It's really embarrassing to talk about this question, especially in front of my sister-in-law......

Yang Yi looked at Xixi's big curious eyes, and said helplessly: "Of course Dad is the same as a boy...... Because Daddy is a boy too!"

"But, but......" Xixi wanted to say something.

"Okay!" Yang Yi rubbed the little girl's head, and said with a smile, "What's the problem, let's talk about it when we go home and have time, it's dinner time, don't talk about this." ”

"Okay......" Xixi said regretfully, she was still a little unsatisfied, it seemed that this topic could still be discussed.

finally appeased Xixi, but this faint sense of embarrassment lingered in this hotel box, until Mo Xiaojuan left early after eating lunch, under the pretext that something was wrong.

Anyway, Yang Yi is also back, so she doesn't need to accompany Murphy.

At noon, after Xixi went to bed, Yang Yi came to the bedroom next door, and Murphy was lying on the bed on his side, humming a song softly, coaxing Xiao Yu, who was a little noisy just now and still wanted to play, to sleep.

The little guy is still quite cute when he is asleep now, one of his little hands is on his stomach, one is beside him, and then his little face is turned sideways to his mother's direction, and his little mouth is slightly raised, I don't know if he is happy to fall asleep listening to songs.

Murphy saw that Xiao Yi was asleep, she breathed a sigh of relief and carried the little guy to the crib, so that she could lie down beside Yang Yi with peace of mind.

"I don't know, Xixi is so curious when she sees Yu Yu's ***. Murphy pulled Yang Yi's hand so that he could snuggle in the crook of his arm, then looked at Yang Yi's side face and asked, "You say, do I need to find an opportunity to talk to her about this?"

Today, Mo Xiaojuan came to accompany her, and the two sisters watched TV and chatted together, of course, to take care of the children. Xi Xi is okay, she is holding her puppet dolls on the side to play house games, no need to worry about Murphy, Xiao Yu is about the same, he is not yet able to climb and explore the world, Murphy will hold him, or put him in the small shaker, the little guy can stare at the little star hanging on the small shaker for a long time.

Since Murphy got married, the two sisters have not had time to sit down and have a good chat. This time, Murphy didn't ask Mo Xiaojuan about her marriage, it was useless to force her, she could only follow fate, and the two of them were the same as before, watching the people on TV comment.

Either to discuss the dressing of some actresses, or to study which male star is more handsome, the topic of these girls is what they often talked about when they were young, and now they talk jokingly, which can be regarded as reliving the memories of those girls.

Mo Xiaojuan's vision is slightly different from Murphy's, she prefers good-looking men, this good-looking is obviously to add some feminine elements to the handsome.

"But it's not just good-looking, it's also mature and gentle, those little boys can't do it, I can't stand their silly looks. Mo Xiaojuan said.

She also commented on Murphy's vision: "Sister, your vision is not good, I am not saying that my brother-in-law is not good, he is very good, mature, and gentle enough for you, but he is not good-looking! Not even handsome enough...... Of course, there's no point in saying this now, you're already his man!"

Although Mo Xiaojuan was joking, Murphy was very dissatisfied with Mo Xiaojuan's evaluation, in her opinion, Yang Yi was very handsome, really handsome!

I didn't think it before, but since Yang Yi's personality has changed, he is not as unkempt as before, his hair is shaved neatly, his beard is generally shaved and hung cleanly, and his taste for dressing up has been raised, Murphy gradually thinks that Yang Yi is very handsome!

It's not that a lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi, but Murphy really thinks that Yang Yi is very in line with his aesthetics, and the more he looks at it, the more he looks at it, and now looking at Yang Yi's tough side face, as well as the eyes as deep as the starry sky, Murphy feels that his heart is a little rippling.

How can such a man be said not to be handsome?

Of course, Yang Yi didn't know the whispers between Murphy and Mo Xiaojuan's sisters, he was thinking about what Murphy said.

"I don't think there's any need to go through the hassle of talking to Xixi about these issues. Yang Yi said to Murphy.

