Before, Ye Xiaoli only occasionally complained about how harsh her mother-in-law was to her.

Recently, it has become more and more frequent, and she even has the idea of divorcing her husband!

Because her husband was never on her side.

The relationship between the two couples has dropped to a freezing point, and they can even go without saying a word for a few days.

What's even more infuriating is that her mother-in-law blatantly prefaced Ye Xiaoli with a girl who is so good.

The angry Ye Xiaoli threw the bowl directly.

The two sat in the recreation area at the bottom of the community, chatting while watching the children play.

"Do you think you really have no relationship with your husband, or is it purely because of your mother-in-law that you have a bad relationship with your husband?"

Ye Xiaoli pushed the glasses on the bridge of her nose: "Oh, in fact, my husband and I are still in a relationship, the problem is that there is a in the middle." I really don't know where she got her confidence, and she still dislikes me. ”

"If there is nothing wrong with you and your husband, then try to communicate with your husband and not live with your mother-in-law. ”

Otherwise, on the one hand, I dislike my mother-in-law for being nosy, and on the other hand, I can't do without my mother-in-law's care.

That's her own problem.

You enjoy your mother-in-law's three meals a day, and you have to endure your mother-in-law's nagging.

To be a human being, we cannot only see the enjoyment and ignore the others.

"If only I could live separately from her!"

Look, it's all here, just blindly complaining about the indignant mother-in-law's behavior, but still not thinking about breaking the kettle and making changes for your future.

"Do you know what your husband thinks now? ”

"What does he know, he knows every day that he goes to work with his head bored, he has no fun at all, and he is a waste of money when he goes out to eat. ”

Zhu Zhu sometimes doesn't know what to say.

This is what Ye Xiaoli said, her relationship with her husband is okay?

It is clear that there are problems as well, but the main contradiction she has now is her mother-in-law, thus weakening the problems that arise between her and her husband.

"Let me ask you, are you and your husband not very active in their married life?"

When two husbands and wives get along, problems can be summarized into three points:

The first point: economic issues. This can be known from Ye Xiaoli's previous chat with her, there is a problem, she and her husband are not financially free, and they are still controlled by their mother-in-law.

The second point: ** question. Many people are ashamed to talk about sex and this topic, but many conflicts between the two couples are actually inextricably linked to this.

It can be said that more than 60 percent of couples in China divorce because of sexual and life disharmony.

The third point: communication problems.

Problems arise from communication problems, and solving problems is also due to timely communication.

After chatting with Ye Xiaoli several times, I found that there were problems with the first and third points of the two couples, so Zhu Zhu wanted to know if there was also a problem with the second point.

If so, then in fact, Ye Xiaoli thinks that her relationship with her husband is okay, but she is just deceiving herself.

"Well, once or twice a month. ”

Two couples under the age of 30 have sex and life only once or twice a month.

At first, Zhu Zhu thought he had heard it wrong.

At this age, shouldn't it be once or twice a week?

"Do you think it's normal?"

Ye Xiaoli said: "I also know that it is a little less, but I don't want to!"

Zhu Zhu coughed and kindly persuaded: "Let's put it this way, at the age of less than thirty like us, under normal circumstances, three or four days without sex and life will be thought, if you don't want to do it for a month, or your husband asks to do it, then there is a problem with yourself." To be exact, you yourself are sexual, cold!"

"Is this important?"

"It's very important that if you don't have a psychological problem, it's a physical problem and it should be treated promptly. Don't underestimate the ** of the two couples, it is not a **topic, it really has an important reconciling effect on the lives of the two couples, we often hear this sentence, the bedside quarrels and the end of the bed, how to make peace. Isn't it just to sleep together, get up in the morning, and last night's events will disappear. ”

"Well, if you don't say it, I don't think it's a problem. ”

Ye Xiaoli continued: "I feel that you know how to get along with two couples." ”

"I also learned it slowly from getting along with two people. It's not that you understand it from the beginning, everyone gets married at one time, and they are constantly learning and changing. ”

Suddenly, Ye Xiaoli held Zhu Zhu's hand and said to her ear: "Then how many times a month do you and your husband do?"

Forehead......

Well, she really hasn't counted this.

"It's not specific, sometimes it's busy, it may take a week to think about it, sometimes it's not busy, it's just a little more. Are you full of lust...... Got it. ”

Ye Xiaoli let out a long sigh.

"How long is it?"

Ye Xiaoli, who was righteously speaking just now, said that she didn't feel awkward at all when she talked about gender.

But now Ye Xiaoli's tone is a little yin and yang, and she suddenly feels embarrassed.

I don't know if other people will talk about such explicit topics together.

"Say it!"

Ye Xiaoli held Zhu Zhu's hand and shook it for a while.

"No, I haven't. ”

"Probably......"

Didn't this dead woman say that she was not interested in this aspect, and that she was not interested!

Why is it so exciting to talk about.

"Well, about forty or fifty minutes. ”

"My husband and I have ten minutes at most, sometimes not. ”

This Zhu Zhu won't say much, she has already told Ye Xiaoli about the problems between them just now, if she wants to continue this marital relationship, she should find a way by herself.

thought that this topic would stop there, but I didn't expect Ye Xiaoli to shift the topic to Zhu Zhu again.

"How big are you wearing underwear?"

"This female comrade, have you made up your mind to open meat all the way today!"

Ye Xiaoli snorted.

"Everyone is a woman, or a woman who has given birth to a baby, what's so embarrassing to say this. We're just talking about it, a lot of women go out on the street wearing underwear. They're really bold. ”

"You can see that. ”

"How do you look when you're wearing such thick clothes outside, unless you directly let me see your vacuum. ”

Well, forget it.

“75C”

"Wow, no wonder your husband is interested in you. Look at you, the ass is so warped, the breasts are so material, I can't do it, not only the butt has no meat, but the chest only has A, not only that, my breasts and head are still inverted, just like my body, my husband can't be interested. ”

As far as Ye Xiaoli can face up to the shortcomings of her figure, Zhu Zhu still admires her.

However, Zhu Zhu feels that although what Ye Xiaoli said is very important, there is actually one more important point, that is, an external temperament.

"The problems you mentioned can be changed with determination. Also, have you found that your body shape is not particularly good, and the hunchback is a bit serious, I suggest that you start by practicing your body shape, and then slowly improve and change some physical defects. ”

"If you say that, can I go yoga with you?"

"Of course you can, if you work hard, in about half a year, your reminder will be greatly improved, your temperament will improve, and your aura in all aspects will come. Your husband doesn't look at you anymore!"

Ye Xiaoli nodded again and again when she was said.

It's the first time that Zhu Zhu really wants to give Ye Xiaoli an idea, hoping that she can change the status quo!