One day, I was on the shuttle bus, chatting with a colleague, and when I encountered a red light at the intersection, the driver stopped, and it happened that there was a bunch of people arguing on the sidewalk next to me, and then saying some foul language.

Swearing, I think, is uncomfortable for anyone to listen to.

In between, my colleague said a few words: I don't know why I want to scold someone? I feel uncomfortable, why fight a fight? Isn't that person scolding myself......

I was a little sudden, pondering these words, and I felt very good!

One comes from the first question, why do you want to scold people?

If you think about it, most of it is just a bluff, whether you are justified or not, whether you stand on the "moral high ground" or not, but as long as you open your mouth and scold people, then you will fall down and become a vexatious person.

The second comes from the solution he proposed, if you feel uncomfortable, fight a fight.

Of course, I don't advocate this, but I just agree with the logic of this passage. Earlier he asked why, and then he asked how.

Finally, scolding others is tantamount to scolding oneself.

Let's explain first, the statement from him is: they are all people, and if you scold others, you are tantamount to scolding yourself.

By extension, it seems that there is a bit of the principle of not doing to others as you would have them do unto you, and there seems to be some metaphysical philosophical thinking, or the current anthropological perspective in a broad sense.

In short, these simple sentences, I feel quite reasonable, scolding others is equivalent to scolding yourself, which is equivalent to saying that hurting others is equal to hurting yourself.

Of course, some people may say that I am inconsistent and that I like the kind of logical words, but I am in a mess, like I didn't give a reply after I said "why".

If you ask me, what would you do if someone scolded you? or what would you do if someone messed with you?

First of all, I am not a master of the Tao, nor am I a compassionate monk, I am just an ordinary person, general provocations, can be ignored, repeated provocations, you can choose to leave, you can choose to retaliate if you can't leave, the same is scolding, that is, it has fallen to the bottom, naturally you have to scold happily, if you want to fight, it is best to find a place where no one is, and sign an agreement again, the two sides fight, the consequences are not responsible. Save provoking the zealous police and arrest both of them.

"One Day at a Time" scolding others and scolding yourself is hitting your hands, please wait a moment,

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