Chapter 180: The mentality has changed
"Hmph, since you think so, do we need to talk about it further?" After Ah Ying sat down, he looked at Chen Gong angrily and said.
"You don't dare to talk, you're evasive! Since we have already spoken tonight, I will solemnly express my attitude to you. We're all adults, what are you going to do? I can't stop you. However, I will always be the father of five daughters, I love them, and I love this family! It will not change at any time! No one will try to deprive me of my rights!" Chen Gong said solemnly.
"What about me, what about our relationship for more than ten years?" A-Ying asked.
"Do you still care about our feelings? For so many years, you have always been arbitrary in front of me, in this family, and you have always been arbitrary. Did you ever care about my feelings when you gave orders to me?Do you really think I am your lover?" asked Chen Gong coldly.
"It seems that everything I have done wrong for so many years?" Ah Ying asked with red eyes.
Chen Gong didn't answer, but slowly raised his right hand to take off his glasses, opened his mouth and sighed at the lenses, and put them back on his eyes.
"Ah Xin, I'm sorry, I really didn't think about things before, I was too arbitrary, too selfish, I didn't take into account your feelings, and I didn't discuss with you. But in my heart, I have always loved you deeply, my family, our children, and all my loved ones. Ah Xin, I very much hope that our family can live happily as before. What do you think I should do in the future to become a qualified wife?" Ah Ying asked with tears in her eyes and very emotional.
"First of all, you have to be a qualified woman. Chen Gong replied lightly.
"Can you be specific?" asked A-Ying.
"Can you say anything?" Chen Gong asked rhetorically.
"Of course, now that we are communicating, the children and the eldest sister are resting, here is just us husband and wife, it is best to say all the words that are held in our hearts. A-Ying said calmly.
"I think that a qualified woman must first abide by women's morals and know how to follow the four virtues. After getting married, you must be a good wife and mother, husband and child. Did you do it?" asked Chen Gong arrogantly.
"Tell me what I didn't do, and I'm going to try to correct it in the future. A-Ying said.
"First of all, you didn't do the first one! What woman wants to recognize her godbrother at every turn? And the godbrother you recognize is neither related to us nor has a reason, don't you know that there are many people gossiping outside?
Secondly, are you filial to your parents? We have been married for six or seven years, have you ever been back to my hometown once? To this day, my relatives and friends still think that I am single.
Again, have you consulted me on anything you do at home? I am your husband, not your brother, and even less your attendant or servant!
Finally, in my career, have you ever taken the initiative to care about it? The son-in-law of a big boss of a dignified construction company actually worked as a construction worker on a construction site for four or five years. Even Ahua, an illiterate person, can contract projects in our company, earn a lot of money, and go home for the New Year every year. Have you considered my feelings? Have you really considered my future?" asked Chen Gong loudly with a red face.
"Ah Xin, can you sit down and listen to me explain them to you one by one?" Ah Ying asked calmly.
Chen Gong glared, walked to the sofa opposite Ah Ying and sat down indignantly, leaned on the back of the sofa, crossed Erlang's legs, and turned his face sideways in the direction of the restaurant.
Ah Ying poured a cup of hot tea first, and brought her hands in front of Chen Gong, who didn't even look at it.
After Ah Ying put the teacup on the coffee table, she sat back on the sofa and said gently: "Ah Xin, I know that you have been under a lot of pressure recently, and you feel very uncomfortable. I also know that over the years, I really haven't been a good wife and daughter-in-law as you ask. I'm sorry, I apologize to you!"
When A-Ying said this, her voice choked, and two lines of crystal tears flowed down her pretty face. She leaned over and took out two tissues from the coffee table, wiped the tears from her face, and said, "You and your family want me to be able to carry on the lineage for your family, and I have been working hard, but now I can't do it, please forgive me." You said at home, I've always been too aggressive. Actually, I never thought it would be like this, I just wanted to do something that I thought was right.
After we got married, I was pregnant and had a baby basically every year. I really want to go out to work, but the conditions don't allow it, so I can only do what I can according to my own ideas. One is to meet our desire to work, and the other is to lay a certain foundation for our future development. I really didn't want to command you and suppress you. ”
She saw that Chen Gong was as cold as ice and did not react. She sighed softly and continued, "As for your work, it was indeed me who suggested that you work in your uncle's company. At that time, I also suggested to my uncle that you be his assistant. But my uncle told me that you just came out of school, and you don't lack theoretical knowledge, but you lack practical work experience, so he arranged for you to work as a construction worker in the airport project department.
The uncle also said that at present, although he is the chairman of the head office, there are several directors below, all of whom are elites in the construction industry. In the future, if you want to take over his shift, you will have to do something that convinces the other directors. You have been a construction worker for so many years, you should see clearly that in order to make achievements in a construction company, you must be personally involved in the construction of the building, not sitting in the office every day. This is the reason why my uncle has always let you stay in the project department, and it is also my uncle's good intentions, why can't you understand it?"
"How do I understand that? I have been working as a construction worker in the airport project department for several years, and any department manager can call me as a little brother and a horse. Last year, I finally had the opportunity to transfer to the Netherlands to take charge of a project alone, and I was not yet hot when I got there, and a phone call asked me to go home for the New Year, and I was transferred back directly.
Now let me be the broken manager of the airport project department, and I am constrained and supervised everywhere. I want to reimburse 1,000 yuan for entertainment expenses, and I have to get the head office to ask the general manager to sign it. In addition to working day and night, I am tired like a dog, I have no rights at all, it is better to be a construction worker!" Chen Gong said angrily.
"Reimbursement of expenses goes through the normal procedure, this is the rules and regulations of the head office, and tens of thousands of employees in the company must implement it, is there a problem with this? Ah Xin, I found that you have changed, mainly because your mentality has changed, which is very dangerous!" Ah Ying said solemnly.