152. Return to the family
The child was eventually thrown to Dai's mother.
Dai's mother's illness is in need of recuperation, and her vision has become more and more blurry because of the drug.
Not only are they not at ease, but even Dai Mama herself is also beginning to be afraid.
So, it's time to make a choice.
The sister-in-law took Xiaodu to them and hired a nanny to watch it.
Because in the early days of the business, she came home late, and it was unrealistic to see her children.
And Mr. Dai and Zhu Zhu are both office workers, and they live in the company's apartment, even if they hire a nanny, they don't have a place for her to live.
If you go out to live alone, plus the rent and nanny's salary, it is almost the same as Zhu Zhu's salary, that is to say, Zhu Zhu works outside, and in the end she can't get a job.
That's embarrassing!
For a while, both of them were also very difficult.
You have to know the current situation, if the child has to be with you, then one of them must resign.
Zhu Zhu was at home for about two years from her pregnancy to when her child was almost a year old, and she knew that it was not pleasant to take care of a child at home.
Moreover, the circle of friends is everywhere, saying that women should never take care of their children at home and be full-time housewives.
made Zhu Zhu easily afraid to resign and take care of the children at home.
Mr. Dai didn't say anything, he knew that Zhu Zhu didn't want to go home to take the children now.
In the past few days, the company's affairs are very tired, the children's affairs are very annoying, and Zhu Zhu has not talked to Mr. Dai much when he gets home.
I don't know how to deal with children's affairs with each other.
However, they have always been sweet and sweet, and they have been uncomfortable if they don't speak for a day, and if they don't speak for two days, Zhu Zhu feels that this temper has endured to the end.
At night, Mr. Dai hugged her when he was sleeping, and she angrily threw Mr. Dai's hand away.
"What for?"
Zhu Zhu was always aggrieved in his heart.
If something really happened, I held it in my heart and didn't tell her for a long time.
Thinking that she didn't know, he just didn't think of how to solve this matter, and he was afraid that he would hurt her rashly.
But you can't be silent.
Now I'm still sleeping with her like no one.
"Hug your wife. ”
"Your wife, who is your wife?"
"My wife is a woman named Zhu Zhu, stupid, stupid and cute......"
Zhu Zhu raised his elbow and threw it towards Mr. Dai's chest, only to hear Mr. Dai snort above his head, and then the top of his head nested motionless on Zhu Zhu's neck.
Zhu Zhu knew that Mr. Dai was pretending.
But I couldn't help but turn around and hugged Mr. Dai.
"You said that you are always like this, when you are holding things in your heart, you don't care about me, and you will only ignore me when you think about it, why. ”
Zhu Zhu felt aggrieved as she spoke.
"Why are you cold when you want to be cold, and give me sweet dates to eat when you want to. ”
"I just don't want to ......"
"I don't want to think about anything, when you're fine, isn't your mouth quite sharp, why is it that you don't say anything when something happens, you know how uncomfortable I am. ”
"I know, I'm suffocating it, you know, if I don't say a few words to you when I go home, my heart won't touch the ground. ”
Oh, yes.
From marriage to now, only a few small awkwards will be made when I am just pregnant, and then I rarely quarrel with each other.
Others say that it is easiest to divorce in the first year of marriage, and it is easier to divorce if you have children in the first year of marriage, because you will know whether the man you marry is a human or a ghost if you have children for a lifetime.
But Zhu Zhu did not encounter such a test.
When she was confined, Mr. Dai did not let the child lean on her side, but put the child next to him, and the child cried and he woke up immediately.
Zhu Zhu remembered that when she was confined, she never got up all night.
When the child wanted to drink milk, he would bring her and put it next to her, and she only needed to have her body measured.
She had little milk, and the child couldn't drink enough, so he immediately went to make milk powder.
After the child feeds, he will not fall asleep immediately, and he will always be there humming and chirping, so Mr. Dai will close his eyes and shake the bed for the child.
After the confinement, the child can basically sleep the whole night, and she does not have to get up at night.
Later, she wanted to go to work, and he also supported it, obviously reluctant to have children, but he still sent Chengcheng back to Seoul.
He had always thought about her.
"I know you don't want to go home with your children, and women should also go and realize their own values. I don't necessarily have to go to the company, I usually do some work at home, and it's okay. However, there may be a discount in income, and when the time comes, you don't dislike your husband for eating soft rice. ”
He even wanted to go home and take care of the children by himself.
That's what he's been thinking about these days.
"Would you like to be a family cook?"
"Yes, why don't you want to, as long as my wife doesn't dislike me. ”
Maybe what women want is an attitude, Mr. Dai said that he could resign and go home to take care of the children, and Zhu Zhu suddenly felt less panicked.
The voice that had been entrenched in my head, saying that women must not be housewives, slowly disappeared.
In the end, Zhu Zhu decided to resign and return to her family, she believed in herself, even if she returned home, she could still find her own value, and she would not let herself feel sorry for herself.
Zhu Zhu resigned suddenly, Master Liu was quite incomprehensible, in her opinion, Zhu Zhu had no need to resign at all.
The mother-in-law is not in good health, but not to the point where she can't take care of the child.
Nowadays, many young people do not give their children to the elderly, she should take advantage of her youth to do a good job in her career.
"Don't believe men's rhetoric. People will change after a long time, and no matter how good he says now, it is useless. This is your own business, not his. You've figured it out for yourself. ”
"Master Liu, I've thought about it clearly, I still want to take the child with me, I'm sorry. ”
Master Liu shook his head: "You, you are too young, it is too natural to think about problems, and you will regret giving up such a career with upward potential in a few years." ”
Yes, the company has moved to a new address as desired, everything is developing in a good direction, Zhu Zhu stayed at this time to grow with the company, and it is indeed possible to create his own world in the future.
But when she should have worked hard, she chose to return to her family.
After Mr. Yang learned of Zhu Zhu's resignation, his attitude towards her became better, but he had no scruples when he spoke.
Tell all jokes, even meat jokes.
Once, when the company's various departments went out for team building, Mr. Yang sat directly beside her, pointed to the advertisement of the men's department that passed by and said: You look at this advertisement, does your husband need it?
Zhu Zhu's face changed at that time.
"Mr. Yang, I know very well whether my husband needs it, but ......"
Zhu Zhu pointed to Mr. Yang's somewhat bald scalp: "It seems that Mr. Yang needs it very much, your hair often falls out!"
Isn't it a meat joke!
Then let's talk about it, anyway, she's not a yellow flower girl.
The more embarrassed she is, the more interesting some people think it is, so it's better to sting it directly and get it done once and for all.
Let's see if you can't talk about it.
Mr. Yang was originally narrow-minded, and this kind of words that detracted from the dignity of men made Mr. Yang's face pale.
Zhu Zhu was very satisfied.
Anyway, she's going to leave in a few days, and even if you want to put small shoes on me, you can't!
After the handover, it was already April.
Zhu Zhu knows that her life is approaching an important turning point, and if she doesn't grasp it well, she may be on the road to a marriage crisis.
Taking children in an apartment has a bad impact after all.
Zhu Zhu and Mr. Dai proposed to take them home, but Mr. Dai vetoed them.
"Two husbands and wives can't live apart for a long time, this is the beginning of the conflict between the two people, I think it's better to buy a house in Europe and buy a house in Seoul. ”
"But I don't want to sell. ”