181. Both children and daughters
When Qinglan asked Zhu Zhu out a few times, she laughed while talking, but she was actually angry.
He Xiaoping said: "Your husband is on your side, whether you give birth to a boy or a girl, I am in that family, if you give birth to a daughter, it will be really sad." ”
Zhu Zhuqing, Lan Tong Shuang and Sister Ping are all right, but He Xiaoping is strictly speaking.
When her parents-in-law were at home, Xiaoping said that she didn't dare to come out.
Fortunately, after they gave birth to a child, they lived in their own house, and life was better.
Sister Ping said: "Zhu Zhu also gave birth to a daughter, how are your in-laws treating you?"
It's not that Zhu Zhu has a swollen face and is fat, she never thought about the face of her in-laws when she gave birth to a child, because Mr. Dai has always been on her side.
Mr. Dai's three views are correct, what else does she have to worry about.
Besides, the in-laws are also reasonable people, and when they are sincere, some relatives will be confused and say, the next one is to have a son.
Dai's mother would always say: "Where can I control the birth of boys and girls, besides, we women don't count this matter!"
No matter what Dai's mother really thinks in her heart.
She was able to block the "ill-intentioned" attack of her relatives for Zhu Zhu, who was sitting on the spot, in this way, and her heart was very warm.
"They don't care about that. ”
"How can there be in-laws who don't care. "Sister Ping.
Yes, the in-laws will care, even if they are not patriarchal, they also hope that their sons can have both children and daughters.
But the stupid in-laws will talk about giving birth to a son, as if they don't give birth to a son, this daughter-in-law will be sorry for his family.
Smart and wise in-laws even think in their hearts, but their intellect can still figure it out and won't say these things.
"Well, they all care. But my in-laws can't control me, if they open their mouths, without me, Dai Ba will be angry. ”
Mr. Dai once did not give face to their relatives.
When relatives get together, they will joke that they have to take pictures of the second child, but if it's a girl, they don't want it.
At that time, Mr. Dai was dumped.
"Are you too lenient? You have to take care of my baby. ”
directly made his relative unable to get off the stage.
Even Zhu Zhu also felt that Mr. Dai's words were too faceless, so he patted the back of Mr. Dai's hand under the table, but he held Zhu Zhu's hand instead.
When he got home, Dai's father was angry.
It's no wonder that Mr. Dai is too straightforward, they are all relatives, and it is for their good.
"It's good for us, Dad, he doesn't like to listen to what he says, Zhu Zhu is still sitting next to him, what does it mean to be pregnant with a daughter, the feelings are not conceived on him, the upper lip touches the lower lip, the feelings are not in him, he easily said it. ”
"You can't be so faceless. ”
Mr. Dai laughed angrily: "When he doesn't have the brains to say these words, he has to think that others will not give him face." I didn't say this on the spur of the moment, I thought that since everyone was here, I would let them know what jokes I could accept and what I couldn't. He thought he meant what he said, but I thought it was full of malice. ”
It is precisely because Mr. Dai got so angry.
Dai's father and Dai's mother used to joke that they had both children and daughters, but later they never talked about the gender of the second child in front of Zhu Zhu and Mr. Dai.
"What's the use of being angry, your in-laws will still take care of it. ”
Sister Ping is not good at hearing, and Zhu Zhu has to speak extremely loudly when she talks to her.
Now, she suddenly didn't want to talk about it.
Difficulty.
It's not that you need to talk to her loudly, it's that you have to communicate with her and exchange ideas.
I had to smile.
It's not a matter of winning or losing.
The main reason for coming out this time was that Qinglan was in an unhappy mood, and in the end she returned to Qinglan.
Qinglan finally said: "He doesn't like girls, but I do, and I still want to have a daughter in my second child." ”
Sister Ping began to trouble the scenery again: "It's good that the second child is still a son." Otherwise, your husband's house will be cut off from the incense!"
Qinglan finally shut up.
Having children and having children is different for everyone.
It can't be said that Qinglan's idea is right, let alone that Sister Ping's statement is wrong.
Half of the first half of the year has passed.
Last week, the results of the midterm exam of the eldest nephew Tan Weikai came out.
I skated seven or eight places at once, and my sister couldn't believe it when she got the report card.
She took a long breath before she held back her temper and talked to Zhu Zhu on the phone about how to educate Tan Weikai ideologically.
"He's now in his second year of junior high school, not to mention the key No. 1 middle school in Kaoou City, even the No. 2 middle school is also hanging! I'm really angry, I don't have a long brain, such a big person, just want to play, his homeroom teacher told me that he is inattentive and often wanders. I didn't let his father see this report card, otherwise he would have to be beaten again. ”
My brother-in-law's educational philosophy is: fight.
He doesn't read much, but he doesn't have any advanced ideological education, and he doesn't have that patience.
"He's older now, and he's a boy, it's not appropriate to beat him anymore, it's counterproductive. ”
My sister sighed: "Of course I know this, but you also know your brother-in-law's temper, I really don't know what went wrong, I work in the restaurant, sometimes I come back late, and my attention to him is a lot more relaxed, but I don't care about it!"
"What did Wei Kai say himself?"
If he failed in the exam, he had to do a self-reflection, and he reflected on what went wrong.
He said that those questions that were wrong were carelessly wrong. ”
Carelessness, this question can be big or small.
In fact, strictly speaking, carelessness means that you have not learned it, if you really learn it in your stomach, your mind is already very deep, and there is no carelessness in it.
Zhu Zhu asked her sister to send Tan Weikai's transcript over to take a look, and at first glance, she found that the subject of physics was seriously biased.
"Vikai, this is a partial department!"
"yes, I'm thinking about signing him up for a physics cram school. It's the second year of junior high school, and it's still too late. ”
The older the back, the calmer my sister's tone became.
Even if she has regained her senses, Zhu Zhu is not worried that her sister will carry out excessive education.
At the end, my sister said, "Zhuzhu, if you have time, you can talk to Vikaido, you have been playing with him since you were a child, and he likes to talk to you from the heart." You ask him what he thinks. ”
"Good. ”
Zhu Zhu agreed, thinking of finding a time to ask.
Unexpectedly, Chengcheng broke out of eczema at this time, and it was still a retaliatory madness.
She hasn't had a recurrence of eczema for a long time.
made Zhu Zhu almost think that she was the same as a normal child.
This time, I saw a red rash on her face, body and legs, and I felt my heart clenched together.
"We all eat the same as we did at the rest of the time, why is it so bad all of a sudden?"
Zhu Zhu took Chengcheng to the hospital, but the doctor had no better way than to prescribe calamine for her when she was a child.
Just tell her not to bathe too often, keep your skin moisturized, etc.
These instructions, a few years ago, Zhu Zhu's ears were calloused, and of course he knew how to do it.
But the question is, she still did it, why did she suddenly relapse.
Mr. Dai asked Zhu Zhu not to worry, first analyze everything, find out which link went wrong, and then correct it.