"Why do I say that the most easily overlooked thing is family affection? Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info in order to let everyone see this problem more intuitively. Let's do a field survey. Come, how many people live with their parents, everyone raise your hand......"

Zhang Fan's voice fell, and the 500 spectators at the scene were only sparse and less than 100 people.

"Eighty-eight people, five hundred of us, live with our parents, and less than one-fifth of us can be with our parents every day. Okay, let's go on, if you can go back and see your parents once a month, please raise your hand, I'll see how many ......"

Zhang Fan asked again, this time there were still very few people, only a little more than a hundred out of five hundred.

"If you can watch it every two months, please raise your hand ......"

This time, it's still less than two hundred.

"I can go back once every six months......

This time there were a lot of them, but only about half of them. Seeing this result, everyone fell silent.

"Now I'll do another survey. If you are home for less than 30 days a year, please raise your hand ......"

This time, almost a third of them raised their hands.

"...... less than 20 days per year"

"...... less than 10 days a year"

"...... less than seven days a year"

At the scene, Zhang Fan's investigation shocked everyone.

"Based on the investigation just now, we can draw a conclusion. That is, after work, about 30% of people can go home to accompany their parents for no more than 30 days a year, 28% spend less than 20 days with their parents, 24% spend only 7 to 9 days with their parents, and 22% spend less than 7 days with their parents. And less than 20% of the people who can really accompany their parents. ”

When Zhang Fan showed the data just now, everyone fell silent.

"If you feel like it's okay. Let's do another math problem. This math problem is very simple, that is, in addition to sleeping, socializing, and having fun. How much time each year do you actually get to sit next to your parents, talk to them, talk to them? ”

"If you live with your parents, how much time can you spend with them? In addition to socializing, going to work, sleeping, etc., you can spend an average of 2 hours a day with your parents, about 730 hours a year. ”

"And what about people who work in other places? Many people don't go home until the Chinese New Year. The Chinese New Year holiday is generally about 7 days, except for the time spent commuting, visiting friends, sleeping, etc., in fact, the time spent with parents is less than 24 hours a year. ”

When Zhang Fan said this set of data, everyone shuddered.

"Suppose your parents have another thirty years to live. And how much time do you spend with your parents? A lot of people only have a month, a month. ”

"We stayed in my mother's belly for 10 months, in my mother's arms for two or three years, in my mother's hands for another five or six years, in my mother's eyes for more than ten years, and then, we lived in my mother's ears for the rest of the decades... ”

"Think about yourself from croaking to the ground, only crying, to muttering to call out your parents, to the first time you stumble barefoot, the first time you walk to school with your schoolbag, the first time you get your test results, the first time you leave your parents to study in a distant place... We have always been in the hearts of our parents, but we are getting farther and farther away from them. ”

"The greatest kindness in this world is the nurturing grace of parents, sheep have the feeling of kneeling, crows have the righteousness of feeding, although parents have never asked us for a trace of return, but we really rarely do anything for them, even the most basic companionship can not be given. ”

The low piano sound sounded, and Zhang Fan's words were like a knife, piercing into everyone's hearts. At this moment, everyone couldn't control their emotions, and many people at the scene covered their mouths and cried.

"We're always busy, busy ”

"We put off our plans to stay with our parents and take everything for granted, but we don't realize that they are aging so quickly in this neglect"

"How long has it been since you've been home? How long has it been since you called them? Do you know what your parents do every day when you're not at home? Have you ever told your parents what you're busy with every day?"

"We always say that we are grateful for the dedication of our parents, but we are grateful too much, but too little action, the so-called "son wants to raise but does not wait", the already limited family data is constantly decreasing, and one day it will all be cleared and disconnected, and you, is there anything that has not yet been completed?"

"The biggest regret in life is when we finally realize our dreams and finally have a successful career, but we don't have the person who can truly share the joy with you, when we finally have the ability and time, but we don't have the person who can spend time with you. ”

"Don't tell your parents I love you after they've lost their hearing, don't take them on a trip after they're no longer able to move, and don't regret it when your parents are gone. ”

"Woo woo woo ......"

At the scene, countless people cried. And the people who watched the show were even more in tears. Whether it is young or middle-aged, the mood has completely collapsed at this moment.

The music played, the stage dimmed, and on the big screen behind it, a picture appeared.

"Wow, wow, wow......"

In the stereo, there was the cry of a child falling to the ground.

Mom, I want to say it to you

The words came to his lips and he swallowed them

Mom, I want to smile at you

There were tears in his eyes

Oh mom, mom in the candlelight

Your black hair is covered with frost

Oh mom, mom in the candlelight

Your cheeks are imprinted with this concern

Zhang Fan started singing, accompanied by music, and the photos were constantly changed on the big screen behind. The mother holds the baby, the mother carries the child to the doctor, and takes the child to school......

The child grows up little by little, but the mother gets older. The young face is not there, and the head is already full of gray hair......

Oh mom, mom in the candlelight

Your waist is so tired that it doesn't straighten anymore

Oh mom, mom in the candlelight

Why have your eyes lost their brilliance?

Mom, the baby has grown up

I don't want to hold you by the hem of your clothes

Through spring, autumn, winter and summer

Mommy in the candlelight

Your black hair is covered with frost

Oh mom, mom in the candlelight

Your cheeks are imprinted with this concern

Oh mom, mom in the candlelight

Your waist is no longer straight

Oh mom, mom in the candlelight

Why have your eyes lost their brilliance?

Mom, the baby has grown up

You can't hold the placket of your clothes

Through spring, autumn, winter and summer

Mom

Mom in the candlelight

Your waist is no longer straight

Mom

Mom in the candlelight

Don't lose that brilliance in your eyes

Mom, the baby has grown up

I don't want to be with you

How can you go through spring, autumn, winter and summer

"Woo woo woo ......"

"Mom......"

"Mom, I miss you......"

The song "Mother in the Candlelight" made everyone cry, even Zhang Fan was full of tears, at this moment, everyone's emotions completely collapsed, they couldn't control themselves at all, and the scene was out of control for a while.