Chapter 153: Burdened with this kind of self-blame

Hearing this, Duo'er couldn't help but feel that Feng Lei's brother-in-law was very cute, he was sincere, his words were simple but very warm-hearted, it was a blessing to meet such a person, no wonder Situ Yuan would like him, for the story that happened later, Duo'er still felt very much looking forward to it.

"Then later, sister, you went to graduate school? No, time doesn't count. ”

"I didn't go, I regretted it the moment I boarded the plane, and when I ran out, I called him, and he said he was in the glass window of the airport building, thinking about seeing when I would take off, and waving to me to say goodbye.

So, when I found him, I saw him looking straight out of the window, looking very serious. My tears fell instantly, so I threw down my luggage, and I ran over and hugged him tightly, so scared that he turned back in surprise and joy, so nervous that he didn't know what to say, and knew to gently pat me on the back. After crying for a while, I asked him if he liked me, and he smirked and nodded desperately. ”

After Situ Yuan finished speaking, her face was still lingering sweet, as if this decision was the most correct thing she had done in her life.

"Later, when we got together, my family knew that I was because he gave up grad school, and they all came to persuade me to think twice. However, my grandmother supported me, she said that in this life, there are many choices, and you can choose any kind of choice, but don't do things like shaving your head and picking hot hair.

Therefore, in order to prove my determination, I took him home, my mother recognized him, but did not say anything, but my father resolutely disagreed, not because of Feng Lei's family situation, but because Feng Lei only has a first Chinese, he feels that I and Feng Lei together, there will be conflicts in the future, after all, the topic of chat may not be at the same level.

But Feng Lei knew, so he went to my dad privately behind my back, and gave my dad a USB flash drive, which was a video he recorded after going to the law firm and finding a lawyer to testify. The content of the video is that he promised to be good to me, if there is a little bit of badness, he will be voluntarily arrested and imprisoned or something, which made my dad cry and laugh, and after that, he was still at my house, cooking for a large family for a week, and my dad agreed to let us be together, during which he suffered a lot of face and trouble, and now I think about it, I have wronged him.

But fortunately, everything is slowly getting better, half a year later, we decided to get married, he wrote an IOU to my mother, on which is 200,000 bride price, he said that his family is poor, his parents are honest farmers, he is just a little cook, there is not much money, can only take out 80,000 bride price first, the remaining 200,000, he will give my parents in the future.

He also said that he would go back to the county town to open a small restaurant, and when he made money in the future, he would take my parents over to support the elderly, because my parents have raised me for many years, and it is not easy. Duo'er, you don't know, he knelt and talked for three hours, so stunned that my mother and aunt burst into tears, and my father, a majestic person in the police bureau, couldn't help but redden, these words were told to me by my aunt later.

He was reluctant to let me suffer, let me go abroad to continue my graduate studies, said that he would definitely make money, and when I returned to China, he would marry me home in a beautiful way. After that, I decided to share the weal and woe with him, as long as he is willing to work hard, I believe that life will not be bad, as for going abroad, I really don't want to go, because the place where he is is the most important place for me to go.

The family was reluctant to wronged the two of us, and I couldn't persuade Feng Lei, when I was in a dilemma, it was Xiao Mian who came forward and bought us this place and built this restaurant, so that the people in the family were relieved. I don't know what method Xiao Mian used, anyway, Feng Lei accepted it happily. After getting married, because of his cooking skills, good popularity, and his parents-in-law are also diligent, the business of the restaurant is becoming more and more prosperous. ”

Situ Yuan smiled and finished telling this story about miracles and fate, and until now, she still feels like a dream.

Duo'er listened with relish, it turned out that this is the best love, and the promise is because of mutual support, and it becomes beautiful, and she suddenly understands what it is to be in love with each other, and what is pampering into the bones.

"Sister, did you regret that you put all your happiness on your brother-in-law at that time?"

"I don't regret it, some people say that a woman marrying a good man in this life is a hundred times better than having a good career. I think it's right, I live a free and easy life now, being a people's teacher, a husband and children, and a happy family. The point is, Feng Lei treats me well, this sentence has never changed, their parents' love for me is more painful than my parents, so give me another chance, in the face of the two options of studying abroad and Feng Lei, I will still choose Feng Lei. ”

"That's fine. My sister and brother-in-law have such a rare story from acquaintance to love, which really makes me envious. This kind of fate is one in ten million, of course, I can also see that my brother-in-law loves my sister very much, there are many kinds of life, I am very happy, sister, you bravely chose the happiest one. Duo'er sighed seriously, one step forward is happiness, and one step back is not happiness.

"Hehe, what is brave, it's just because of the identification, who is good to you and who is not good to you, you can feel it with your heart. Situ Yuan's eyes were full of happiness when he looked at Duo'er.

"Well, my sister is right. Duo'er nodded approvingly, heart, she wouldn't lie to herself.

