Heart
As the title suggests, today is about the word sex, I don't know if it will be rejected by the review, but I just want to write something, whether it is only in my notes, or it can be taken by others, or it can be tasted by others, in short, I want to write.
The word sex, the combination of the heart, we memorized the "Three Character Sutra" at the beginning, the beginning of the person, the nature is good. Sex here should be nature, I have heard such a saying before, human nature is nothing more than two points, one is to eat, the other is sex, of course, this sex refers to "emotional life".
There is also a sentence that "is full of warmth and lust"! It just confirms the previous words, of course, it is very far-fetched to say this.
For me, eating is a kind of sex, and many things can be solved by eating, such as bad mood, bad experience, past suffering, and a person's loneliness. Reach out to make some meals, or simply cook a porridge, the taste is quite suitable, let people enjoy a little feeling, of course, there is also the pleasure of feasting, passing by the barbecue restaurant, buy a few skewers of barbecue, the taste is also very good.
On the other hand, for a person's me, personal problems are all self-soothing, many times I feel that I am dominated by desire, and I easily indulge him, let him take advantage of it, but I actually hate it, or I feel that he has a certain sin, but sometimes I accidentally step into it.
I'm often curious to wonder why, how did it come about, is it human nature, or is it induced by the external environment, but this is actually inconclusive, and fortunately I don't think about it anymore.
When it comes to being dominated by desire, there are two situations that are more special, or rather enjoyable. One is complete indulgence, I accept it in my heart, it's very calm, I don't do anything hurtful, I enjoy the process, for sex or desire, it's very simple, it's like I feel hungry, I want to eat, it's no problem at all. The second is to have an emotional integration, when you are with your beloved, you will be more at ease, because there is an intimate relationship between you, and then you can be happy for each other when you do it. Of course, when you are with the person you like, you will find that most of the time, you have no other thoughts, that is, the two of you are very happy and happy together. But there will be special moments, then there is a temptation from the external environment, such as soft and dim lighting, charming and refreshing directions, a small action of the other party, can become a *, arouse the raging fire in your heart, and so on, all of which are beautiful.
There are also bad, such as with the nature of compulsion, we sometimes have physiological reactions, but our hearts are refusal, resisting, as much as we can die, but we have to think about it, whether it is worth it, a lot of wind and rain, in fact, we don't need an umbrella, we don't need others, we can also get through.
Maybe these paragraphs are a little abrupt, but I still want to say it and express my inner feelings.