My aunt was a stranger to me, she was married before I was born, and she was widowed at a young age, she had the same traditional thinking as my grandmother, and the standard of authentic ladies and gentlemen.

As far back as I can remember, she was always a little old and tired, with a little gray hair at first, and it seems to have turned completely white in recent years.

Her whole life is spent serving her in-laws, raising children, and enjoying it I don't know, everyone has their own life, and no one can say when sincere words come.

She has three children, two daughters, a posthumous son, the eldest daughter is like her tradition; the second daughter has no scruples, and a mixed society, full of tattoos together, married and had children, to be honest, she is unacceptable, simply broke off contact for a few years, and then the man is not bad to her daughter, the two of them live well, how the mother and daughter are broken, and then what should be done; the younger son is a posthumous son, born when a woman is the most vulnerable, he seems to carry auspiciousness, for the traditional aunt, a boy represents that she did not let her in-laws cut off the incense, the boy gradually grew into a man, married and had children, living a hundred times stronger than others, he is the pillar of a family.

In the years when my uncle left, my aunt's land has always been the labor force of my mother's family to help plant, from sowing to harvesting, a woman sometimes has to rely on the roots of her mother's family, so her feelings for her mother's relatives are sincere.

But here I want to talk about an aunt's stubbornness, because her grandparents died early, so every year during Qingming, she would go back to her parents' house to burn paper, sit in front of the grave of the second elder, crying and wiping her tears, she had a habit and persisted for many years.

After crying about the grave, because the home is relatively far away, I have to eat at my mother's house at noon, but because the second elder has passed away, I will eat at my uncle's house and my uncle's house. But she never stayed at my house to eat, because my dad usually went out to work, she stubbornly wanted to be with her own blood relatives, and other people's were hypocritical, my mother was with you, and sympathized with my aunt's life, but she was only willing to accompany her brother to eat cold dishes and gruel steamed buns for a few yuan, but she did not want to come to my house.

To be honest, my aunt is really like the grandmother who has passed away for a long time, with the same thoughts, but the difference is that my aunt has experienced more, maybe in that era, she experienced unknown hardships, she is old, not only her face, her heart is also full of ravines.

Grandpa died very early, but he built a house for each of his sons, and he didn't spend a lot of medical expenses before he died, and grandma was actually much happier than his aunt, because before grandpa died, she already had a few daughters-in-law, at least someone around her, and then there was a son, who was also close to each other.

And my aunt only has two and a half old girls, and a child in the womb, she should have considered remarrying, but the boy who came late made her die of that heart.

I don't know what year and month, if I can see her again, I should call my aunt at that time, she will probably smile and say some kind words, she should enjoy some blessings now, her life is hard, but she has done it to satisfy her in-laws, uncles, nephews and sisters-in-law are harmonious, no one speaks ill of her, because she can't bear it, maybe she has also shouted for her fate, so why is it not fair, the result is to continue to work hard.