Dad's question is so easy to answer, I'm not happy playing the game of stacking cups, of course I'm happy!Xixi grinned and nodded to Dad.

"Then Dad described an environment to you, that is, if you were given a room, such as our current bedroom, and you were alone in the room playing with cups, would you be happy, or would we have fun tonight?"

However, Xixi still had a big brain, she tilted her little head, and asked curiously, "Xin'er is playing with me?"

"There is no Xin'er, just yourself. Yang Yi shook his head.

Xi Xi blinked, quickly shook her head, and said with a small mouth, "I don't want to play alone!"

When Xixi was young, she was indeed lonely, but since she was four years old, she was accompanied by her father at home, and her parents would take her out to play on business trips, and she had friends to play with in kindergarten, and later she had many good friends, which made her a little unaccustomed to loneliness!

Yang Yi mentioned this, just to make a small comparison, and didn't intend to scare Xixi, so I saw him smile slightly, and then said: "Then do you think that when you are playing tonight, you fold the cups very well, and then when your parents, and your younger brother applaud you, you have a special sense of accomplishment?"

Xi Xi immediately thought of the feeling just now, and suddenly became radiant again: "Mmmm, yes, super happy!"

"So, this is what we strive to do, in fact, not only for ourselves, but also for the recognition of more people, the praise or encouragement of others, is a strong motivation for each of us!

Xi Xi nodded obediently.

"Do you think that when Dad calls you to join and applaud Mom, or applaud Brother, they are not happy?" Yang Yi then threw out another question.

Xixi's eyes lit up, she had something to say on this topic, only to see her happily grabbing her father's hand and saying: "Baba, let me tell you, me and you, and my brother, after applauding Ma Ma, Ma Ma was willing to play with folding cups, and then she didn't know that she was also super powerful!"

Looking at the little girl's happy appearance, it seems that Murphy can play the quick stacking cup with her share of the credit.

Yang Yi was amused by the little girl's innocent appearance, he laughed, stretched out his right hand and rubbed Xixi's slightly damp hair, and said, "Yes, your encouragement is very important!"

"And my younger brother, he also likes to play, and when I give him a thumbs up, he is so happy!" Xixi gestured with her father with her little thumbs and grinned.

"Well, that's right, this is the first topic that Dad wants to talk to you about tonight, we can't be reluctant to say some words of encouragement to others!" Yang Yi said softly, "You have also seen, how powerful is the power of encouragement? Whether it is others encouraging you or you encouraging others, just such a short sentence, just such a simple gesture......"

Yang Yi gave a thumbs up and pointed to Xixi: "Things that are easy to do can give others, or others can give us more joy and better motivation." ”

Although Dad was laughing, his attitude was correct, and Xixi also felt it, so he looked at Dad intently and listened carefully.

"Don't underestimate this small encouragement, although this kind of encouragement is not the key to a person's success, but this encouragement can help each other and do a thing better!" Yang Yi said softly, "Do you think, you are in such a good mood tonight, folding cups quickly and accurately, if you don't have the encouragement of your father, mother, and younger brother, your mood is more ordinary, is it possible that you won't be so powerful?"

Xi Xi nodded vigorously, these metaphors of her father are still relatively easy to understand. Until now, Xixi listened to it, and she didn't have much of a burden, because she was still in a state of ignorance and didn't know where these big truths should be used.

"Why did Dad tell you about this topic?" Yang Yi smiled slightly and said, "Because this evening, when Dad picked you and Xin'er home, you and Xin'er were in the car, didn't you say that you didn't like the squad leader to take care of Xiaoya?"

Seeing that her father suddenly said this, Xixi also realized that maybe she was not doing it right, she twisted in the chair a little nervously and nodded reluctantly.

"Dad thinks that your mentality may not be very good, before doing something, we deny the ability of others, which will bring negative energy to the other party and us. Yang Yi smiled, "Dad said this, you may not understand, that is, let's think about it in another way, if we don't look at this problem with this unhappy mentality at the beginning, but like Dad said before, go and say to Cao Ruolin, squad leader, I believe you will take care of Xiaoya, you are also a very caring person! So, she is in a good mood, will she also work hard to take care of Xiaoya?"

Xi Xi pouted and said, "But, I hope the little girl can come to our house to play!"

This is the second topic that Dad wants to talk to you about tonight, we must have a heart to pursue perfection, but what we want to achieve is not perfection, but perfection! Because in this world, not everything can meet our own wishes. Yang Yi took tonight's events as an example, "For example, tonight, you play stacking cups, do you think you stack faster, compared with your parents, who folds faster?"

Being exposed to reality, Xixi felt very unhappy, and she reluctantly muttered: "Baba and Ma Ma are faster." ”

"Yes, you didn't do your best, but that's okay! Dad still thinks you did well tonight, and you're very happy, and we're all very happy, because although you haven't been able to do your best, Dad thinks that you've done a great job, and you've done so well on the first day of play, and there will definitely be better progress in the future!

Xixi listened to what her father said, and after thinking about it carefully, she did behave quite well, no wonder her father and mother were so happy, and her mood was better again, she grinned and said, "That's right!"

"So, we want to do our best, but sometimes, we can't do our best, it doesn't matter, as long as we put in the effort, get progress, or get the results we should have at this stage, this is already very good!" Yang Yi gave a thumbs up.

"The reason for inviting Xiaoya to our house is actually the same, you are very kind, I hope Xiaoya can come to the house and be well taken care of, this idea is very good, but other students also have such thoughts, it is impossible for everyone to be satisfied. So the teacher also took this issue into account, maybe this weekend, Xiaoya went to the class leader Cao Ruolin's house, and next week, maybe Xiaoya will come to our house, even if she doesn't come next week, it may come next week. ”

"The teacher believes in you very much, you are all very caring children, no matter whose house the little girl goes to play, she will definitely be able to have a good time. Yang Yi said softly, "If the little girl comes to our house next week, will you also entertain it warmly?"

"Of course!" Xixi nodded vigorously and raised her voice and said, "I'm going to give Xiaoya my room, so that they won't scare Xiaoya!"

"You see, although Xiaoya didn't come to our house this weekend, it's not the most perfect, but if it comes in the future, you'll still be very happy, right?" Yang Yi said softly.

"Uh-huh!" Xixi nodded quickly this time, but this time she didn't smile, just pursed her lips, trying to accept it.

"Then if, let's not be so low, we will happily congratulate Cao Ruolin, and encourage her, hoping that she will take good care of Xiaoya, and next time Xiaoya comes to our house, we will take better care of Xiaoya, can you also be very happy?" Yang Yi said with a smile.

"Actually, in fact, the squad leader is still very good, she was not afraid when she wiped the smell of Xiaoya on Thursday, and then she bought a lot of rags!" Xixi finally said a fair word, originally, these discoveries were hidden in her heart.