54. The woman
My brother didn't come back to sleep at night.
When I woke up in the morning, my mother sat on the sofa and sighed, and she didn't even make breakfast.
"Zhu Zhu, you hurry up and call your brother to see where he went this night and why he didn't come back to sleep. ”
"Mom, my brother is an adult now, and if he doesn't come back to sleep one night, he doesn't need to worry so much. ”
If Zhu Zhu is a man, her mother will be disgusted if she controls her like this.
When the child grows up, it is time to learn to let go.
Whether the road ahead is flat or rugged, let him go on his own for the next road of life.
"How could these mothers you are talking about not know!
When you have a child yourself, you will understand the pain of being a mother!"
"Mom, brother, he just didn't come back to sleep, you ......"
"Zhuzhu, do you know why your brother didn't come back, do you know why your brother didn't answer his mother's call?"
Isn't it because my mother is too long-winded?
Zhu Zhu looked at her mother, her face became worse and worse.
"You should still have an impression of your brother's severed finger back then!"
This incident is naturally remembered, although she was still young back then, but this incident had too much impact, and she remembered it deeply.
That year, my brother had just transferred from the best high school in Europe to a private school, but he had been disobedient and often slipped out of school in the middle of the night.
One day, my brother's homeroom teacher called in the middle of the night and said that my brother had slipped out again, and I don't know how many times, my parents were angry and looked for someone in a nearby Internet café overnight.
Finally, when it was almost dawn, I found my brother's figure in an Internet café, and every parent looked forward to their son Jackie Chan, watching my brother fall like this and waste his youth.
Dad is angry and doesn't choose what he says, and what he says naturally doesn't like to hear.
My brother is young and vigorous, and because his parents forced him to transfer to another school to hate them, what his father said now is undoubtedly adding fuel to the fire.
The elder brother rushed out of the Internet café in a rage, and a knife he found out of nowhere cut off the middle finger of his left hand directly in front of his father.
Blood gushed out, and my brother spasmed in pain, but he didn't bow his head to his father: "You forced me." ”
Yes, from my brother's point of view, it was his parents who forced him.
As for parents, no matter how angry they are, it is impossible to really leave their son alone, if this finger can't be connected, it will directly affect his future life.
Mom and Dad threw in the towel.
promised not to interfere with his freedom again.
The premise is to go to the hospital immediately to connect the broken finger, fortunately, there is a cousin in the hospital, and everything has been connected on the way to the hospital, and the middle finger of my brother can barely be saved.
However, there is no guarantee that it will be able to return to its previous level of flexibility.
Mom and Dad came back the next afternoon, and their faces were gloomy and frightening, and they didn't come out again after entering the room.
Such a big thing, Zhu Zhu naturally remembered.
"At that time, I promised your brother not to interfere with his freedom.
Mom thought she could do it, but when things came to the end, she realized that she really couldn't watch your brother fall into it like this. ”
She has been through all this before, how could she not know that letting go at the right time will be better for the mother-son relationship.
She also wants to be an enlightened mother!
Zhu Zhu silently closed her mouth, she was self-righteous.
She is persuading her mother now because she is a bystander and cannot experience the feeling of being a mother.
It would be so easy to say that you don't care about children's affairs.
Zhu Zhu thought about what kind of woman her brother's girlfriend was.
will let the mother, who has been forced by marriage, also intervene in her brother's feelings.
"Mom, I'll call my brother now, don't worry too much!" Zhu Zhu took out his mobile phone, but the phone prompted the other party that the phone had been turned off.
Mom sighed and smiled bitterly: "Your brother's temper is like mine." ”
After saying that, it seemed to fall into memory.
Maybe it's when I remember my youth.
When my mother was twenty years old, she met a teenager, and the two quickly fell in love.
However, the young man's family was too poor, and in the end the young man decided to become a soldier, hoping to get ahead one day.
Mom was there and waited day in and day out.
After waiting for three years, the young man didn't come back, but my mother was still stubborn to wait for her young man to come back.
But women, how many three years can be spent?
Especially in my mother's era, at her age, babies would play soy sauce.
My grandparents decided to give my mother a blind date.
Everything was done in secret, and my mother didn't know about it.
One day, my grandmother asked my mother how the man she saw the other day was.
Mom nodded nonchalantly, not thinking about anything else.
But my grandmother thought that my mother's nodding meant that she was satisfied, so she told my mother that the person's name was Zhu Taimin, and he was from the next village.
At this time, my mother realized that my grandmother was giving her a blind date.
Strongly disagree.
My grandfather has a violent temper, and if he doesn't agree, he has to agree, but his mother has a strong temperament and would rather die than give in.
The father and daughter were at a stalemate for more than a month.
A month later, my mother suddenly received a letter from a young man my mother had been waiting for for three years.
She happily opened the letter, but the content inside made her mother want to die.
The young man in the letter said that he was married......
Let mom stop waiting for him!
The disheartened mother finally agreed to the marriage.
It's just that God seems to love to play tricks on his mother, and on the day of the engagement, he found out that this person was not Zhu Taimin at all when he saw him, but a strange man.
This man is my mother's current husband, Zhu Zhu's father, also called Zhu Taimin.
Mom asked Grandma what was going on.
Grandma said that this man is also called Zhu Taimin, the difference is that the conditions in his family are much better than the man I saw last time, so after weighing, my grandparents chose the latter.
Mom naturally didn't agree, even if she didn't marry her sweetheart in the end, she couldn't be so confused.
Grandpa slapped the table: "You have to marry or not, you have to marry, and the bride price has been received." ”
In a fit of rage, my mother rushed to the yard and jumped into the well.
Mom's jump back then was similar to my brother's cutting off his finger in a fit of anger.
It's all about hurting oneself and having reached resistance to one's parents.
It's a pity that even if my mother was forced to die, she finally married my father.
According to Dad, it was the arm that couldn't twist the thigh.
Moreover, he married him because he wholeheartedly took care of his injured mother in bed for three months, and his mother was moved.
But according to Mom, Dad was taking advantage of others.
Mom came to her senses from the memories.
"I don't ask your brother to marry a perfect woman, but at least he must be innocent, but that woman, who is dirty, is a joke to marry. ”
"Mom, is that woman really, as rumored?"
It's so unbearable.