172. To each one sleeps his own

I don't know if what my sister said played a role, but in the next two months, Yan Ling's mother didn't make any more trouble.

It wasn't until a week before Yan Ling was about to be born that Yan Ling was sent back.

When Zhu Zhu returned to her parents' house, she saw that Yan Ling was still very thin and her state was still very unstable.

It seems that the whole person is in a trance.

Two cousins, their wives were pregnant at the same time, and the difference between the delivery date and Yan Ling was only one month.

He had been going around the city before, so Zhu Zhu only knew about it now.

The uncle and aunt are full of expectations, hoping that this time, the eldest brother can give birth to a male baby.

Zhu Zhu and his eldest brother are in the same year, his second baby is about to be born, and when he sees Zhu Zhu, he will naturally mention the matter of the second child.

"Auntie, shake her is a natural birth, one year or two years can be sound, I was born by caesarean section, and there was heavy bleeding when I was born, the doctor told me that it was best to regenerate in five years. ”

"Five years, it's too long, and sincerity is big. ”

"It's just right when it's big, and you can bring a small one. ”

Zhu Zhu said with a smile.

In fact, when Chengcheng was still one year old, Zhu Zhu still had plans to have a second child, but the older Chengcheng became, the more troublesome she became, she felt that her energy was really limited, and she couldn't spare more energy when she came to one.

Whenever someone asks about the second child, Zhu Zhu is perfunctory.

It really didn't work, so I used Mr. Dai as a shield, saying that Mr. Dai didn't want to give birth.

Dai's father and mother are sensible, and they have never urged, but they just said very euphemistically: "Zhu Zhu, my body is not as good as day by day, if you have the idea of giving birth to a second child, give birth as soon as possible, while I still have strength, I can help." ”

Every time Dai's mother said this, Mr. Dai would always say, "Let it be." ”

Dai's mother mentioned it once or twice, and then she didn't say anything more.

Presumably already know what they think.

Ye Xiaoli recently invited her to go shopping, but she was very diligent in her invitation.

After shopping, the two would eat at a nearby restaurant, and every time they ate, Zhu Zhu unilaterally listened to Ye Xiaoli pour bitter water.

"My mother-in-law always thinks I don't do housework. I used to take my son alone, but now I am finally sent to school, I can go to work, and I am so tired when I come back from work every day, and I have to do housework. ”

"It's also appropriate to help out once in a while. ”

"The problem is, I don't like housework!"

Zhu Zhu felt that this answer was really a bit owed, what does it mean to not like to do housework.

Who likes to do housework?

But when everyone lives together, the housework should be shared with each other, and it doesn't matter how much, it's mainly one mind.

Her family gave her husband four or five years, and she even had to wash the dishes, which was indeed a bit too much.

But when Zhu Zhu said this, Ye Xiaoli couldn't listen to it.

She thinks that she can go to work every day, and she will not do housework unless she is killed.

With such an axis, Zhu Zhu could only laugh at it.

"By the way, we've known each other for so long, and I still don't know what your husband does?"

"Oh, to put it bluntly, it's a technician. ”

Zhu Zhu back.

"Oh, what about the salary?"

"It's okay, the annual salary is about 340,000. ”

Ye Xiaoli's eyes widened: "It's so high, what kind of technology is it, my husband has been working in his company for seven or eight years, and his annual salary is only more than 100,000 yuan." Your husband's salary alone is much higher than that of my family!"

Then he sighed twice: "No wonder you can be a housewife in a good way." If it were me, I wouldn't go to work either. ”

"If it weren't for the fact that my children are now in a critical period of growth, I would rather have a job of my own, and it doesn't matter how much I earn, or how little I earn, that is, I won't be out of touch with this society. ”

"You don't have a backache when you stand and talk, who won't enjoy the blessings, why are you tired and tired. ”

Perhaps, everyone's life is different.

"Zhu Zhu, how many years have you been married to your husband?"

"Well, it's been three or four years. ”

Ye Xiaoli then asked: "Then how is the relationship between you and your husband, do you feel that it is not tasteful?"

Zhu Zhu smiled, a little unaware of what Ye Xiaoli meant by taste.

"My husband and I have been sleeping in separate beds since I was pregnant, and now we are lying in bed, and the two of us play with our own mobile phones, and when we have finished playing, we will sleep separately, and we have nothing to say. ”

"Where's your son?"

