Who can worry about Zhang Baotong 2018.8.8

The retired old Wang Tou and Hu Laosan, who sold breakfast, sat under the big tree in front of the building every afternoon to play chess, looking at their happy, carefree and happy appearance, some people were very envious, and couldn't help but say with emotion: People live in this world, do not seek to be rich and rich, but only to seek peace and happiness. In fact, not many people living in this world are praying for great wealth and wealth, but almost everyone is praying for peace and happiness.

It's just that people don't know that Lao Wangtou and Hu Laosan often have insomnia at night and can't sleep. Old man Wang's son works in a private company, and the factory pays his salary in March and February, and his son is in his thirties and has not yet said who he is. How can this not make Old Man Wang worry and worry? Hu Laosan is a migrant worker in his 40s who has come to the city from other places, and he takes his wife and son to set up a stall in front of the community all day to sell breakfast. Not to mention anything else, the chengguan inspected and cleaned up several times a day, so that his business could not settle down. If the business is not settled, there is no way to make money, but in addition to the family's food, drink, and sleep, he also has to pay rent, management fees, and sanitation fees to other people.

However, in normal times, we only notice that the sun rises every day, and the seasons continue to repeat. People in the sun seem to be smiling, and people are still saying hello to each other, and everything is fine. Just like people's blessings and prayers, the years are quiet and all is well. But our prayers and blessings can never be as good as we want. Because Heaven does not give a person both happiness and wishful thinking. Because he knows that once he gives you happiness and wishes, you will become carefree, and there will be no hope to fight for and no longer have the direction to strive for. Without worries and worries, there will be no more joy and surprise. Joy and surprise are gained in the process of overcoming worries and worries.

In some of our relatives and friends, almost everyone has their own worries and worries. Lao Wei's daughter has no job, and found a man from other places who has no job, the two went out all day to find work, and gave birth to a girl who is three or four years old, no one to bring, and they not only have to help take care of the child, but also have to help raise the child. Therefore, as soon as he remembered that his daughter was neither deaf nor dumb, neither lame nor crutches, nor stupid nor ugly, but found a son-in-law who had no job, Lao Wei was so angry that he couldn't sleep at night. Besides, Lao Lin's son got married and divorced, and he happened to encounter the poor efficiency of the unit again, so he went home from work. Although some people introduced their sons to their partners, as soon as they heard about the situation of their son's unit, the woman didn't want to go any further. This incident made Lao Lin sigh all day long, and his heart was restless. Lao Yuan's son was more competitive and found a good job, but the old lady was paralyzed on the bed and asked him to serve all day long, not only to feed him with water and food, but also to carry his little hands to the bathroom, which not only tired him so much that his back hurt, but also often made him unable to sleep at night. Lao Liu is the person who makes everyone more envious, his daughter and son-in-law have the ability, they earn a lot of money, their granddaughter is also smart, and their parents are also in other places, so they don't need him to care. However, he himself was not angry, and he had psoriasis, which not only made him spend a lot of money looking for doctors and medicines, but the disease was not completely cured. Lao Ma is known as a cash cow by everyone, and he used to be the administrative leader of the unit and made a lot of money. After retirement, he worked part-time outside, and he could earn three or four thousand yuan a month. It is said that his family has four or five million, to say the least. However, a few years ago, because of his insurance, the insurance company defrauded him of two or three million, and he was so angry that he almost jumped off the building at that time. Although the owner of the insurance company was caught, he did not get any money back. Therefore, when he thought of this, he gritted his teeth in anger. Boss Huo has money and ability, lives in a big house and has a luxury car, and his children are also doing business, looking for the daughter of a richer boss. However, I have been married for seven or eight years, and I have not yet had children. I heard that both of them went to the hospital for a check-up, and it seems that the daughter-in-law has a problem. However, he wanted his son to divorce his daughter-in-law, but his son did not want to divorce yet. If the son doesn't get divorced, he can't find a new daughter-in-law, and if he doesn't find a new daughter-in-law, he can't have a child, so this also makes Boss Huo a headache. Xiao Yang is okay, he is not yet forty years old, he is an administrative leader in the unit, the efficiency of the unit is good, and there are safety awards and management awards at the end of the year, not to mention that he can get 30,000 or 40,000 yuan. The children attend private schools, and the wife is an employee of a railway unit. It stands to reason that he has nothing to worry about except for the work in the unit. However, he was too heavy to lose weight, and when he slept one night, he suddenly couldn't breathe, but fortunately he was awakened, and he breathed out through his mouth, so he was not breathless. But the doctor warned him that he could easily suffocate if he continued like this. Since then, Xiao Yang has always had a sense of fear when he sleeps at night.

People of different status and classes have different worries and worries. For farmers in the countryside, whether their children have a job or not is not a big concern, and if they want to find a job, they will come to the big city to find it. However, if the children of the city people do not have regular or stable jobs, their parents will be worried that the sky is about to fall. For those who can only get a salary of 2,000 yuan all year round, they feel that this is their monthly salary. However, if a person who used to receive a high salary suddenly receives a salary of 2,000 yuan, it will feel as if the end is coming.

In the eyes of our people, those leaders with higher positions are very enviable, and they don't seem to have any difficulties and troubles, because their children's schooling and employment are not a problem for them, let alone buying a house or a car. But it cannot be said that they are free from troubles and worries. Because those big leaders have positions and powers, they have a lot of resources and social connections, and the big things that ordinary people worry about and consider are just small things in their eyes. Their big story is how to go one step higher, how to make more money. Because I don't have much contact with these higher-ranking leaders, I still don't know much about their worries and worries. But I know an administrative leader of a unit, and he is most afraid that the financial or discipline inspection team from above will come to the unit for inspection. Every time there was an inspection by a unit under the inspection team of the financial and discipline inspection commissions at a higher level, he would not sleep well for several days at night, and he would adopt some methods to entertain the members of the inspection team.

Not to mention that leaders with higher positions will have worries and troubles, even the president of the United States will have a lot of worries and troubles. The wood is beautiful in the forest, and the wind will blow it. The wind is always strongest at the top of the mountain. It's just that their worries and troubles are different from those of our people. Therefore, we should understand that no matter who you are, what position and position you hold, whether you are smart or stupid, whether you have a successful career or do nothing, you will have your own troubles and worries. Constantly overcoming and eliminating these worries and worries may be the value and meaning of our lives.