Temporarily letting go of Lao Lamai, Chen Baicao continued: "Even so, there are some things, mainly specific responsibilities, that still need to be determined.

"So as not to let some stinky men not be able to take on the responsibilities of men at critical moments, but they have a big temper and a big shelf, and they are powerful!

"The man's responsibilities as the head of the family are twofold: first, to be able to provide for food and clothing, which is the basic need of a family, and second, to be able to resist the enemy and protect the family from standing.

"Although I am a woman, I must be objective, and I cannot rely on my own selfishness to obliterate the advantages of the Creator over men.

"If you compare the physical strength of men and women, it is obvious that of course men are strong and women are weak.

"Then it is easier for men to provide for women and protect women.

"It is bound to be more troublesome for women to provide for men and protect men.

"Moreover, women, for reasons of biological differences, are sometimes not able to provide for and protect men, but must be provided and protected by men.

"Isn't it right to obey the man, and to live with him, or to make him the head of the family, as is the case now?

"Therefore I have made a name, that a man who receives a woman is called a marry, and that a woman who gets a man is called a marry, and that she must be married." ”

Old Lamai said: "The man and woman have become husband and wife, which is the foundation of the family, as much as possible by public agreement, get out of their current residence, and create another family, and now have a new house, just to solve this problem, how to justifiably, old sister, you are thoughtful, brother, I listen to you." ”

It seems that this old Lamech is also a well-informed person, knowing that women are willing to be young, and unconsciously, he changed the original old sister to an old sister.

As for Chen Baicao, he neither refuted nor got angry, and subtly accepted this change.

Because she didn't have a score in her heart.

Of course, she had been in the ancient nongwu all along, and she had lived for unknown years, and she had learned for thousands of years, but this old Lamech, as the firstborn son of Adam, was as old as the age of the earth, and certainly as old as Adam, because Adam was a man on the first day of his creation, that is, in the same year, there was Cain.

It sounds incomprehensible, but it's exactly what it is.

Because what he knows for sure is the first woman in the world, who is his grandmother Igo.

And the second woman was the sister of his mother, Cain, and of course Cain's wife—worried.

In addition to these two women, it is estimated that his eldest lady is Yada.

Yada is the same age as him, and it is quite certain that this Chen Baicao will not be greater than Yada, so it is logical, that is, Chen Baicao will not be greater than Yada.

Therefore, at least, Lamai belongs to the kind of human-level existence that is not many years different from the earth, at least, it will not be smaller than Chen Baicao.

Therefore, the old girl who came out of his mouth probably wouldn't be wrong.

After all, Lao Lamai has experienced more things, especially now that life is very hard, and he can't even eat, Baili Liangliu's new Bazhen fried rice is delicious, but it also has to be exchanged for things, at the beginning, everyone has something to exchange, and there will be less and less in the future, and it will inevitably form a phenomenon of family members relying on others to eat.

So he asked the question: "Wouldn't it be good for a woman to be a head of the family if she didn't marry into the man's family, or even in a new family?" Why should you ask a woman to marry and a man to marry over, as you said, so that the woman is suspected of being dependent on the man?"

Chen Baicao didn't expect Lao Lamai to ask such a question, and thought he was machismo.

So he took it upon himself and explained to him, "I have also thought about this truth, as you said, although it is good, men and women have the same rights and responsibilities, and men and women are equal, but there are also difficulties.

"Because there is a husband and wife, there is a father and son, and the parents will bring up their children with hard work, and when the result comes, the son and daughter find a match, and both of them go to the outside to form another family, just like we have now;

"Think about it, those men are just strong, if they only care about themselves, he will ignore his parents and live his happy life, but he leaves behind an old couple in his old home, lonely, so miserable!

"If one of the old couples dies and there is only one left alone, hanging from each other, how do you want him to live?

"So, in our regulations, there are also after-moves.

This means that although a man and a woman marry and become a new family, they still have the responsibility of supporting their parents.

This responsibility will increase as parents get older and their ability to take care of themselves weakens.

"All in all, it is the responsibility of a son to take care of the elderly, and he must be responsible for it to the end.

And as a woman, she doesn't have to bear such a responsibility, because when she marries, she becomes her man's assistant, and she just needs to get that new family right, which is also a very important condition to ensure that her husband fulfills his responsibilities as a son, and it is also a great support.

This is an inevitable requirement of the need for humanity to continue for future generations.

"If a man is old enough to be deaf or blind, to have difficulty in moving, or to have some disease, it is up to him to have his children by his side, to serve him, to support him, and if a grown woman is married, only sons must do these things.

"If all the children are in charge of their own share, who will the old and sick parents hand over?

"When it comes to the principle of remuneration, children cannot be self-supporting when they are young, and they all rely on their parents to raise them, so when their parents are old and cannot support themselves, of course they should be served and raised by their children, which is the so-called natural righteousness, how can they leave their parents alone because they live in another place!

"This man takes care of his parents, and his daughter helps her husband, which is a basic division of labor, and if the whole society does this, there will be no loopholes; if everyone goes their own way, some like this, some like that, it will become someone who gets double care, and some people who don't take care of her, won't it be a mess?

"Therefore, it is stipulated in the first that a man and a woman marry to form a new family, and that the man becomes the head of the family, and that the head of the family, in addition to leading his own family, is better to be responsible for the care of his elderly parents, and this is stipulated in the second provision that it must be agreed before the marriage is assigned to a new house. ”

Old Lamech thought for a moment and said, "Looking for the old sister, you say this, children should serve their fathers and support their parents, which is good, but because a woman is married to another family, she will follow her husband and take care of her husband's parents; and her own parents, you, will be taken care of by his sister-in-law or younger siblings, so that the division of labor is clear, and there is a clear division of labor, and there is a good arrangement! However, since a woman marries into a man's family, if she does not have an eldest brother or younger brother, then which of her parents will serve and support? Is there no one to take care of the girl's parents?"

