Chapter 1028 Marriage Counselor (11. Women Who Don't Understand Self-Love)
Marriage Counselor (Part II) Zhang Baotong (Continued from Chapter 815 to Save Marriage)
Before I knew it, in May, the gardenias on the balcony bloomed into a large and pure white flower, which was in stark contrast to the bright red tomatoes. The sunlight shines kindly and softly into the window, making people feel that the red flowers and green grass in front of them are really lovely. Because he was too busy, Wu Qian hadn't paid much attention to the scenery on this balcony for a long time. Today, I have a little time to look at this piece of flowers and plants, which is also a kind of leisure.
At this time, Fan Lisha led a woman into the house. Of course, Wu Qian knew that his life was coming again. He immediately came from the balcony to receive customers. Fan Lisha said to Wu Qian, "This is Ms. Peng, and Manager Kong has asked you to be in charge of handling her affairs." ”
Wu Qian looked at the woman carefully. The visitor was a woman of thirty-five or sixteen, wearing a half-worn blue long-sleeved shirt and black trousers, and a pair of cheap cloth shoes. Although she has long hair, it is a little disheveled and dull. Her face was not ugly, but it was a bitter one. This makes her look more like a forty-year-old woman. In his impression, most of the people who came here for help were women with quite decent appearance and rich pockets, because their fees ranged from 30,000 to 100,000 yuan, and ordinary poor people would not spend this amount of money on such things. Therefore, Wu Qian thought that this woman might not be poor, but she was too unparticular and made herself like this. If a woman makes herself like this, which man will like her?
Wu Qian asked Ms. Peng to sit down, poured a cup of tea and placed it in front of her, and then gave her a customer information registration form for her to fill out. After she finished filling it out, Wu Qian saw that Ms. Peng's name was Peng Peihua, 36 years old, from Pucheng, Shaanxi, who turned out to be a worker in a steel mill. Her husband's name is Dong Laishun, 39 years old, a driver of the railway locomotive depot, and now lives in the northern suburbs railway residential area. He looked at the form and asked, "When do you think your relationship with your husband started to crack?"
Ms. Peng thought for a moment and said, "Over the years, our relationship has been like that, neither cold nor hot. However, since the closure of our unit the year before last, I have been laid off. I thought I wasn't too old to go out and find a job. However, he said that you can earn a few dollars a day by working hard, forget it, just stay at home and take care of the children and cook for me. I listened to him and worked all day at home. I thought that as long as I did a good job at home and took good care of the house for him, so that he didn't have to worry about anything and didn't let him do anything, he would be nicer to me. However, I didn't think that he began to dislike me, that I was not particular, that I did not clean up, that I was sloppy, and that I did not look like a woman. But I stay at home all day and don't go out, who do I clean up and pay attention to? Besides, I'm busy at home all day, how can I have time to clean up?"
Ms. Peng talked for half an hour in one breath and drank a cup of tea. Wu Qian refilled her with another cup of tea. She took a sip of her glass and said, "Anyway, I think he's getting colder and colder to me, and sometimes he doesn't sleep with me at night." But he has not filed for divorce. One day, a strange woman called me and said that she was the one I loved in my family, and that they had both lived together for more than half a year, and asked me to be wise and divorce Laishun, because they were already inseparable. Hearing this, I wondered that Lai Shun was a train driver, and he usually went out for two or three days, and then went home to rest for two or three days. Moreover, he usually goes home as usual after work, and at most goes out to play mahjong at night, and then comes back to sleep, how can he have time to live with strange women?"
"When I came back from the sports car, I told him about the strange woman, and asked him if he lived with other women. If he had said that there was no such thing, I might have thought that it was a woman who was causing the bad to ruin our relationship, but Lai Shun not only did not explain it to me, but immediately yelled and wanted to divorce me. When I saw his attitude, I knew that he must have lived with the woman, so I put on a fight with him and quarreled. In a fit of rage, he left the house with his bag on his back. He didn't go home for two or three weeks, and he didn't reply to phone calls or texts. I can't help it, I can only come to you for help. ”
After listening to Ms. Peng's story, Wu Qian asked, "You mean you want us to help drive that woman away?"
Ms. Peng nodded hurriedly and said, "Yes, I see that my family is obsessed with ghosts, and I was coaxed by that woman." ”
Wu Qian asked, "Do you have any information about that woman?"
Ms. Peng said, "I only have the woman's mobile phone number, and she called me that night, and I wrote it down." As he spoke, he turned on his mobile phone, found out the woman's number, and asked Wu Qian to write it down.
Wu Qian said, "Can you tell us about your husband's usual range of activities?"
"He used to play cards at the recreation mahjong parlor in the community, but he hasn't been there since we had a fight," Ms. Peng said. I heard the owner of the mahjong parlor say that the woman used to come here to play cards, but she has never been here again in the past six months. ”
Wu Qian thought for a long time, and then asked, "Do you know your husband's commuting time?"
Ms. Peng shook her head and said, "I only know that he is on a two-day shift and resting for two more days." Anyway, as soon as he gets off work, he has to go home, and I have never asked about the specific situation, but I know that he is a bus from Xi'an to Wuhan. ”
Wu Qian asked again, "Does he give you his monthly salary?" because you must have enough money to rent a house outside and live with other women.
Ms. Peng said, "I have all the salary cards, but they can give me a lot of bonuses every month. He was in charge of the winnings. ”
In order to understand the reason and situation in more detail, Wu Qian asked, "Can I go to your house to have a look?"
"Absolutely. ”
Wu Qian drove Ms. Peng to the northern suburbs of the railway residential area. There are dozens of six-story buildings in the community, because they have been built for nearly 20 years, and compared with the newly built high-rise buildings around them, they look very old and lifeless. Ms. Peng's family lives in a five-story building in the community, with two bedrooms and one living room, about 70 square meters. Although the decoration and furnishings of the house are not luxurious, the house is clean and tidy. At first glance, people can know that this is a simple and diligent woman. However, this woman and Ms. Xia happen to be two completely different women. The Xia woman dresses herself up beautifully and doesn't pay much attention to the things in the house. But this Ms. Peng kept her home in order, but she didn't care about her dress and tidying up at all. Ms. Xia is a woman who does her own thing, does what she wants, and always thinks about herself, while Ms. Peng is a woman who is afraid of promises, honest, and thinks about her husband and children all in her heart. However, these two kinds of women cannot satisfy and like their husbands, so it can be seen that it is not easy to be a woman who satisfies and likes her husband. No man is a good servant.
After looking at the house, Wu Qian asked Ms. Peng to take a photo of her husband to see. Her husband looks younger than her, and he is also well-dressed, and the most important thing is that he is a train driver, and his salary is seven or eight thousand yuan a month. Such a comparison makes people feel that there is a very obvious gap between Ms. Peng and her husband.