Silence is the loudest sound of Bedi's roar!

I don't know which book I saw a sentence that seems to be talking about myself, and sometimes silence is the loudest roar!

Young and vigorous, but also (here and 'also' do not mean the same thing) like to argue with others, sometimes into a lot of trouble, but in retrospect it is indifferent trivial, not worth arguing about.

gradually understood that it was really not interesting to fight back and forth, so I simply "quieted" down and listened to him, listening to him talk endlessly, of course, quiet can't really calm down, the so-called listening is just to listen to the handle in his words, so as to refute him silently in the bottom of my heart. Not speaking does not mean agreeing with your point of view, whether it is the person who speaks or the person who receives the message, you must understand the meaning of the other person and observe the words.

Silence is golden, for true silence, to be quiet, to speak of it as a noble quality. It's not like what I said before, but I will secretly refute others in my heart. It is really difficult to do it, especially when the other party's point of view is inconsistent with your own, how to clearly express your own point of view, how to show yourself elegantly, listen to him first, listen to him, and then calmly describe your thoughts, simple and clear, because this will not be interrupted by him, and also show that you know very well what you want to express. You will also encounter a situation where the person is always chattering and does not have a chance for you to speak, please choose to be silent, because it is useless for you to say it, and the person will not listen to anything.

When should we be silent, when receiving criticism and education, it is not a bad thing to admit cowardice, it can avoid the further deepening of many problems, of course, not all of them, talking about things. You made a mistake in the company, but not all of your faults were yours, and as a result, you were the only one who was named and criticized by your boss, do you want to refute it? You feel very wronged, right? Why should I bear everyone's fault? But please choose to be silent, because you are at fault, think and repent, as for the part that is not your fault, imagine yourself as a great man, suffering for all sentient beings. Of course, this kind of thing can't happen too often, otherwise the great man will lose his temper, and once in a while, become a Buddha, go deep into hell, and feed the tiger with his body.

There is a reason for silence, there is a way to be silent, and a timely silence avoids a lot of trouble, of course, you don't need to deliberately cultivate, if you are really a person with a quick temper, it is nothing to say it, at most you will suffer a little more.

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