The winner of life Zhang Baotong compiled 2018.7.2

For human society, everyone's birth is a new life, and this new life is something that this society has never had before. Therefore, everyone will have their own unique way of seeing, hearing, touching, tasting and thinking, and will also learn many skills and skills in life. This allows him not only to have his own unique potentials, abilities and limitations, but also to become a meaningful, thoughtful, conscious, and creative person. This kind of productive person is a winner in life in itself.

The winners and losers in life are two different endings in life, and the meanings between them are very different. When we call a person a winner, we don't have to find an opposing loser, because he didn't beat someone. The meaning of a winner in life is very broad, and for us, a winner in life can be a person who feels credible, reliable, responsive and flexible. Whether as an individual or as a member of society, he is sincere, open-minded and generous. The winner of life will not pin his fate on his beautiful imagination, he knows that this beautiful imagination is just a dream, and if the dream is to come true, it will take great hard work and effort. Therefore, they will not devote their time and energy to meaningless performances and false names, let alone manipulate and calculate others with false and disguised appearances, but face life head-on, have the courage to take responsibility, and be their true selves.

They know the difference between being loved and being loved, between being stupid and doing stupid things, and between being rational and remaining sane. They don't need masks to hide their truth. They do not hide their pursuits and struggles, and are good at using the knowledge they have to solve problems in life. They always separate facts from opinions, study and research, and find out ways and means to solve problems, instead of pretending to be smart, as if they know everything, can do anything, and are able to know all the answers.

They are good at listening to others, absorbing their strengths, and then drawing their own conclusions. Although winners in life appreciate and respect others, they do not copy the conclusions of others in their entirety, nor are they bound and framed by the conclusions of others.

The winner in life does not put himself in helpless embarrassment, nor does he play the game of blame. On the contrary, they have the courage to take responsibility, do not show authority in front of others, and they think that they should be the boss of their own life. They are able to grasp the right moment, respond appropriately to the actual situation, and make their reactions and messages relevant to the importance of the people involved, so that the people concerned can feel their own worth, happiness and dignity.

Winners in life know that everything has its best time, and every event has a special time. They are free to enjoy life, but they often put it off and use the present moment to work so that they can enjoy life better in the future.

Winners in life will also pursue what they aspire to, only in the right way and at the right time. They don't gain security by controlling others, they don't push themselves into trouble and push into failure. They are concerned about the world and its people. Therefore, they are broad-minded and deeply concerned about society, but they do not isolate themselves on the surface of general social problems. They are compassionate and enterprising, striving to continuously improve the quality of life. Even in the face of national and international adversity, the self-image of a winner in life will not be that of an impotent individual.

A winner in life makes the world a better place.