*Letter from home in the memo (1)*

2015.9.4

Wenwen, I just arrived here, let me report to you first, I have met many people in the past two days. There are comrades from the embassy, the head of the UN, and the head of the country. These are the people I will be dealing with in the future, and through them, I will also have a better understanding of the future work environment.

It's going to be a lot of difficulties to work here, but I'm mentally prepared for what we can't overcome.

As for security...... If it was 100% safe, we wouldn't have been sent here. But rest assured, our former colleagues have laid a very good foundation here, and our national flag has become a kind of pass to some extent, which is very well recognized by the locals.

The communication facilities here are really not good, just leave me a message if you have any news, and I will reply to you when I have time, and try to write as long as possible.

If you can't send it, it's a waste of feelings.

Dizzy, sure enough, it didn't work. Around this signal, I can't help but think of "Signals and Systems" and "Principles of Communication" that made me drowsy in college. Your man has been a martial artist for too long, and he has almost forgotten all about his professional knowledge. I suggest that I send more of my college classmates here in the future, there is an urgent need for all kinds of communication talents, and they will definitely make a difference.

Are you and the child all right? Qiao Bowen didn't cry anymore, did you? But I think you think you think so badly, although it's a little embarrassing, but what's the shame of telling you how much you miss it?

2015.9.10

Wenwen, I've been here for a few days, and I've seen several waves of "civilian armed forces". They were none other than a bunch of bear children. They didn't fire at us, but they often stopped the road and robbed. There are a few of the younger ones, maybe at the age of kindergarten. Although we are not afraid of them at all, and we will give them a little food or something, it still feels quite unpleasant.

Remembering your previous desire, you want to travel the world, but this is definitely not where you want to be. When I was a child, I was very reluctant to go from Hong Kong City to my grandparents' house. Especially in the summer, when it rains, the road is so muddy that it is impossible to walk, and there is a smell of feces everywhere. But my father came out of that poor ravine, and he often told us not to forget our roots, so he often took us back.

There is no harm if there is no comparison, compared with this place, Qiaojiatun in my memories has actually become a quiet and tranquil paradise. After all, there are no power cuts at every turn, children don't have to reach for food on the main road, and people don't have to worry about water. More importantly, there is no war there, and the people can live in peace.

More than 20 years have passed since I was a child, and I heard my father say that Qiaojiatun has already repaired the cement road, put up street lights, and has a special place to put garbage, and it is no longer the dilapidated appearance in my memory. But here, in the past ten or twenty years, it seems that not much has changed, and it is even worse than before.

Today I went to school and gave bread to a child, and he shouted "I love China". A small amount of food for us, but for them it is life-saving food. It's very uncomfortable for the children, that's why I wrote this little essay for you. We are happy, and so are our children. I miss you guys and want to do something for the kids here.

2015.9.2

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Wenwen, I just saw your message, if you are uncomfortable, don't hold on, hurry to the hospital, don't worry me.

The business in the store is virtual, even if we lose money, we will not go bankrupt, so don't take profit too seriously. There are gains and losses in life, and it is normal. What is more important than your health and your son's health?

I'm not around, I can't take you to the hospital, I can't do anything but be in a hurry. So, dear Wenwen, don't worry me, okay?

2015.9.21

Why only send videos of my son?

I know he misses me, and I miss him, wait until I record a video for him that day.

If the signal is good at night, I'll find you a video.

Forget it, I'm there this night, it's early in the morning, you still sleep well, hurry up and go to the doctor. Shrewd.

2015.9.22

What disease will take a while to be diagnosed?

If you can't do it, change hospitals, don't delay your condition.

The little guy I gave bread last time learned a few words of Chinese from me. Now I can say "thank you" and "I love China", and next time I shoot a small video for you to see, this is also a sense of accomplishment!

2015.9.28

It's been gone for a few days, you're worried about it, aren't you? I'm worried about you, I don't know what happened to your body.

The country is in ruins, and construction is an important part of our work, so I could go out for days on end. This time, I met a group of bear children again, but they are a veritable armed force, and the things in their hands are not ambiguous at all.

But don't worry, they're not going to shoot at us. Take 10,000 steps back, even if you really fight, you don't have to worry about me suffering. After all, your man used to be a famous martial artist.