"Actually, I am very grateful to my family for being with Feng Lei so smoothly, if they really don't agree, I will definitely not marry Feng Lei, because it is really difficult to get to the end without being blessed. Luckily, happiness always comes first in my family. ”

"Well, it can be seen that what the family really cares about is whether my sister is happy or not, and I don't care whether my brother-in-law is rich or not. There are really few such families now, no wonder my sister and Situ Mian have a very positive outlook, and a good family is really important. ”

Duo'er is envious, Situ Yuan has been accompanied by a group of close relatives since she was a child, and she only has a grandfather, so she understands the importance of this family affection even more.

"Perhaps, some people think that Feng Lei climbed the Situ family, and marrying me is equivalent to pounding a rich woman, but I don't know that except for this restaurant, I didn't bring half a penny, everything was given to me by him. I have been a teacher for all these years, I have saved all my salary, and I haven't touched a cent, and he said that if you want to support me, you have to do what you say. In this way, I must have married a rich man. ”

Situ Yuan said easily, but Duoer can obviously feel that this journey is not easy, Situ Yuan's companionship and generosity are the reason why this family has been happy, Feng Lei's responsibility and persistence are the premise that this family has been happy.

It is not easy for two people to build a home, what is needed is more accommodation and understanding, distress and companionship. Marriage is never the grave of love, because true love will not be overshadowed and constrained by being crowned by marriage.

Situ Yuan put the picked beans away, and then got up with Duo'er and went to sit down by the small stove.

"Duo'er, my sister told you so much, not because I want to tell you a story, but because I hope you can understand that it is easy to work together, but it is difficult to stay together. Also, don't worry, your in-laws are very sensible, no matter what, as long as you can be happy, we are most happy to see it. “

Situ Yuan suddenly turned the topic to Duo'er, which made Duo'er a little flustered, after all, her heart matter has not been completely confessed.

"Well, thank you, sister, I understand all this. ”

”…… Since the death of the second uncle and grandfather one after another, Xiao Mian seems to have changed as a person, he doesn't like to make trouble or laugh, and his temperament is extraordinarily cold, maybe it was too painful for him in the past. To tell you the truth, the Situ family has today's scenery, and a large part of the credit is on Xiao Mian. ”

"Situ Mian, I know that he joined the company at the age of sixteen, and he is indeed a powerful person. "Duo'er also heard this, and now it seems that there is no doubt that this is the case.

"Alas...... The existence of those praises is only based on his success. Xiao Mian has only one wish since he was a child, that is, to be a soldier, since he was three years old, he has been running in the morning, riding a horse and so on, and doing it well. This wish may be because of the influence of grandpa and second uncle, second uncle, is Situ Mian's father, he is a soldier, the number of times he goes home is limited, every time he comes back, Xiao Mian will be very happy, pestering him to talk about the army, my eldest brother and I will occasionally go to listen. Situ Yuan said, his tone suddenly becoming very sad.

"So that's the case, I didn't expect Situ Mian's wish to be a soldier. Duo'er thought to herself, Situ Mian is such an ambitious guy since he was a child, it's really good.

"When Xiao Mian was five years old, during the summer vacation, the second uncle came back from a month's long vacation, saying that he wanted to accompany Xiao Mian and the second aunt well. So, the second aunt planned to go on vacation together as a family. The itinerary was arranged, on the day of departure, Xiao Mian didn't know where to hear the news, so he insisted on going to see the military exhibition, the second aunt disagreed, he went angrily by himself, the second uncle was so frightened that he hurried to find it, and finally found Xiao Mian on the road, after some persuasion, Xiao Mian agreed to go home. Unexpectedly, there was a car accident on the way, and my grandfather heard the news, and a week later, he also passed away. Later, Xiao Mian changed as a person, he locked himself in his room to build Lego, and he didn't answer anyone who came to talk to him. ”

Hearing Situ Yuan talk about Situ Mian, Duo'er understood why he was so indifferent, he was burdened with this kind of self-blame at a young age, he must have been very sad and helpless at that time.

"That's why he's reluctant to go to the hospital?"

"Yes, when the second uncle was sent to the hospital, Xiao Mian was always by his side, covered in blood, he called the family strongly, and then guarded the door of the ward, five years old, this kind of sequelae after calming, you can imagine how terrible it is. Duo'er, although Xiao Mian has changed a lot now, his heart is still closed, and that kind of self-blame has always tormented him. When I was a child, I used to build Lego all day, and now I drink heavily...... You are the person he will accompany day and night in the future, so promise my sister that you must love him well and strive to help him come out of the past. ”

Duo'er was stunned, she didn't expect this kind of thing to happen to Situ Mian, and she didn't expect him to drink day and night, it was because of this kind of thing.

However, her own time is short, how far can she accompany him? It is precisely because of this that she did not firmly agree to be with Situ Mian, for fear that one day, she will take the first step and deepen his pain.