In the last two chapters, everyone has been discussing Xiaoshan's problem.

In fact, I want to say that this foreshadowing has actually been buried a long time ago, and I won't list a lot of small foreshadowings in front of me, originally when Song Xue and Chen Chao first met to look at the photo album.

At that time, a reader friend told me about the relationship between Li Yanan and Song Xue, and I was very surprised at the time, but I didn't reply to it in order not to penetrate the drama, so this plot was set a long time ago, and it was not a temporary brain hole or anything.

In addition, many people say that Shin Shin has now become a bear child.

I don't know how you define a bear child, but if so, I can tell you that 95 percent of the children are bear children.

In my opinion, only children who cause trouble to others are called bear children.

Shin Shin is definitely not a bear child, and she is only naughty when she is with her father, and she never behaves with her mother, grandpa, grandma or others, in their eyes, Shin Shin is a very well-behaved child.

In addition, the child is skinned with you, which is actually a manifestation of love for you, just like when you are in school, you like a girl, and you always like to work against her.

There are many examples of children who, when they are playing with you, suddenly reach out and slap you in the ear, and many adults are very angry and start scolding the child loudly.

In fact, this is not right, this is an expression of her love, and this way of adults will make the child gradually alienate you.

Adults usually like to ask children from their own thinking perspective, which is why many children's books in China now feel like adults are pretending to be mentally handicapped, and there is always a weird feeling when reading.

When you really have children, you will find that children's wisdom is not just mentally handicapped adults, they have their way of thinking.

I don't know if you have read "David Can't" or "Baby Bear Series", David and Brother Xiong and Sister Xiong in the book may not be regarded as good children.

However, the former won the Caldecott Award, and the latter sold 250 million copies and is a best-selling children's brand around the world.

Education does not rely on beating to make children remember for a long time, and some readers in the comment area said that if you don't play, you can't remember, and you can remember it if you play.

In fact, this kind of education has gone wrong, why can children remember it when they play?

This is a manifestation of the lack of good education, so it is taught in a worse way.

Among them, it is said that the problem of Shin Shin running out without permission is a big problem, yes, the child has a problem, but the adult has no problem?

And when she ran out, the child was not sensible, so she came back and beat her up, telling her that it was not right, so that she could remember it for a long time, so what about the adults?

A child who can reason with you, you can also reason with her, there is no need to fight, she will also know what can be done and what cannot be done, instead of relying on beating, to tell the child right and wrong.

Also, follow me in the comment section to reply to the Jamie family readers.

At the beginning, Shin Shin was timid and introverted because of the lack of a father, and gradually became extroverted because of the pampering of her parents and grandparents, which is actually a change in personality by the environment.

In addition, why is it written like this, it is also for the plot to unfold, has it been written that she is a good baby? Obediently get up every day, eat obediently, obediently read there obediently, and repeat it like this, the book is still not written?

I'm afraid that this book will not be able to be written for a long time, at least in terms of children, there will be a lot less writing, and it will become a business article.

As a long story, the adult world is no longer free of all kinds of conflicts, and the world of children is no matter how plain it is, so can it still be written?

The most successful in writing children, it is estimated that Xiaoxin and Xiaomaruko, if both of them are well-behaved and sensible children, it is estimated that they would have been written long ago, and they would definitely not have been serialized for so many years.

Are there any other people who write about children who are well-behaved and successful? I mean purely about children, I'm afraid there are not? Even if there are, they are some short stories.

Usually selling dog meat on the head of a sheep, writing about parents' love, writing about parents' careers, etc., if you really want to reduce it, how much of the content is about children?

In fact, there are many roads, which ones don't go and which ones go through, not in my mind, but summed up.

In addition, I don't agree with Xinxin very much that Xinxin is a bear child, and the father is a bear child? I can only say that those who say this kind of thing probably have no children, or have no patience to take care of children, so they think so.

As long as children do not cause trouble to others, they are all well-behaved children, just like the adult world, not causing trouble to others, it is the best upbringing.

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