29. Do you want to live with your in-laws?
Not long after the two families met, they picked an auspicious day and breathed, and the Ye family officially came to visit.
Qiao's family was lively for a while, and the seven aunts and eight aunts all came to Qiao Anning's house to sit and wait to see their niece and son-in-law.
The little cousin hugged the child and chatted with Qiao Anning on the side: "Sister, you are just a blockbuster, you are a blockbuster." ”
Qiao Anning didn't understand: "Huh?"
The little cousin smiled and motioned to her to look at Ye Huaijin who was not far away: "My brother-in-law is quite handsome, I heard that he is a big boss, and the family should be quite rich." If you marry like this, you will be the boss's wife in the future, a rich wife, and your life will definitely be more comfortable than mine. ”
Qiao Anning took the little baby's hand, made her laugh, and asked strangely, "Are you having a bad time now?"
As far as she knows, unlike them who know each other on a blind date, the little cousin and her cousin-in-law went from free love to marriage.
The emotional foundation of free love should be deeper than that of blind date couples.
The little cousin sighed, her still very immature face put on an old-fashioned look, and her speech became a lot more mature.
"Okay, that's it. When I wasn't married before, I felt that there was a big difference between marriage and love, but anyway, I still lived with this person, it was nothing more than multiple pieces of paper, plus ...... At that time, I had children, but he insisted that I would not be beaten, so I could only give birth, and I became a married woman in a daze. I didn't understand until now that I realized that getting married is very different from falling in love. It's heaven and earth!"
Her exaggerated tone and expression successfully made Qiao Anning laugh.
"Alas, how happy I used to be, I ate and slept all day long, and I slept and ate, and I didn't have to worry about anything. It's okay to go on a date with him, go out to eat, sing, travel, and his parents even give him money to let him take me to play. Knowing that I was young and beautiful, I thought that he would marry me back to their family as soon as possible. ”
The little cousin said with a proud little expression on her face, and Qiao Anning couldn't help but laugh when she saw it.
However, in the next second, her expression changed again, and she said with a sad face: "It's like now, life is full of sesame mung beans and trivial things all day long, and it is especially easy to make people quarrel, strange and annoying, not as free as before." In the past, I didn't have to worry about anything, anyway, with my parents to support me, it was enough for me to take care of myself. Right now...... My parents said that I was married, and I was someone else's daughter-in-law, and I couldn't be like before, running home all the time when I had nothing to do, and I was always looking for money from them. ”
Speaking of this, the little cousin showed a trace of resentment on her face, "I feel that since I got married, I have become separated from my family." The original home has become my mother's home, and his home is my mother-in-law's house, which sounds like I have an extra home, but I always feel that I am not as comfortable as before, I don't know if it is my illusion. ”
Speaking of this, the little cousin lowered her voice and approached Qiao Anning to bite her ear: "Sister, have you discussed with your prospective brother-in-law about where to live after marriage?"
Qiao Anning was stunned when he heard this, and shook his head: "No." "It's quite quick and sudden to get married, and she hasn't talked to Ye Huaijin about this detail at all.
The little cousin suggested from the bottom of her heart: "I think his family conditions are quite good, unlike my husband, who has no money to buy another house, so he can only live with his parents." Oops, you don't know, it's troublesome to live together. The ideological gap between the two generations is too big, and my mother-in-law and I often have disagreements over some small things, so I sincerely suggest that you move out and live alone after marrying him, and don't live with your in-laws, so as not to quarrel in the future. ”
Qiao Anning was frightened: "This ...... I really haven't thought about that. ”
This is the second time she has seen Ye Huaijin's parents, and she hasn't even had in-depth contact with each other, and she doesn't know what kind of personality the other party is, whether they get along well or not, although Ye Huaijin said that her parents get along very well, but the son looks at his parents and his daughter-in-law look at her in-laws after all.
If the little cousin hadn't mentioned it, Qiao Anning really hadn't thought about these practical questions so quickly.
She thought that it was time to find a chance to have a good chat with Ye Huaijin.
Qiao Anning didn't know what to say now, but when she suddenly heard her little cousin say this, she was inexplicably a little panicked about marriage.
The child suddenly started crying, and Qiao Anning asked nervously, "What's wrong, why are you crying?" Are you hungry?"
The little cousin looked calm, and shook her head while coaxing the child to pat her lightly: "The milk I just fed, it can't be hungry, I guess it's pulled, sister, I'll go to your room to change her diaper." You help me get the bag, I'll get the bag there. ”
"Good. ”
Qiao Anning went to get her bag, and went into the room with her and closed the door. She watched her little cousin skillfully change the child's diaper, and she sighed for a while.
In the past, my aunt always complained to Qiao's mother when she was chatting with her that her little cousin was not sensible, and she only cared about her own happiness when she was playing outside all day long, and the eldest couldn't do anything at home when she was alone.
I didn't think that one day my little cousin would be like this, alone with the child, and the whole body seemed to exude the brilliance of motherhood.
It seems that growth is really an instantaneous thing.
cleaned up, and the child stopped crying immediately.
"What a little hypocrisy. The little cousin complained about the child, but couldn't help but kiss her little face.
"Alas, it was only after giving birth that I realized the importance of money. The little cousin continued to chat with her and said, "It's too expensive to raise a child!"