Marriage Counselor (Part II) Zhang Baotong

It's not that men learn bad when they have money, and it's not that women are lonely and want to cheat. It's that people are looking for something beautiful. Some people are a root in your eyes, but they are a treasure in the eyes of others, and you are excited about what others think is boring, but you are excited about it. But no, whose new love is not someone else's old love?

This is Wu Qian's exclamation after saving another marriage. There are some basic habits and rules for the love of the two, from love to love, and then from love to gradually cold. Therefore, if love is not guaranteed by marriage and morality, then the gathering and dispersion of love will be a frequent and common phenomenon. No matter what kind of love, there is rarely that kind of real white-headed old age and life and death dependence, unless it is marriage and children that force them to live together. Therefore, it is not complicated to drive away the mistress, and the success rate will be very high. This is true of Anna and Volynsky, of Julien and Madame de Rela, of even Marguerite and Armand of La Traviata. Moreover, a friendship fades once it leaves, and a love dissolves once it separates. People's feelings and love are like that.

The same is true of the case that Wu Qian received today. This is the case of one of his acquaintances. This acquaintance's name is Zheng Yufang, a lawyer at Weiyuan Law Firm, who specializes in divorce cases. She doesn't know how many divorce cases she has to handle every year, but what she didn't expect was that her own marriage went wrong.

When she said this, she was so angry that she burst into tears. Her husband's name is Min Zhixiong, and she was a college classmate, just 40 years old this year, and is an associate professor at a well-known university. He is mild-mannered, dignified, middle-aged, ambitious, and has a successful career, and is a well-known scholar in the national youth science and technology talent pool. For many years, although they have also experienced some emotional setbacks, she never expected him to cheat.

Not long ago, she went to Hangzhou on a business trip and returned home two days early. When I entered the house, my husband was not at home, and the computer was not turned off. She saw her husband's chat history with a woman on the computer, and both of them were called "heart" and "baby". So, she used his identity to continue chatting with the woman, and the woman even sent a few photos of them hugging each other and making love.

The photo is taken in front of the rape flowers and peony flowers in the spring garden, the two are embracing, smiling brightly, and full of sweet and intoxicating happiness. The woman was about thirty-four or five years old, very young, very pretty, wearing a very short blouse and a very fashionable skirt, and the whole look was seductive and amorous. The woman's name was Fu Xiaoyun, a name she had heard because she had her business card in his drawer, a private owner who sold construction pipes.

Seeing these chat records and photos, she was really about to collapse: it turned out that her husband was a stranger who shared a bed with her and had different dreams, and on the surface he maintained a marriage relationship with her, but he loved the little rich woman in his heart. She said to Wu Qian sadly, "I am a marriage lawyer, specializing in divorce lawsuits. But I still hope that people will truly love each other, and everyone's marriage will have a happy ending. However, my husband's cheating made me realize that the marriage vow had turned into a lie, and I felt like I had been stabbed in the heart by a sharp sword. I didn't cry, I didn't quarrel, I didn't blame, I didn't complain, I just calmly said to my husband, let's divorce!"

Originally, I thought my husband would not agree, after all, our relationship has always been good, and divorce is not a good thing for him. He must be the same as other men, just cheating outside for a momentary pleasure, and once the matter is revealed, he will stop the precipice and find his way back. I've thought about it, and I'll forgive him if he's heartbroken and pleading with me. However, my husband was silent for a while, and replied in a firm tone, then let's leave. Since he is unwilling to admit his mistake and agree to the divorce, then I have nothing to say. Who's gone, who's not living? We wrote the divorce agreement and signed it. The agreement stipulates that the child and the house belong to me, because it is he who is at fault. But he didn't care about his possessions, claiming that he didn't want anything and was willing to leave the house.

"Actually, I don't really want a divorce, and I want him to admit his mistakes and correct them, but he has no hesitation and resolutely wants a divorce, which makes me at a loss for a while and panicked, but I can't show weakness and give in to boost his momentum. So, I had no choice but to divorce him.

"We made all the preparations so that we could go to the Civil Affairs Bureau on Tuesday morning to handle the divorce. Yesterday afternoon, I went to a family to mediate a divorce. When I arrived at the Xiafei villa community, I saw my husband's car in front of a very large villa. It was a three-story building, about the size of a basketball court, surrounded by an iron fence with a large open space with all kinds of flowers and plants. The house is very luxuriously decorated, and it is worth seven or eight million to say the least. Looking at this villa, I know that the owner of this house is not an ordinary woman. However, why does such a great woman fall in love with her husband? It is because my husband is so good, and his excellence is inseparable from my years of training. Now that I've trained him, I'm going to give him away? Am I stupid? Thinking about it, I decided to give up the divorce and pull my husband back from the little rich woman. ”

Wu Qian said to the female lawyer in an approving tone, "You finally understand." You can't kick your husband out of the house just because he's at fault. It's like a man who is sick, not to treat him, but to beat him to death with a stick. ”

Ms. Zheng sighed and said, "I didn't expect my husband to betray me, I really made him angry." That's why I came to you for help. ”

Wu Qian said, "You yourself are a lawyer engaged in divorce matters, and you have very rich experience in how to deal with marriage issues, why don't you want to deal with this matter yourself and let us intervene?"

"I'd love to take care of it myself, but I don't think it would work very well if I handled it myself." The first is that the fault of this matter is all on him, and if I want to deal with this matter, I must deign to say good things to him, and I will beg him instead, and second, he and the rich woman, you baby, I call him with all my heart, which shows that the relationship between them is very unusual. I am afraid that relying on my persuasion and education alone will not have any obvious effect; third, since he is willing to divorce me, it means that he has already made up his mind to live with others. In such a situation, if you don't give him some heavy and fierce medicine, you can't pull him away from the rich woman. ”

Wu Qian felt that Ms. Zheng was reasonable, but he had rarely done such a case in the past, and her husband's attitude towards divorce was very resolute, it was really not easy to pull her husband from that young and beautiful rich woman, but seeing that Ms. Zheng trusted him so much, he had to agree to help her with this.