The festive atmosphere in China is already very strong, isn't it? We are here with a lot of tasks, and we probably won't have celebrations. After all, only by living a peaceful life can you have the heart to celebrate.

You told me that you wanted our son to go to a small class next year, and I asked a few big brothers, and they didn't approve of it. The child is too young, and he may not be able to adapt to the small class, and there is something wrong with crying. However, it would be too tiring for you to take him alone and always have him by your side. I've only been with him for two months, and I don't know what to do.

We don't have a shortage of supplies here, and we can grow our own vegetables, so I don't have to worry about my quality of life. But I miss your craftsmanship and your breath all the time. Don't feel numb, I think what's wrong with my wife?

Even if you say it's okay, I'm still up and down in my heart, and I don't know if I'll be able to sleep well.

2015.10.1

Wenwen, it's finally the National Day. Where did you read the news? There's really no shelling, no bullets whizzing past our ears, we don't get under attack, and the refugees don't bother us. It's all serious in the news, and I'm not in danger at all.

Well, I just drove out on patrol, guarded the construction works, and carried out humanitarian relief for refugees. When I have nothing to do, I grow vegetables and go to school to engage in social activities with children. You see, I'm really not dangerous, not dangerous at all.

Here are military personnel from various countries

English is the lingua franca, and I have gained a lot of knowledge, which is very good.

Today is National Day, and fireworks must have been set off all over the country in the evening. Here's ...... The sound of artillery fire came from a long distance, but it was almost inaudible and could not be heard from a few dozen kilometers away from us.

Looking at the night sky, thinking of the motherland we once guarded, and remembering that our families all lived in that peaceful land, I am really proud to think about it.

Of course, I will always have half of you in my military medal, miss you, good night.

2015.10.15

Wenwen, this time I went out to stay longer, but it went smoothly and I didn't encounter any emergencies.

I saw the picture you sent me, and until now, my mind is confused. The reason why you're uncomfortable is because of this little guy?

When I think about it, I always feel unlikely...... However, this is the so-called fate between parents and children? The little commander is too, and so is this little guy, they are all little beings who take the initiative to come to us when you and I are separated.

I said I didn't want to have a second child so early, but I unconsciously quit smoking during the training, and you came to see me off before I left...... There is a destiny in the dark, and maybe we are all preparing for the arrival of TA.

I sigh at the magic of life, and even more at your difficulty. Dear wife, you are going to suffer again.

We're going to be parents again, and Jobwen is going to be an older brother...... I couldn't hide my joy and couldn't believe it was true. I can't put it into words.

2015.10.18

Wenwen, I listen to you, and I won't tell my parents for the time being. Wait until the little one is completely rooted in your belly before telling them.

In the past few days, every night I have remembered the scene when you were pregnant with the little commander, and I wonder if you are suffering as much as before at this time. Fortunately, there is a nanny at home, Su Xue lives with you, I am a little relieved.

I just thought about it today, why did you send Qiao Bowen to the small class. Or, when the child in the womb is stable, let our dad take Qiao Bowen to Hong Kong City! They are definitely willing, and they can take it well.

Alas, you gave birth this time, and I can't go back. I think back then, I once persuaded a group of blind dates to quit a group of blind dates with "children born by themselves and raised by themselves", but I just said it and never took it seriously. Now that I think about it, I regret it a lot. I'm going to never speak again, I'm going to close this crow's mouth.

2015.10.30

The dry season is coming, but it's not that exaggerated, I haven't been killed by the heat yet. Mosquitoes? no, deceitful. is still the same sentence, don't keep watching heavy news, isn't it good for girls to watch some Korean dramas?

I heard my sister say that she is going to Hong Kong City again? I hope there will be a good result this time! Our parents are also stubborn enough, they tossed us enough at the beginning, and now it is our sister's turn.

I'm afraid she gets married, and I won't be able to catch up. In this family, I am the only one who doesn't speak, helpless.

In the past few days, I have thought about the child's name, and if it is a boy, the nickname should be "General!" If it is a girl, how about the nickname "Mulan"? As for the big name, it should be called "Zhiwen"! Both boys and girls can use it.

"Bowen" is through "Bowen", and "Zhiwen" is through "Zhiwen", hoping that the two children can understand the meaning of their names and have attainments in "Wen".

What does Madame think?