Chapter 14 Is it OK to disconnect?
From a psychological point of view, two people know and understand each other in emotional interactions. When two people's thinking, opinions, opinions, ideals, pursuits, hobbies, feelings, tastes, interests, communication, knowledge and other aspects are basically the same. And like your like, understand your understanding, care for each other heart-to-heart. Then, each other only needs a look and a smile to understand each other's thoughts and know the law and direction of things. The two have the nourishment of love. Long-term spiritual intersection, natural spiritual communication.
At first, Bai Lu thought that what Wang Mengmeng said about telepathy was the kind she understood, but Wang Mengmeng said that she had a "pain" that she could communicate with that person, and Bai Lu realized that things might be far more complicated than she imagined.
"Are you sure you will also have pain exchange?" Bai Lu looked directly at Wang Mengmeng and asked, "It's not a coincidence, it's not a psychological effect, but a real pain exchange?"
"Of course I'm sure!" Wang Mengmeng's face was black, "I'm not a masochist, I like to share pain for others." You don't know how tangled I was in the beginning, I could hardly believe it was true. ”
"So, you mean, you've already confirmed? Is the telepathy between you real?" Bai Lu's surprise had reached the point where it was difficult to do so.
"Yes," Wang Mengmeng nodded, "So, I want to ask you, what should I do in this situation?"
Wang Mengmeng remembered that when she was in an unusually low mood that day, Lu Dan, who had never taken the initiative to say hello to her, actually sent her an unprecedented message of "good night".
Although she felt the warmth of being cared for in her heart, Wang Mengmeng, who had calmed down, felt an unspeakable guilt in her heart for some reason.
There is no reason to let Lu Dan bear his own pain, that pain is too heavy, even Wang Mengmeng herself can't breathe, how can Lu Dan share it......
Wang Mengmeng's depressed appearance was all seen by Bai Lu. Wang Mengmeng didn't seem to be joking, and Bai Lu also believed that Wang Mengmeng definitely didn't catch the wind.
Moreover, Wang Mengmeng has told her that this situation has been going on for more than two months, which proves that the tests and determinations that Wang Mengmeng can do have already been done.
"Does the other party know about this?" Bai Lu asked.
"I don't know. Wang Mengmeng sighed, "I think...... The fact itself is incredible. I tried to recreate the situation in the way we first met, thinking it would break my previous connection with him, but it didn't work at all. So I want to ask you, is there a solution to this connection. After all, when I'm depressed, the other party will also be frustrated because of it, and it's too innocent. ”
That's right.
Imagine if this connection really existed, one party would hurt and the other would hurt, and one party would be happy and the other would be happy, as romantic as it sounds. But what if one party is doing what they like to do and the other is arguing...... It must feel weird.
"Well, then, come to the consultation. Bai Lu thought for a moment, and then made a decision, "Let's help you do some grooming and see how this connection came about." ”
If this phenomenon does exist, it will be an important discovery in psychology.
Merely......
"I'm not sure if he'll go with me, or even ......," Wang Mengmeng hesitated for a moment, and then said, "I don't know if he will believe me." ”
Even Bai Lu, a professional who is a psychological counselor, can't believe this kind of telepathic connection of pain and communication, and ordinary people, believing that the possibility of its existence is even lower.
Besides, two people who just had a good impression of each other were suddenly pulled to the psychological counseling room by one party, this kind of behavior will feel strange when you think about it......
Regardless of whether this telepathy that reaches the level of pain communication is because of liking or if there is some other, more mysterious connection. Just because there is finally a man in this world who can enter the heart of a good Ji You, it has already made Bai Lu feel that this person is doubly precious, how can she easily let Wang Mengmeng be estranged from the other party?
"That's not as good as ...... Let's take it another way. Bai Lu thought for a moment and said, "What about you...... Find a place to ask him out, and I'll pretend to meet you by chance. Then let's find a place to sit and talk, and let me, a psychology professional, take a look at what the state of the two of you is like, and can you find a way to untie you, what do you think?"
"Good idea!" Wang Mengmeng's eyes suddenly lit up, and she happily hugged Bai Lu, "My White Queen is really the smartest person!"
Bai Lu looked at Wang Mengmeng's undisguised smile, and only felt sincerely gratified.
She was relieved not that she could share Wang Mengmeng's worries, but because she could see that Wang Mengmeng had a light in her eyes when she mentioned that person.
People who have light in their eyes usually have love in their hearts.
It's good that she, a friend who has never been enlightened, finally has love.
That's nice.
Wang Mengmeng also thought so in her heart at this time.
In fact, Wang Mengmeng has been thinking less and less about this kind of thing when he disconnects with Lu Dan recently. This is not a good thing, because when she begins to like and is used to sharing Lu Dan's feelings, things often deviate from justice.
It is not right to steal other people's worries and joys, and it is even more wrong to give them their negative feelings.
Wang Mengmeng felt that it would be best if Bai Lu could help her dissolve this connection, and if not, then she should at least tell Lu Dan the truth about this matter.
Yes, exactly.
Once she made up her mind, the pent-up guilt in Wang Mengmeng's heart was finally relieved, and the expression on her face became relaxed.
Next, what she needs to think about is how to ask Lu Dan out.
took the initiative to go to Lu Dan for an appointment, which Wang Mengmeng never thought about. This is different from Ouyang Duo, who has known each other for many years, but Lu Dan, his world is far away from Wang Mengmeng, and suddenly approaching, I am afraid it will only make Lu Dan feel surprised.
That's going to ...... How can I ask him out?
After separating from Bai Lu, on the way back to the company, Wang Mengmeng has been meditating.
Watching a movie?
It seems a little weird.
Eat?
It seems strange too.
The most normal thing is to drink coffee, right?
But...... For no reason, why should you invite someone to drink coffee? Lu Dan must also think it is very strange, right?
Moreover, the two of them sat together with big eyes, and Wang Mengmeng probably couldn't even find the topic.
Alas, how good is that!
I knew that I should have consulted Bai Lu, a "senior" person, just now.
In a cranky thought, Wang Mengmeng returned to the company.
As soon as she parked her motorcycle in front of the company, she saw Erha standing at the door.
"Erha?" Wang Mengmeng was surprised, "Why are you standing here?"
Erha's face is as black as the bottom of a pot, he is holding his arms, his eyebrows are raised high, and his face seems to have a capital "unhappy".
"It's cold in the house, I can't stay. ”
"Huh?" Wang Mengmeng was inexplicable: "The air conditioner is broken?"
"The air conditioner is not broken, it is an iceberg for some reason. Erha said, pointing to the company with his thumb, "It's inside, I guess it's already possible to skate in this room." ”
What is it?
Wang Mengmeng really didn't understand Erha's words, she didn't bother to pay attention to it, and walked into the company.
The moment the door was pushed open, Wang Mengmeng couldn't help laughing.
No wonder Erha said that it was cold in the house and couldn't stay, it turned out that there was really an iceberg in the company.
And that iceberg is Lu Dan.
Lu Dan sat at the glass table facing the door, his long legs stretched elegantly, his hands on the table, and a cup of coffee in his hand.
Michael stood at the table, his face full of panic and embarrassment.
Seeing Wang Mengmeng coming in, Mi Ke ran over like a savior.
"Mengmeng, you're back! Mr. Lu has been waiting here for a long time!"
She almost began to wonder which string she had made in the wrong place, thinking that she would have the possibility of warming this "iceberg". Now, she just begged Wang Mengmeng to save herself quickly, and if she stayed in this room for a second longer, she would probably be frozen into an ice sculpture.