The most unhappy marriage (one of the peculiar marriages) Zhang Baotong 2016.5.1

One day in May 2008, Zhao Yanmei, who was cooking in the school cafeteria, brought a fellow villager to my office and asked me to help him enroll a new student. Because Zhao Yanmei came to work at the school because someone else asked me to introduce her, so the relationship between us is relatively close. Looking at her face, I won't say much, as long as she comes up with 2,000 yuan, I will handle it for her immediately. Because the school has a rule that every new student must pay 2,000 yuan to the school.

However, her fellow villagers were very embarrassed, saying that she couldn't take out even 1,000 yuan, not to mention 2,000 yuan, because they had just come out of the Lantian Mountains to work, and they hadn't earned a penny yet. I'm sorry that the school won't accept it if you don't pay the money. Seeing this situation, Zhao Yanmei didn't say much, because she cooked in our school, and her son also paid 2,000 yuan to go to school. There was no way, Zhao Yanmei had no choice but to send her fellow villagers away. After that, she explained to me that she didn't know that the fellow couldn't get the money, otherwise she wouldn't have taken her from me. Later, she told her about her fellow countryman.

The fellow's name is Li Juan, slender and tall, he looks only twenty-one or twelve years old, and when he is young, he naturally looks delicate and beautiful. Li Juan is a girl from Zhao Yanmei's village, and when she was 14 years old, she had a major incident. Because Lantian is close to Shangluo, you can't see people for many miles in the deep mountains and valleys. Therefore, the people inside are so poor that they can't eat white-flour steamed buns a few times a year. Li Juan's family lives in two small black rooms, one is used as a hall and the other is a bedroom, so at night, the family of four sleeps on the same bed. As a result, her father, who was not as good as the beast, fell asleep at night and raped her. After a long time, Li Juan became pregnant, and it was not until she was four or five months old that her mother found out.

The mother hurriedly took her to the county hospital and had the fetus removed. However, since then, Li Juan's reputation has deteriorated, she can't go to school, and she can't get out. Her parents began to find a way to marry her off quickly. However, everyone knows that this kind of thing happened to Li Juan's family, and no one dares to ask Li Juan. At this time, someone saw that the sons of the poorest Liu family in the village were twenty-two or three years old, and they had not yet found a girl, so they intended to match the two families. In fact, he is so poor that no one will send the girl to his house. Fortunately, one is a girl with a bad reputation, and the other is a family that is so poor that no one follows her. The female baby's family didn't want a penny, and the male baby's family didn't pay a penny, so they gave the female baby to the male baby's family. Because in the countryside, the female baby is most afraid of bad reputation, and the male baby is most afraid of poverty at home. Therefore, the union of these two young people can be described as the most unhappy marriage in the countryside.

Because the man's family really couldn't afford the wedding, and the girl's family felt that the reputation was not good, and they didn't want to show up, so the two families got married in a daze. The man didn't spend a penny to marry such a young and beautiful girl, and he felt that he had taken a big advantage. As for the reputation of the girl, they don't care. Because the poorer a person is, the less he cares about fame. In addition, the girl is still young, her body is good, and her appearance is delicate, so the man's family likes her very much, and the man also cherishes her as a baby.

The man's family is indeed very poor, even poorer than Li Juan. The two rooms couldn't be smaller, one for the old couple and one for the younger couple. In addition to a small table, a few small stools, and two beds, there was a small iron pot and a plastic basin. Maybe the girl is still young and doesn't care much about the material aspects of life and requirements, maybe she thinks that her reputation is not good, it's good to live like this, and men and old people like her, treat her as a baby in the family, and let her do everything first. Sometimes she was idle and wanted to go down with the man, but the man was afraid that he would tire her, so he wouldn't let her go to work. Therefore, she felt that she was living a very happy life, and there was no worry or displeasure.

