Love can't stand waiting for Zhang Baotong 2019.2.27

People say love doesn't stand up to waiting. However, there are still many people who continue to wait. There are even many people who are quite confident, feeling that they are still young, that the conditions are good, and that the person they love is waiting somewhere ahead.

In fact, for many people, this kind of confidence and feeling is too optimistic. It's impossible to make a promise to anyone tomorrow, so how can you know that your loved one is waiting for you ahead? Just look at the people around you and you will see that there are many people who have been waiting from their twenties to their thirties, not waiting for the Prince Charming or the beautiful princess they were looking for.

Some people may choose the flower among the flowers, pick the flowers, and finally don't pick the flower they like. Some people may be busy with their careers and want to wait until they are successful to find a partner. In this way, he is not only rich, but also famous, and there will be many people to choose from behind him. As everyone knows, it is much more difficult for a person to become famous than it is for him to find a partner. How many people have devoted their lives to struggle all their lives and have not succeeded. If you have to wait until your career is successful before marrying a wife and having children, maybe you really want to be a bachelor for the rest of your life. Even if you don't fight a bachelor for the rest of your life, at least you will be old and decrepit at that time. At this time, marrying a wife and having children is a big test for your age and body.

However, time and age do not wait for anyone. When you stay up to your thirties, find a partner again, and fall in love again, it obviously feels different. Falling in love at the age of eighteen or nineteen is not the same as being in love in your twenties, and the feeling of being in love in your thirties will be even more different. The younger you are, the more simply obsessed you are with love, and the older you are, the more sober and rational you become. When people are young, the feeling of love will be more focused on the other person, and the older they are, the more they will pay attention to the material conditions of the other party. Therefore, people are often intoxicated with first love in love, because first love is the most simple and fresh, just like there is no pollution. However, marriage is to live at home, and many material conditions are needed as a foundation, so many lovers who are in love for the first time fail to become dependents.

However, first love has given us a lot of fascination and fascination, and let us understand what is the most beautiful feeling. First love is also the beginning of our contact with love, if successful, it is a kind of luck, if not, it is also a kind of internship. Although love and marriage are the union of a man and a woman, it is not easy for the two to be harmonious and appropriate. Therefore, falling in love has always been an internship, adaptation, and choice before marriage. It is a process of serious contact and mutual understanding. If you have a negative attitude of picking and waiting, then you can easily miss the opportunity.

The stars remain the same, the years are easy to grow old, life is short, and youth is too little. The peak of life growth is 35 years old, before the age of 35, you have to go to school, get a job, fall in love, start a family, and even have children. After this period, many things will become difficult and troublesome. In particular, in the area of childbearing, boys and girls become pregnant when they live together unmarried. However, after the age of 35, it is more difficult for men and women to get pregnant, especially after this age, childbirth is a difficulty and test.

Therefore, there is an age period in a person's life. It's like a child going to kindergarten at the age of four, elementary school at the age of six, middle school at the age of twelve or thirteen, and college at the age of eighteen or nineteen. If you don't start school until you're eight or nine years old, you're behind everyone. If you don't start looking for a job until you're thirty-five, no one will want you. When a person falls in love in their twenties, there will be many people of the opposite sex around them because they are also at this age. However, when you start a relationship in your thirties, you will find that your surroundings and surroundings are deserted, and there are only a few men and women who have not yet married and started a family. If you want to find a young, beautiful and energetic boy or girl, you probably don't even think about it. Such boys and girls would have married someone else and started a family long ago. Unless you have a lot of ability, you can look for it at a much younger age than you. It is even more difficult for older girls to find younger boys.

