"Hello ......"

At the same time, Ye Luo, who was in Hawaii, suddenly sneezed, then rubbed his itchy nose, and continued to look at Alice who was playing happily.

Sneezing is a very common thing in Ye Luo's opinion.

As for the strange statement that 'one is someone scolding you, two is someone thinking about you, and three is that you have a cold', he doesn't believe it at all.

Normal people will immediately think that they are going to catch a cold when they sneeze.

Ye Luo has no worries about this.

Since the crossing, he has never been sick, and his health is getting better day by day.

It's not that he brags!

It's almost impossible for something like being sick to happen to him.

Unless he prefers to die on his own, it is unknown whether he will get sick.

Ye Luo didn't do anything, just watched Alice and the children play in the amusement park with a smile on his face.

In this way, he and Alice spent about two hours at the amusement park.

When it was almost five o'clock, Ye Luo received a call from Scarlett, who had already gotten off work, asking where they were and that he was coming to pick up Alice, Ye Luo could only tell Scarlett the location, and then waited for her at the amusement park.

About ten minutes passed.

Scarlett came to the entrance of the amusement park with a tired face, and did not enter it immediately, but stood at the door and observed for a while.

She found that no matter where Alice played, Ye Luo could be seen about two meters away from her.

This discovery made her impression of Ye Luo change a little in her heart, although she knew that Ye Luo took Alice out of the square, and after Ye Luo's explanation, she knew that it was a misunderstanding, but to be honest, she was on guard against Ye Luo in her heart.

We all know that when people get along with people, first impressions are important.

First impressions are the impressions that the perceptual subject receives after their first contact or interaction with a stranger.

It has a great influence on the formation of people's general impression of people or things.

i.e. preconceived.

It may be yes or it may be no.

It often becomes the basis for people to decide their behavior for the second time and even in their future interactions.

The reason for this is that the representation formed by the initial information is not affected by the proactive inhibition in memory.

Generally, the first impression is nothing more than the information provided by strangers, such as conversation, demeanor, etc., the time, occasion and psychological background of contact and interaction, and the level of expectation of the perceptual subject, etc., which are completely formed by these aspects.

First impressions are mainly based on the other person's expression, posture, body, appearance, and clothing.

It is very common in everyday life, and this initial impression is often the basis for future interactions.

For example, the stereotype effect is closely related to the first impression, and the first impression is often the basis for the formation of the stereotype effect, and the stereotype effect is often the deepening and broadening of the first impression.

Especially in social practice, there are many examples in ancient and modern China and foreign countries where first impressions cause mistakes in employing people.

Therefore, managers should not only pay attention to the first impression, but also try to avoid the mistakes in understanding and employment caused by the first impression.

In fact, the first impression is a very common social phenomenon, and the modern high civilization is actually displayed at the social level.

A person's clothing, food, housing and transportation are inseparable from the surrounding social influences, and social environmental factors will also react on a person's inner world.

These are closely related, and they need to be carefully analyzed and studied, and they are also the content of psychological counselors.

The impression left by people in the first interaction between people is formed and occupies a dominant position in the other person's mind, and this effect is called the first impression effect, also known as the first effect.

The effect of the first effect will be greater than that of the later time.

The first impression effect refers to the influence of the impressions formed by the initial exposure to information on our subsequent behavioral activities and evaluations.

It's really about the impact of first impressions.

The first impression effect is a well-known principle for women and children.

Officials always pay great attention to the 'three fires' at the beginning of their tenure, and the common people are also well aware of the wonderful use of 'dismounting', and everyone tries to leave a good 'first impression' on others.

Although Scarlett's impression of Ye Luo has changed, it is only a small one.

To be honest, Scarlett, like most people, always likes to have preconceived ideas before she understands the reason for things.

Even if Ye Luo explained things clearly in the end, the bad influence of Scarlett's first impression would not disappear by solving the misunderstanding.

After observing for about a few minutes, even if Scarlett was wary of Ye Luo, she had to admit that Ye Luo really cared about Alice, and even loved her more than her biological mother.

Scarlett herself knows very well that she spends most of her time working part-time, except for being able to accompany Alice after work.

It's not that she doesn't want to be by Alice's side, it's that she knows she can't and can't.

In order to be able to raise Alice, Scarlett can only desperately earn money to support herself and Alice.

As a single mother, she knows how hard and difficult it was to raise Alice from a baby to a four-year-old.

Not only do you have to work on your own and use the money you earn to support your family, but you also have to endure the strange eyes of others.

What's more, no matter how hard she tries, she can barely support the mother and daughter when she earns money, and there is no extra money to buy clothes or toys for her or Alice, let alone taking Alice to the amusement park.

