Chapter 404: Emotional Issues
Feng Zhe looked at Du Wenbin with a wry smile, shook his head and persuaded: "I see that you are really poisoned too deeply, buddy, I will advise you for the last sentence, while you haven't been squeezed dry, quickly put away your so-called feelings, and stay away from her!"
Du Wenbin was a little unhappy, glanced at Feng Zhe, obviously couldn't understand this kind of kindness, and there was a thorn in his words: "You just have an opinion about her, to be honest, she is really not as unbearable as you say, you have never been in contact with her, you just listened to what others said, so you have such an evaluation of her." ”
"Alright, alright. Feng Zhe waved his hand again and again and said: "I don't want to have any contact with such a vain person, I don't have to have contact, just look at what she did before, I know what kind of person she is, I really regret introducing her to you, isn't this harmful to you?"
Du Wenbin still wanted to argue with reason, but Feng Zhe obviously didn't want to discuss it with him anymore, so he turned around and picked up the documents on the table and read them with relish.
Du Wenbin was very annoyed by Feng Zhe's attitude, he thought he was not an emotional idiot, and he also knew that his burden during this period was very heavy, although Zhou Yue was beautiful and educated, but it did cost a lot.
His face was a little ugly, and he wanted to defend a few words, seeing that Qin Shanhai had already focused on business at this time, and everyone else was also busy with the case, he wanted to say something full of words now, but no one paid attention to him at all.
Du Wenbin is obviously not the kind of person who can hold back his words, and the things that he can't figure out in his heart are like indigestible food, turning over the river and the sea in his stomach, and in the end, he really couldn't help it, and directly pulled his chair to Qin Shanhai and sat down.
Listening to the sound of the chair approaching, Qin Shanhai raised his head blankly and saw Du Wenbin, who was awkward and wanted to speak.
"What are you doing?" Qin Shanhai asked inexplicably, "What's wrong?"
Du Wenbin took a deep breath: "I want to talk to you about Zhou Yue, I really can't hold it back, you can help me analyze it." ”
"It's working time. Qin Shanhai glared and said angrily.
"We are busy working for more than ten hours a day, how can we divide the working hours?" I ......" Du Wenbin felt that everyone had noticed him, and suddenly stopped talking.
Qin Shanhai chuckled and put down the pen in his hand, and said with a slight teasing: "I really didn't expect that one day you would be able to commit yourself to complaining to me." ”
Du Wenbin's face turned red, and his voice was a little aggrieved: "Aren't you my best buddy, help me explain what's wrong? Don't irritate me, why do you say it so ugly?"
Qin Shanhai snorted lightly: "You are really interesting, when you ask for someone, it is a kind of saying, and it is usually a kind of saying, I used to enlighten you a lot, I just wanted to help you, you never took my words to heart, and you didn't appreciate it, I am a little flattered if you take this gesture now." ”
Du Wenbin was depressed for a while, and muttered in his mouth for a long time, but he didn't say anything to refute it, because what Qin Shanhai said was the truth, before he
I have never heard of it, I always feel that Qin Shanhai's ideas are very extreme, different from reality, and I also feel that Qin Shanhai is very sensitive.
Qin Shanhai reminded him when he said this, and he didn't know how long it had been since he heard Qin Shanhai patiently reason with him, as if since the first time the two of them quarreled because of differences, Qin Shanhai rarely talked to him about his thoughts.
The more he thought about it, the more depressed he became, and he felt that he was a little unreasonable: "Okay, count me wrong, anyway, you just listen to me, and I'll listen to you in the future." ”
Qin Shanhai knew in his heart what he wanted to say, and felt that it was likely to block himself again if he told the truth, but he felt that he was quite pitiful, so he still asked patiently: "Forget it, you say it, I'll listen, but let's say it in advance, I only stand on an objective standpoint, don't fight with me." ”
Du Wenbin took a deep breath, looked left and right, everyone was busy with their own affairs, only then did he relax slightly, brewed his emotions, and said softly: "Zhou Yue is really beautiful, next time I will bring her to show you, and Zhou Yue likes me very much, and is very considerate to me, I really like him!" I like it very much, but now I think you are right, Zhou Yue's requirements for the other half are too high, as long as I don't meet his financial requirements, she thinks I don't love her, because others buy him more things than I buy, so ...... I'm really uncomfortable, and I'm very conflicted, I've discussed it with her because of this before, and I've analyzed it with her seriously, I said that two people can't live so luxuriously, after all, their abilities are limited, but she thinks I'm so cowardly, and I don't have the ability to let her live a poor life. ”
Speaking of this, a wry smile appeared on the corner of Du Wenbin's mouth.