Sometimes love is so far away from you that you can't even see her standing in front of you. Sometimes love is so close to you that you can't even ignore it when you are together every day. Don't think that there will be more beautiful flowers waiting for you in front of you, and don't think that your career will be more important than love. In this world, apart from food, nothing is more important than love. You can see that many literary works and film and television dramas have to be mixed with love, as if without love, everything will be boring. In this way, if a person has not experienced a burst of vigorous love, his life is really in vain. If you value your career more than love, then you will one day understand that your life is worthless and fun. Throughout ancient and modern times, great figures at home and abroad, such as Napoleon, such as Marie Curie, such as Einstein, such as Tu Youyou. They did not give up on love and delay love because of their careers. On the contrary, the opposite of love and family has promoted their careers. Love will make you feel good in life, and good feelings will make you feel more confident in your career success.

Love is the inevitable way of human existence and life, and being close to love and respecting love is the fundamental embodiment of going with the flow and loving life. Don't think that material life is higher than love, and don't think that there is no way to fall in love and get married without sufficient material conditions. In this world, yin and yang are relatively intertwined. If there are poor men, there will be poor women, there will be rich women, and there will be women who are affectionate. In the world, men are in a variety of postures, and women are in all directions. If you can't find a girl with better conditions, why can't you find a girl with better conditions? Before marriage, we may pay more attention to each other's appearance and figure, but after getting married, we find that whether a girl is good or not lies not in her figure and appearance, but in her kindness and cultivation. There have been thousands of objects in this world, but it is not the most powerful and intelligent species that can survive, but the most suitable species. It can be seen that whether love and marriage are happy and beautiful for a person depends on whether this person is suitable for you.

In fact, no matter which man or woman you are looking for, there is a law of gain and loss. Losing the east corner and harvesting the mulberry elm shows that there can be no perfect good thing. If you want to marry Minchan, you have to have Lu Bu's ability, and if you want to love Zhu Yingtai, you have to become Liang Shanbo. If we are neither Lu Bu nor Liang Shanbo, then we will go to those boys and girls who are comparable to our portal and are the same as our ordinary people. In this way, we can love deeply and live a solid life.

The meaning of love is that we men and women can love each other, care for and care for each other, huddle together for warmth, and snuggle up to each other. In this way, we will not feel fearful, timid, weak, lonely, and bored. No matter how much house and wealth a person has, he or she cannot have a home. But as long as there are women, there is also a home, even if their huts are simple and their houses are small.

The circumstances of the family are different, and the circumstances of life are different, but the joy and meaning of their lives are much the same. Can we imagine how much difference there will be between an American billionaire and an African primitive? People may envy American billionaires, but there will also be many people who would prefer to live the life of African primitives. Both the poor and the rich, the workers and the peasants, will have their own habits and pleasures. It's just that people's concepts are different, and their habits and ways of life are different, so we can't say who has a more reasonable and noble way of life than whom. The rich have the sorrows of the rich, and the poor have the happiness of the poor. Life is like this, it's good to get used to it, it's good to be content.

The beauty of life is not to live a rich life, to eat and drink spicy, wear gold and silver, have fragrant cars and BMWs and deep mansion compounds, and it is not romantic and affectionate. Rather, he has loved some people and has been loved by some people. In the joy of the two loves, they feel the warmth and coldness of the world.

Liu Xiyi wrote in "Generations of Sorrowful Pulsatilla": "This year, the color of the flowers has changed, who will be there next year? The ancients did not recover the east of Luocheng, and today's people are still interested in falling flowers. The flowers are similar every year, but the people are different every year. "Love waits for no one, and time urges people to grow old. We often say, "Don't wait, the young man has a white head", which means that if the young man does not study hard, the boss will be sad in vain. However, this is not the case with love? Learning and love have years and seasons, and after this age and season, people will grow old year by year, and as soon as people get old, not only their physical feelings are changing, but also their thoughts and feelings of understanding are also changing. So, don't leave love to be valued at a very old age, then it may be too late. Therefore, in the season of youth, in addition to study and work, young people must take time to talk about love seriously, pay attention to love, and don't miss or lose the person they really love.

The definition of financial management is: people don't manage money, money doesn't care about you. The same is true of the definition of love: you ignore love, love ignores you.