Actually, tickets to amusement parks are not expensive.

It's not that she doesn't want to spend money, it's that she doesn't have the time, otherwise she wouldn't let Alice stay alone in the square.

Looking at Alice playing happily with the children in the amusement park, Scarlett couldn't help but feel bad in her heart.

At the same time, she realizes that she should spend a little more time with Alice.

Thinking of this, Scarlett suppressed all kinds of thoughts in her heart, sorted out her emotions, and walked into the amusement park.

Soon, Scarlett came to Ye Luo's side.

At this time, Ye Luo also found out about Scarlett's arrival, and said in surprise: "I didn't expect you to come so quickly." ”

"Alice is my daughter. ”

Scarlett said with a blank face.

In this regard, Ye Luo didn't know what to say for a while, so he could only touch his nose in embarrassment.

Seeing Ye Luo's actions, a faint smile flashed in Scarlett's eyes, and she stretched out her hand to Ye Luo and said, "Bring it." ”

"What?" Ye Luo was a little confused.

Scarlett said, "Give me the bag in your hand." ”

"Oh, okay, give. ”

Hearing Scarlett's words, Ye Luo suddenly sensed it and hurriedly handed her the bag in his hand.

At this time, Alice, who was playing happily with the children not far away, seemed to notice the arrival of her mother, and looked up at Ye Luo, when she saw her mother's figure, a pair of big eyes had smiled into two crescents, and she trotted without hesitation.

"Mom, you're here!"

Seeing Alice in front of her, Scarlett stretched out her hands to pick up Alice, only to notice that she was holding a bag in her hand, in a hurry, she forgot that she could hand the bag to Ye Luo, squatted down and put the bag in her hand on the ground at the same time, and gently rubbed Alice's smooth and tender little face, her face was full of maternal tenderness: "Yes, Mom came to pick up Alice home." ”

Alice got into Scarlett's arms, put her immature hands around Scarlett's neck, and said delicately, "Then Dad is also going home with us?"

Hearing this, Scarlett glanced at Ye Luo with complicated eyes, and patiently explained to Alice: "Dad won't go home with us, he wants to go back to his own home, only Mom and Alice go home together." ”

"Why didn't Daddy come home with us?" Alice's eyes were full of confusion.

"Uh......"

Hearing Alice's words, Scarlett suddenly didn't know what to say.

If she could, she would love to tell Alice that Ye Luo was not her father, so naturally she wouldn't go home with them.

It's just that she knows that if she really says that to Alice, then Alice will definitely cry.

At this time, Ye Luo, who was standing on the side, seemed to see Scarlett's embarrassment, squatted down and said to Alice, "Does Alice want Dad to go home with you?"

"Uh-huh. Alice nodded her little head excitedly.

Seeing this, Ye Luo ignored the gradually ugly look on Scarlett's face who was holding Alice beside him, and grinned: "Okay, then Dad will go home with you." ”

"You ......"

After Scarlett heard Ye Luo's words, she was suddenly speechless.

She swore that she had never seen such a thick-skinned man, and she had only met for the first time today, how could she dare to say such a thing, going back with them?

Looking at Scarlett, whose face was ugly, Ye Luo looked a little scoundrel: "Don't be angry, if I don't say that, Alice will definitely not be happy, maybe she will cry, what should I do then?"

"Don't even think about it, even if I die, I won't let you go home with us. Scarlett didn't even think about refusing outright.

Ye Luo said helplessly: "Then you're not afraid of Alice crying?"

"At most, I just cried for a while, and then it was fine. Scarlett was very tough, and when she said the word 'dad', she specially accentuated her tone: "Alice is still young now, as long as you don't appear in front of her from now on, she will be able to forget about her 'dad' in a few days." ”

Hearing this, Ye Luo opened his mouth, but he couldn't even say a word.

Although Alice called him 'Dad', he also knew that he was not Alice's father at all, but after getting along for a long time, Ye Luo really regarded Alice, the little guy, as his own daughter.

Now Scarlett's words made Ye Luo feel very irritable, his head was hot, and he questioned Scarlett: "As long as Alice still calls me dad, then I will take care of her, although we are not biological father and daughter, but at least she is much happier with me than with you, my biological mother." ”

"Where were you as a mother when Alice needed her company the most, where were you when Alice was alone in the square, where were you when Alice was envious of other children being able to play with their parents?"

In front of Ye Luo's series of questions, Scarlett couldn't help but be silent, and she couldn't even say anything to refute.

After all, what Ye Luo said was right.