Qin Shanhai sympathized with him in his heart, he had known him for so long, this kid actually had a child's temper, although sometimes his emotional intelligence was very low, and he said something inexplicably that made people angry, but he forgot about it, what should he do next time, he was uncomfortable for a while at most, and he soon left it behind, and rarely had a bitter smile, he always lived with a big grin.
Because of this relationship, he was tortured and almost collapsed, and the smile on his face became less and less, and the wry smile became more and more.
"And what do you think should be done?"
"I'm just a contradiction. Du Wenbin said helplessly: "Although my father is a petty official, my family in the town is solid, but compared to the city, it can only be regarded as an ordinary family, and I am not a rich second generation, she feels that she has not improved her quality of life, it is because I have no ability, since I have no ability, I should not fall in love, and if I love her, I should satisfy her with everything, which is in line with her ideals." ”
When Qin Shanhai heard this, he finally couldn't stand it anymore, and stretched out his hand to stop him from continuing to say: "Wen Bin, is your brain in water? Do you still think this kind of woman is good? What's the use of being good-looking? Can you afford it? I can now conclude that she is with you just for money! I am afraid that she has not even thought about living a good life. If you really want to be with you, you definitely have to think about your future life
What will you do if you spend all your money now? What do you need money to get married and have children? Why don't you love her? There are thousands of women in the world, why is she so delicate! You still want to be a princess without the life of a princess? If you spend another penny on her, then you will be stupid and smoking! This kind of girl with a particularly strong sense of vanity, even if she marries you in the end, will end up in divorce, because you are not a millionaire, and you will have to take care of your parents and children in the future! How can you have so much money for her to squander, no matter how beautiful a woman is?! What's the use! Just look at it normally, but you can't use it as a meal in the future, and you don't think that she can help you share the housework with this kind of woman......
Qin Shanhai is really on fire, before Feng Zhe said that Du Wenbin is poisoned now, and he doesn't feel anything, but after listening to these words, Qin Shanhai confirmed that this kid is definitely obsessed, and he was fooled by that Zhou Yue, otherwise he would definitely not have reached this point and was still lost.
Du Wenbin's face was distorted into a bitter melon, and he gradually listened to these words, but after paying his feelings, sometimes it was difficult to take them back very easily, Du Wenbin's eyes were a little red and swollen, and his heart was uncomfortable.
Qin Shanhai patted Du Wenbin's shoulder helplessly, and said earnestly: "Brother, the long pain is better than the short pain, now that it's broken, you have lost less." ”
At this moment, Qin Shanhai persuaded from the bottom of his heart: "I'll make a bet with you, after you break up with Zhou Yue, Zhou Yue will find another boyfriend in a short period of time, and then use the same words and the same tricks to deal with his future boyfriend." And then that man will be drained, both mentally and financially, and at last you will be glad that you have listened to me now!"
Du Wenbin's eyes widened, and all kinds of thoughts surged in his heart, some tangled and struggling, and after a long while, he reluctantly said, "Wait...... After all, he still loves me now. ”
Qin Shanhai snorted coldly, shrugged his shoulders and said unceremoniously: "Why are you so sure that she loves you?" Otherwise, you carefully observe what she has done recently, and see if there is anything that makes you feel strange, after all, you are a policeman, if you observe carefully, many things cannot be hidden in your eyes, I dare to guarantee that his sincerity to you is less than one-tenth of yours." Love is balanced and selfish, you give, you definitely want to get a response, you decide for yourself. ”
Qin Shanhai said these words categorically, and Du Wenbin was not allowed to refute anything, maybe it was this sentence that gave Du Wenbin strength, maybe he really wanted to verify it, he was so deadlocked for a few minutes, he nodded vigorously.
"Okay, I'll do what you say, and see if she loves me as much as she says!"
After sorting out his emotions, Du Wenbin pinched the bun in his hand, and said with some embarrassment: "I really want to eat steamed buns today, and I bought them outside, but now I am in a bad mood, and I can't eat it anymore and it is cold, but I feel that I am wasting food when I throw it away." ”
At this moment, Sun Qi limped downstairs with two pots of hot water, since Sun Qi became a cleaner in the county bureau, he also settled down in the county bureau, and his life was much better than before.
Although he is disabled, he is disabled, he is very good at everything, and he is also very reassuring, and he will help do some odd jobs when he is fine, and today he boiled two pots of hot water for everyone.
Gently placed in front of the desk, seeing that everyone was busy, he wanted to turn his head and leave, Du Wenbin heard the movement of someone coming up, turned his head to look, and saw that it was Sun Qi who came up, and looked down at the bun in his hand.
"Little Sun, don't go yet! Du Wenbin raised his head and looked at Sun Qi and said.
(End of chapter)