I looked at Li Yuanze and asked, "Is it true?" Li Yuanze didn't speak, Xiaofan's father took out my ID card from his pocket and handed it to me, and said: "Most of those small hotels don't have business licenses, so basically you can check in directly regardless of whether your ID card matches me or not." Xiaofan's mother continued: "I also brought this person to you, Xiaofan, let's take it back first." I nodded: "I'm sorry, I'll definitely give you an explanation for today's incident." ”

After sending Xiaofan's parents away, I turned to look at Li Yuanze, Li Yuanze lowered his head, his face was flushed, and I asked, "You guys, where have you go?" He said in a voice the size of a mosquito, "We haven't had time for anything, we want to go out to eat and watch a movie first." I asked, "Do you know that it is a crime for you to have sex under the age of fourteen, whether the other person is consensual or not?" He still kept his head down and didn't say anything, and I asked again: "Do you know that you are fourteen years old, and you will be criminally responsible after your fourteenth birthday, and if you say what you do, this Xiaofan's parents alone can sue you?" He still lowered his head and said nothing, I continued to ask, "Are you prepared?" He still asked me in a low voice: "What preparations?" I took out a cigarette and lit it: "Nothing prepared?" He looked at me with some confusion: "Huh?" I shook my head: " Age aside, even if she is fourteen years old, having a relationship too early is not good for her growth, and it also has an impact on her physical development, not to mention that there are no protective measures, you are a man, you should protect her. ”

Luo Luo blushed a little when he heard this, at this time I don't care what Luo Luo is thinking, for a child like Li Yuanze who lacks sex education, as a temporary guardian, it is necessary for him to know what kind of position he is in between the sexes. I touched his head and said, "Come, follow me." "The three of us went to the supermarket, I picked up a box of condoms by the cash register, checked out, and took him back to the bar, I put the condom in front of him: "Do you know what this is?" His face was already red, and so was Rollo, and I pointed to the condom and said: " It seems that you should know, this is actually nothing embarrassing, you are a man, you have to protect your beloved woman, you can't let her feel any harm because of your ignorance or fast, you must know, even if you are an adult, you can already go to the next step, you should also know that this is not a shy thing, just your affirmation of your own feelings, I believe she is willing, you are willing, because you both like each other, not a moment of curiosity and impulsiveness. He bowed his head thoughtfully, and I asked, "Have you ever had before?" and he shook his head, "No, never." I nodded, and asked again, "I haven't eaten, because you kid, I haven't eaten with your Aunt Luo Luo." Luo Luo pinched me: "What aunt, it's obviously Sister Luo Luo." I retorted with a wail: "You are a sister, I am an uncle, this generation is messed up, messed up." Li Yuanze said with a wicked smile on the side: "Auntie, let's go eat first, I'm hungry." Luo Luo heard Li Yuanze's "Auntie", his face was blushing, and he hurriedly said: "Let's go, let's go, let's eat." ”

After taking him to dinner, he went back to the suite where He Lin lived, Luo Luo also turned around and hugged me, and I also hugged her, she looked at me and asked, "What you told him today is very good." I nodded: "Now the society is much more open, these things are not unusual, what is strange is for this aspect of education, I like a writer, called Wang Xiaobo, his lover is a personality scientist, but also the first female sociologist in my country to research, I heard the name of Mr. Li Yinhe for the first time, is she talking about the love with Mr. Wang Xiaobo, more than half a hundred years old can still 'kiss with Wang Xiaobo lips are swollen'." I don't think sex should be synonymous with being obscure, unbearable, and shameless. On the contrary, everything falls into place, and that is the real sublimation of the so-called 'love'. When I become a father one day, I will teach my son to respect each other, and I will ask my wife to teach my daughter to protect herself and respect herself. She looked at me with a puzzled look, "But I'm still curious, am I not pretty?" I shook my head: "You're beautiful." She asked me again, "Is it because I'm not in good shape?" and I shook my head: "No, you're in good shape." She then asked, "Is that because I'm not young enough?" and I scratched her nose, "If you're not young, then I'm not half in the ground." She nodded: "Then I see, I'm not charming enough." I put my arms around her and said, "What nonsense?" She pushed me away and said with a sad face: "Then why have I moved here for so long, the two of them sleep with each other every day, you really sleep with your arms, don't you have any thoughts about me? Or do you have no idea about me?" At this time, my face was as red as when Li Yuanze was lectured by me, Luo Luo saw that I was too shy to speak, so he took out the "teaching aids" I gave to Li Yuanze from my pocket and kept shaking in front of my eyes, I still didn't speak, she lowered her head in some frustration: "Today you told him" It's not something to be ashamed of, it's just your affirmation of your feelings, I believe she is willing, and you are willing, because you both like each other, not a moment of curiosity and impulsiveness. You don't want to touch me, is it because you don't like me enough? I shook my head and hugged her tightly: " Silly girl, although I am not a conservative person, but I have always known that a girl's greatest wish is to meet a lover who can stay for life, and the most sense of ritual is to leave the first time on the wedding night, I now consider myself not a good person, but I also hope to be able to complete this sense of ceremony with you on the wedding night, even if the last person is not me, then you can retain this beautiful sense of ceremony until you complete it, I respect you, respect sex, respect this beautiful and sacred ceremony. ”