Chen Baicao said: "The method I have set is an arrangement under ordinary circumstances, and every family, under normal circumstances, must have the desire to have children, and also have the ability to have children, so my general regulations are aimed at this general situation; there must be special circumstances, and this general practice cannot be taken into account for the time being, so I have to take care of the big boss first, and then take care of the special circumstances."

"This can be regarded as the weight of the two benefits, and the lesser of the two evils.

"Under normal circumstances, the woman's parents do not necessarily have daughters and not sons, but if they have a son, then even if the daughter goes to marry, the son still serves and supports him at home, so why worry about no one!

"If there is no son, then a special arrangement can be made for the man to take care of the girl's parents;

"In short, to be born a man is to be responsible for the support of one's parents, either one's own parents or the parents of one's wife, and must not be irresponsible, while the duty of a woman is to assist her husband. ”

Old Lamai grinned and said, "I see, men are miserable! No wonder I can't get fat!"

Chen Baicao said: "How fat do you have to be?

Old Lamech thought of those wild boars, where is the fat!

Especially recently, due to the shortage of fangs, people have been hunting all over the mountains, and they have become thin into hemp straw.

However, he didn't argue, thinking that this was the old sister praising him in a different way.

After all, in ancient times, when there was a lack of food and clothing, fat was one of the most beautiful words of praise.

Old Lamech continued: "There are two rules for men to marry and for men to support their parents, but are there any other rules? ”

But looking at the unfinished old girl, he has a bad prediction in his heart, and it is estimated that there will be!

As expected.

Chen Baicao seemed to be deliberately unable to get along with him, and said with a smile: "There are not many left, there are probably three ...... left"

Old Lamech quickly hugged his head, my mother!

Chen Baicao ignored him, snapped his fingers and said: "The first is the surname, the second is the media concubine, and the third is to ask the man to give a dowry first." ”

Old Lamech asked cooperatively, "Why do you want to have a proper surname?"

Chen Baicao set up a position and gave him universal education.

"A kid and a girl have nothing to do with getting married now, the purpose of the cooperation of husband and wife is to have children and pass on the seeds, otherwise that kind of marriage is a bastard plus three levels!

"But in principle, men and women of the same ancestor are not worthy of husband and wife, you don't understand this, I will explain it to you.

"For if they are married to a husband and wife, they will have children who are either deaf or dumb, or disabled, or idiots.

"Even if you are not deaf or dumb for the time being, you are not disabled, and you are not an idiot, you will eventually find out after a generation or two: either stupid, or short-lived, or unable to have children.

"Therefore, since ancient times, there has been a saying that 'men and women have the same surname, and they are not born', which is really tried.

"It is estimated that you are in the Far East, and your knowledge is limited, so you have not heard of it.

"I've done research, and after careful investigation, it's probably because the blood is too hot, which causes the quality of people to decline, and it can be invasive, but it has become riddled with diseases.

"That's why I said, the first thing is to have a correct surname, and anyone with the same surname is forbidden to match them, brother, are you wrong?"

Where can old Lamech understand all these various things?

The head has long been a swarm.

However, one thing he knew was that the area under his jurisdiction did not meet such a requirement at all.

Although everyone does not strictly follow the name of the surname, you don't need to look at it to know that all the people in their Far East are of the same species, that is, the descendants of Cain.

And they intermarried with those hateful people in the Near East, and they were not separated, but their ancestors were a generation higher, and they all became the seed of Adan.

Therefore, after listening to Chen Baicao's boastful talk, he refuted it for the first time.

"I'm afraid this won't work......"

Chen Baicao was also stunned: "Huh, don't want to eat?"

Old Lamech jumped, but he didn't have a problem, if this one was fixed, he would never have anything to eat in the future.

I said no, not that I objected, but that the whole Far East, both men and women, all came from the same ancestor, and even if the Near East was counted, it was still from one ancestor, so as if you were pushing your request, or no one would get married, or you would find women for everyone, not from the Near East, nor from the Far East, but from the ...... By the way, where did you come from, did you bring a large number of women, all as beautiful as my old sister? No, I want to book two!"

Old Lamech also dared to be whimsical!

However, after such a mess, Chen Baicao also realized that he had made a common-sense mistake.

In this era, where is the possibility of not being an ancestor?

Although the names of these people are chaotic and there is no pattern to be found, they all come out of a root, but there is no doubt about it.

In this case, some workarounds have to be adopted.

Therefore, Chen Baicao rarely did not criticize Lao Lamai, but she did not self-examine because she did not seek truth from facts.

"Use you to talk nonsense? Don't I know this reality? My marriage law is meant to be used for thousands of generations, and now an ancestor is good, and in the future, the population will increase by a million times, and the surname will not be so simple! Now, I have decided that this is the case, and no intermarriage is allowed within three suits!"

Old Lamech was stupidly confused about these terms and asked, "What is Sanfu?"

Whew!

This is easy to say, but difficult to explain.

Only a general explanation, and then a specific analysis of the specific problem.

I really don't know, so I have to set it up there as a standard, and then improve the quality of implementation.

For example, if you are the middle generation, your father and your son, this is the third generation, and it is also the third service.

"Got it?"

"Understood, I, my son, and my father, are Cain, and together they are three suits, and these three people are not allowed to intermarry, and it seems that they can't get along?"