Chapter 913: Pity the Hearts of Parents in the World (4/4, Add to TwilightGods)
A poem once said: "The leaves fall in October and the autumn is cold, and the pedestrians on the road are desolate." The small bridge is far away, and the broken intestine man is Xiaolan ......"
It's about such a crisp autumn afternoon, there was a chubby little girl, running by the road with no pedestrians. It was the most serious run she'd ever had, but she was so determined that she never looked back, even though she was out of breath and never thought of stopping to rest!
At this moment, she is the fat version of Usain Bolt, the cute baby version of Forrest Gump, and the gray wolf who never gives up......
"Huhu, huhu!" Lan Xin finally ran to Xixi's house and couldn't wait to return to the middle of her friends. Of course, she was still very tired from running, and when she came back, she was tired and collapsed on the grass panting.
Xixi and the others did not continue to stay in the house to play, because there were more people, and it was better to play in the yard! Moreover, it was now more than three o'clock in the afternoon, and the sun was shining, which was a good time for outdoor activities!
When Lan Xin came back, Xi Xi and the others were playing a game of eagle catching chickens, and they were having a good time, and no one noticed Lan Xin who mixed in.
In this round, it was Chen Shiyun who was responsible for catching it, and it was Nan Zhaoyu who was weak in charge of being a hen. Chen Shiyun was violent, Nan Zhaoyu was a little scared, he still had a little boy's courage and protectiveness, and he tried very hard to open his arms to stop Chen Shiyun.
Of course, the girls behind him were much more powerful than him, giggling one by one, hugging the waist of their companions in front of them, and hiding quickly. Chen Shiyun couldn't find any breakthrough flaws for a while!
Suddenly, she found a "chicken" that had "fallen" on the ground, and excitedly pounced on it and held down Lan Xin. But soon she realizes that she is rejoicing too soon!
"Hey, Xin'er is back!" Chen Shiyun shouted.
Only then did the friends see Lan Xin, who had not yet panted evenly.
"Yes, Xin'er, why are you back?" Lu Xiaoyu scratched her head, poked her head out from behind Xixi, and asked curiously, "Didn't you say that the homeroom teacher went to your house?"
"Yes, yes, could it be that the teacher has already gone back?" Xixi was a little anxious.
The teacher hasn't come to my house yet!
Lan Xin also wanted to answer the question, but she was so tired that she couldn't speak, and after a while, she gasped and said concisely: "No, it's still there, but, but the teacher agreed that I would come to play!"
Hearing Lan Xin say that the teacher was still there, Xixi breathed a sigh of relief and regained her smile.
In fact, if it was usual, Lan Xin would still be happy to talk about her feelings, but at this time she was still panting and didn't want to talk much.
And after a while, when Lan Xin had rested enough, she couldn't wait to join the game of her friends, where could she take care of chatting.
"Okay!" Lu Xiaoyu glanced at Lan Xin pitifully, she knew the power of the teacher's home visit, but she didn't say anything, but greeted everyone with great interest, "Let's continue to play! Chen Shiyun, you didn't catch anyone just now, it doesn't matter if you caught Xin'er!"
Chen Shiyun didn't cheat, she rolled up her sleeves and shouted energetically: "I'll catch you!"
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The words are divided into two ends, on Lan Xin's side, Li Ruolan is discussing Lan Xin's study with Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing.
As Wu Jingjing said to Yu Ying before, Lan Xin's grades have indeed regressed, and in the last few quizzes, Lan Xin's scores have dropped from more than 80 points to more than 70 points, and Li Ruolan also came to visit her home for this reason.
Of course, Li Ruolan did not come to shift the responsibility to the parents, she described in more detail some of the problems that occurred in Lanxin.
For example, distraction in class, such as cutting corners in homework, such as not completing the task of memorizing the text required by the teacher seriously......
In addition, Li Ruolan also conveyed the feedback from the teacher Lu Dashan in the physical education class: "Lan Xin doesn't like to participate in sports, you should also know that Lan Xin, this child, is a little fat, if she doesn't exercise more and lose weight, it will be a big burden on her body in the future, and it will also have an impact on her future study and life." ”
Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing kept nodding, Lanzhou Kai still frowned and said: "Yes, Teacher Li is right, it's just that Xin'er is really a little difficult to discipline, we scolded her a little harder, she will be emotional for several days, and if I fight, her mother will stop me again......"
"You can't beat or scold a child. Li Ruolan hurriedly waved her hand and said, "Beating and scolding children is not a good education method, but it is easy to make children rebellious." ”
"Actually, I think Lan Xin's child is still very good, both in terms of IQ and personality, he is a very good child!" Li Ruolan said calmly with Lan Lankai and Wu Jing, "It's just that in spare time, you parents need to cooperate with our teachers, give the child more patience, and use some ingenious methods to cultivate her concentration." ”
"I'm busy at work, and it's usually her mother who takes care of the children at home, Teacher Li, if you have any suggestions, just tell her. Lanzhou Kai patted Wu Jingjing's knee and said.
"Yes, I will definitely cooperate, but Mr. Li, to tell you the truth, Xin'er, this child, procrastination is very serious, as soon as Xixi comes back, she finishes her homework, she procrastinates, she says she wants to eat for a while, she says she wants to watch TV for a while, and she doesn't finish her homework until she goes to bed at night. Wu Jingjing poured bitter water with the teacher.
"Actually, most children don't like to do homework and like to procrastinate. However, in the face of these situations, we parents should be more skillful in dealing with them. Li Ruolan smiled and said, "I'll give you an example, there is a boy in our class named Wang Leilei, the situation is similar to Lan Xin's, his father told him, you can't watch TV if you don't finish your homework!"
"But every child's situation is different, Lan Xin is a girl, maybe you need to be more gentle to avoid her resistant. Li Ruolan said, "You can do this, after the child comes back, make a tidying up with her first." ”
Li Ruolan took out her notebook and gestured and said, "Ask her, what homework does she have in Chinese today, what homework does she have in mathematics, and what homework does she have in English...... Write them down on a blank piece of paper and compare the amount of homework for each subject!"
"At this time, we parents should take the initiative to help her sort out her thoughts, starting from the simplest, least amount, and easiest homework to complete!
"But at this time, or before the third grade, I still recommend that you make time to do your homework with your children. Li Ruolan said, "You don't need to stare at her and write every word, but you need to be by her side." When you are in company, you can knit sweaters or do some work with little movement, but you can't play with your phone, and we parents should lead by example. ”
In addition to these, Li Ruolan also said a lot of motivational tips, which she learned from books, from other teachers, or from some successful parents.
As Li Ruolan said, she came to visit her home to help her children grow, not to call on parents and teachers to stage doubles for their children.
Don't look at Lanzhou Kai as a billionaire with a transcendent status, but at this moment, he is just an ordinary father!
How can a parent not care about their children?
Lanzhou Kai was also worried about Lan Xin's study, so when he heard the teacher's home visit, he rushed back with all his might.
Happily, he didn't come back in vain, and the teacher's home visit really gave him a lot of inspiration.
Just when Li Ruolan was about to say goodbye and leave, and Lanzhou Kai kindly invited her to stay for dinner, Yang Yi, who cut off his beard, came.