"Passion is a double-edged sword, it makes life happy and it makes life painful. Life in passion is the most interesting and colorful. If possible, be willing to keep it for life. ------ Li Yinhe, "Enjoying Life: My Life Aesthetics"

"Can you and I not regret everything that has happened and not force everything that has not happened?" ------ Li Yinhe, "Loving You is Like Loving Life"

I was invited by a friend to go to Lijiang, and it happened that Luo Luo was also on vacation, except for the last time in Beihai, I hadn't taken her to have a good time, and this time I brought her with me.

When we came, it happened to be a shower, we wore raincoats and walked on the bluestone bricks, Luo Luo took my hand and jumped forward, she turned back to me and said: "My dear, you see, the ancient town on a rainy day is less crowded, but it is more flavorful." I rubbed her head and smiled, she turned and walked to the stone bridge, quietly watching the raindrops hitting the lake, this rain is contradictory, the sound on the lake, on the eaves of wooden houses, on the bluestone bricks is noisy, noisy, if you close your eyes, every sound it makes is clearly distinguished, together it is a symphony, a symphony more contradictory than it, sometimes subdued, sometimes flat and straightforward, sometimes cheerful, sometimes sad.

I stood beside her, we stood on the small bridge, looking at the countless ripples of the water together, occasionally there were travelers in raincoats on the street running by, and there were also shopkeepers looking at the pedestrians outside the store proudly, we looked at each other and smiled, the raincoat could not stop the rain from falling on us, her hair was already wet, her temples were against her cheeks, and the sea was on her forehead, she was smiling, she was smiling in the rain, she smiled and said to me, "It's so good." I was also laughing: "You are still smart, you know that it is raining today, and you are specially without makeup." She quipped me jokingly, and I asked, "Is it cold?" She shook her head, the raincoat didn't cover her face, but it protected her body well, and many of the shopkeepers even paraded around the street with umbrellas to sell us their umbrellas, we refused, we are not people who like umbrellas.

I love the fresh air, the fresh rain, the fresh people, the fresh everything, and she loves me. I enjoy this rain, feel the humidity from Lijiang, I enjoy, the fireworks in this world, it is perfect when there is rain. She said, "No, the fireworks in this world, you and I are perfect in the rain." "She is only on my chest, and I love to rub her head, and every time I put my hand on her head, she will shrink her shoulders and wait for me to rub it, and then stick out her tongue or look at me with starry eyes.

The shower didn't last long, and the street soon poured out of the shop with pedestrians, we couldn't continue to rain quietly, and soon walked out of the ancient town, and my friend picked us up, looking at me who was soaking wet, and Luo Luo, who was still sweet even if his hair was messy, was a little surprised: "You guys just finished swimming?" we smiled, took out two bath towels from our luggage, wrapped them, and put them in the trunk. My friend dropped us off at the hotel and left, saying that he would pick us up in the evening and arrange a reception for us. Rollo and I lay in the indoor hot spring enjoying the pleasure of being surrounded by hot water, we just shivered from the cold rain, and the pores of our bodies were dilating when we soaked in the hot water, soft, a kind of softness that emanated from the bones, and the two of us tilted our heads. I love the artificial onsen in this room, the privacy makes me especially comfortable. After we enjoyed some hot water service, Rollo walked up to me from the water, she hugged me and laughed teasingly, "I thought you weren't responding." I turned my head a little embarrassed and coughed: "Ahem, I'm also a man, okay." She smiled even sweeter, and I felt like I turned my head.

We lay in the hot springs and talked a lot, and we also planned to take her to various places in Yunnan after finishing our errands from Lijiang, and also discussed the help of our friends. At six o'clock, my friend also called on time and said that he had gone downstairs, so we cleaned up and went downstairs. A friend took us to a hotel, walked into a box, there was already a person sitting there waiting, it was a girl, she saw her friend walking in with us, put down the book in her hand and stood up, and walked slowly towards us, I was a little stunned, my body was a little stiff, but soon I covered up the past, my friend introduced to us: "Brother Li, this is my lover, Zhou Ting." After finishing speaking, he introduced to Zhou Ting: "This is my good brother Li when I was in Beijing, I have always taken care of me at work, this is his ......" I quickly answered: "Girlfriend, Luo Luo." Zhou Ting stretched out her hand to us: "Hello, it's a pleasure to meet you." I hesitated and reached out and shook it gently, and Rollo reached out and shook her hand as well. We sat down after a brief politeness, and I was a little uncomfortable, I didn't know if she recognized me, or if she had forgotten about me.