This is the end of the conversation." He muttered to himself and stood up and walked towards home.

"I'm back. Lin Xiyan changed his shoes and walked into the living room, and saw Hua Banzhi sitting at the Eight Immortals table drinking water.

"That's it. Lin Xiyan sat opposite her and said.

"After chatting, it's actually nothing?" Hua Banzhi looked at him with a slight look in his eyes and said, "Mother is worried." ”

"When the eaglet grows up, it always has to spread its wings and fly high. Lin Xiyan stretched out his hand to hold her hand and said, "It's much more convenient now than before, can you write a letter or take the train to see it?"

"Sister Qi still has four girls behind her, where can they leave. Hua Banzhi raised his eyes and said helplessly.

"Don't talk about this, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren. Hua Banzhi took a sip of the teacup, raised his eyes and said, "It's winter vacation, and the Spring Festival is coming soon, what should we do with our family's New Year's goods?" ”

Lin Xiyan smiled when he heard this, "Hehe......" patted his chest and said, "I'll buy it!"

"You're going for a day, how do you buy it?" said Hua Banzhi, looking at him curiously.

"I wasn't busy a year ago, so I came back a little early. Lin Xiyan looked at her and smiled.

"Leaving early? That's not your style. Hua Banzhi said in surprise.

"Just gather for two days, and everyone buys New Year's goods together. Lin Xiyan looked at her with warm eyes and said.