"My son, sleep with his grandmother. ”

"Four years old, at this time, you can try to let him sleep alone, always sleep with the elderly, it is not good for the child's physical and mental health. Since your son is not with you, you should have enough space for the two of you, how can you have nothing to say!"

Ye Xiaoli and her husband haven't reached seven years yet!

Is it the legendary seven-year itch? Can't you......

"I think it should be that you guys broke the bed at the beginning, I don't know what others think, I just know that no matter what the reason, it's always bad to split the bed. ”

Ye Xiaoli muttered and complained: "It's not his mother yet, she asked us to sleep in separate beds when I was pregnant, for fear that I would affect her son's sleep." This point goes directly to the birth of my son. ”

Oh my God.

What is going on?

"Why do you have to listen to your mother-in-law about the affairs of your husband and wife?"

"My mother-in-law is basically in charge of everything at home, and even my husband's salary is handed over to my mother-in-law. Every time I talk to him, he always says that he has to save his money to buy a house. ”

Ye Xiaoli said so much.

Zhu Zhu heard that there were too many problems in the relationship between husband and wife, and they could not be solved in one or two sentences.

The most important question.

Ye Xiaoli obviously realized what the problem was, but she would only complain, and there was no substantive change at all.

Even if you change yourself, you don't have this kind of thought.

Her relationship with Ye Xiaoli is not so good that Zhu Zhu gives her advice step by step.

So, apart from a few innocuous words of comfort, there is nothing else!

Friends have deep friendships, and naturally there will be encounters.

But Ye Xiaoli felt that she had found someone to talk to, and basically if she had any unhappy things, she would discuss with Zhu Zhu, or say that she would vomit bitterness.

Zhu Zhu has time, just listen.

If you don't have time, just refuse!

It's not that Zhu Zhu is so powerful, because Ye Xiaoli didn't think about changing at all, and she didn't want to say too much chicken soup for the soul to a "terminally ill" patient.

Ten days later, the spirit of words was finally activated.

In other words, she was desperate to stay in the hospital for ten days even though the doctor said that she could go home for delivery.

"Fortunately, there is still some background in the family, otherwise if you have a child, you will have to empty your family. ”

My sister said.

What can be done, she just lies there and doesn't leave.

The child was born very quickly, and it took only two or three hours to give birth.

Another boy.

Mom was so happy that she forgot most of the pain of being disturbed by words for a year.

All kinds of services with long words and short words.

They are not divorced yet, and it is good when they are sober.

So the family didn't say anything.

Because it was a natural delivery, the doctor said that he could be discharged from the hospital after a day or two of observation.

But when it was time to be discharged from the hospital, Yan Ling refused to be discharged from the hospital, and had to live in the hospital.

What kind of good place is the hospital, to be discharged, who is not running faster than a rabbit, she is still addicted.

The elder brother pinched his temples: "It's up to you, if you have to be hospitalized, let your mother pay the expenses later!"

When Yan Ling's mother heard this, her eyes widened.

The spirit of the words is only regarded as not seeing.

Yan Ling's mother probably took care of being in the hospital, so she endured it and didn't move, and left in a huff.

She's gone, and the cost is none of her business.

As soon as the person leaves, the spirit of speech begins to make trouble.

"You pay me, I'm going to go to the hospital for ligation. ”

To be honest, when Yan Ling spoke, Zhu Zhu's mother and sister looked at Yan Ling in disbelief.

Not to mention that she has just given birth, and her body is still very weak.

As far as she and Zhu Ming are arguing about divorce, does she want to take the tie and go directly to her parents' family and not marry for the rest of her life?

I'm afraid that if she thinks so, her mother won't let her go.

It doesn't cost much to tie the ligation, and my sister is now very disgusted with Yan Ling, but at the same time sympathizes with her, and patiently persuades, but Yan Ling can't listen to anything.

is to be sterilized, and he is asking his brother for money.

"You'd better ask the doctor to see if your body can be sterilized. The elder brother listened to her and her sister's conversation, and since she didn't listen to everything that should have been said, she went with her.

Yan Ling really asked.

As they expected, the doctor did not give Yan Ling a ligation, but Yan Ling scolded the doctor directly, Xu is nerves began to go crazy again, and after a tranquilizer, he was discharged from the hospital with Yan Ling.