Originally, the boy was still a little lazy, but after getting married, he suddenly became diligent. In order to make the female baby live well, the male baby is desperately cultivating in the mountains all day long, because there is a lot of wasteland on the mountains and can be cultivated casually. The girl broke away from her father's shadow and let the man love her like a baby, and slowly became coquettish, and soon gave birth to a girl.

At this time, men began to work in the county seat to earn some money to improve their lives. When it was time for the child to go to school, Li Juan felt that it was very inconvenient to walk more than 20 miles to go to school in the mountains and live in the school. Because the man loves Li Juan, she speaks like a holy decree. So, he came out of the mountains with Li Juan and the child.

Originally, the story stopped here, a few days ago, I met Zhao Yanmei, she has long stopped cooking in the school cafeteria, but opened a small restaurant with her husband, and the business is doing well. She told me that she went to Li Juan, saying that Li Juan had opened a barber shop in the southern suburbs, and had earned more than 100,000 yuan over the years, not only built a two-story small building for her family, but also bought a small truck for her husband to run freight. I asked her about her child's schooling, and Zhao Yanmei said that her child was in junior high school and was as beautiful as her.

To witness the current state of this couple's most unhappy marriage. The next day, I specially blocked the car and went to the small shop opened by Li Juan with Zhao Yanmei. The shop is in an urban village in the southern suburbs of Xi'an, the shop is 15 or 6 square meters, it seems to be doing well, and two young girls are hired to help. At this time, Li Juan was still so young, her face was white and clean, she wore a light pink makeup, wore a very new dress, and her hair was combed very foreign. She doesn't look like a woman from the mountains.

After that, I thought that I had seen many girls and women from the countryside and the mountains, their youth was always so short, they didn't see each other for a few years, sometimes they didn't see each other for a year, and they aged very quickly, but Li Juan still looked young and beautiful. I think this should be because she has always been deeply loved by her husband and his family, and she doesn't worry about life or feelings. How can such a person not be young? If Li Juan marries someone else, will she still be like this?

A girl with a bad reputation and a man from a poor family, how can two unfortunate people live in the envy of others. I think that whether a marriage is happy or not is not judged by others, not what happened in the past, but whether the husband and wife can sincerely love each other and work together. Li Juan and her husband did not complain about each other in this unhappy marriage, but also thanked each other and loved each other. That's why they're happily married.

Description of the "Peculiar Marriage" series

I was the secretary of the school from 1993 to 2014, and our school is one of the best schools in the neighborhood and is opposite the largest building materials market in the Northwest. The maximum number of migrant workers working in the building materials market can reach 70,000 or 80,000. Because I have been in school for a long time, the school is in our community, and our community is the second largest residential community in the city, so there are many people who rent houses in our community, and there are many people who know me. They all knew that I was a very sympathetic person, so many migrant workers living nearby came to me for help in order to send their children to school. Because the school has to charge a sponsorship fee of 2,000 to 5,000 yuan. Collecting sponsorship fees is a violation of the law, and the procuratorate and the newspaper have to investigate and deal with it, but this is the case in almost all schools. In order to avoid people from suing, the school must be introduced and guaranteed by someone, that is, whoever introduces the person who has an accident must be responsible. Therefore, I have helped many migrant workers with such helps. Later, when they met their children in middle school, they also asked me to help, and I did my best to help them, so they regarded me as a friend and even told me about their marriage and life. I heard a lot of this kind of thing, but I just lamented it at the time, and I didn't think to write about it. Now that I've taken a back seat, I signed a contract with "Biquge www.biquge.info", so I want to sort out these things and write them with the theme of "Strange Marriage". These stories seem strange, but they are not strange at all, but they are real things, or they make people in the city feel strange, but they are very common in the poor Shangluo area and the Weibei Plateau. That marital status, even if it changes today, was the same a decade or two ago. These things are things that I have heard and seen with my own ears, but in order to write them, I have to give them a certain theme and thought. But I won't change the plot of the story casually, just to protect their **, I have to use a pseudonym.