"But, those little cards you made in the past, let me talk to Xixi about sex education, isn't it also very effective?" Murphy said puzzled, "Why don't you continue to tell Xixi? She is so curious, she should satisfy her curiosity and prevent her from exploring on her own." ”

Yang Yi shook his head lightly and said, "The nature of these two is different. Xixi is at the age when gender consciousness is germinating, so she is very curious about these, but as parents, what we should do for children in such a situation is to educate and guide them moderately. In other words, Xixi needs to know the difference between men and women, but she doesn't need to know too much, so as not to arouse her greater curiosity. ”

"For example, we can tell her that boys are different from girls, boys have to go to boys' toilets, girls have to go to girls' toilets, and you can't let others see them when you go to the toilet, but you don't have to tell her that it's not good to be looked at by others, and what will those bad people do. Or for example, we can tell her that it is not allowed to kiss between boys and girls, but there is no need to tell her that you are so young and ignorant that kissing a boy will be taken advantage of. ”

"I understand that these adult minds don't need to be instilled in children too early. Murphy suddenly realized.

"Yes, including the difference between men and women, what is the specific purpose of that difference, we don't need to tell her now. Yang Yi said with a smile.

"What then, how can you reasonably guide Xixi's curiosity as you said?" asked Murphy, puzzled.

"I'll talk to her about this later!" Yang Yi said ponderingly.

In the afternoon, Yang Yi found a time, took a few printed pictures, and sat in front of Xixi.

"Today, Mom told Dad, you are very curious, why your brother looks different from you, right?" Yang Yi said softly to Xixi, who was playing with her toys.

"Mmmm!" The little girl suddenly came to her senses, the movements of her hands stopped, and her eyes burst with a look of concentration, and she said to her father, "Ma Ma said that it was different when she went to the toilet." ”

"Well, Mom is right, not quite. Yang Yi smiled, "Dad told you a mythical story, of course, it may be true or false." Once upon a time, there was a god named Nuwa......"

Yang Yi is telling the story of Nuwa creating people, but this story has been modified by Yang Yi, and men and women are different when they knead soil.

"You've played with plasticine, and it's a bit hard to control what you pinch, and even if you want to make two pigs that look exactly the same, they still don't look the same, right?"

Xixi nodded ignorantly.

"That's right, so when Nuwa uses the magic of clay to pinch people, the shape of the person is also different, so there is a difference between a boy and a girl, which is a normal thing. Yang Yi said.

"Look, what are these two pictures?" Yang Yi took out two pictures and asked Xixi with a smile.

"Hee-hee, ba-ba, I know a lion!" the little girl smiled as she answered her question, gradually forgetting the curiosity she had been persisting at first.

"Yes, what do you see the difference between these two lions?" Yang Yi said.

"The big hair is the boy lion, and the hairless is the girl lion!" Xi Xi put down her toys, leaned over to her father, took her father's hand and looked at it, and said happily.

Yang Yi told her when she was looking at the album before, and the little girl has a good memory.

"And this?" Yang Yi took out the photos of the two kangaroos again, "What's the difference between these two?"

"This baby is sitting on the belly of the kangaroo Ma Ma, this is the kangaroo poop!" Xi Xi can tell the difference, before Lu Weisha sent a photo, Yang Yi told her that it is the female kangaroo who has a nursery bag, and the male kangaroo who does not have it.

"So, lions and kangaroos have their own differences, and so do people, except that we have the wisdom to tell from their clothes and hair whether they are boys or girls...... At least most of them can be clearly distinguished. Yang Yi and Xixi concluded.

The difference between the organs and the difference in the big picture is macroscopic but seems to make sense, Xi Xi understood, and grinned: "Boys have short hair, and girls have long hair!"

"It's not a certainty, but it's basically the same, it doesn't matter, if you look at other people's faces a lot in the future, you can see some differences. Yang Yi rubbed the little girl's head with a smile and said, "If you don't understand anything in the future, come and ask your father again, okay?"

"Uh-huh!" the little girl nodded contentedly.