Most people, most of the time, are able to see some things very clearly, even if they may not calm down when it first happened, and they are confused for a while, but after a while, they will think it through.

A couple broke up, the boy brought it up, very suddenly, the girl was very sad and wanted to ask why, but she was defeated by her own pride, and finally she didn't even know a reason to break up.

The breakup was not happy at all, she liked that boy, she used to be so affectionate, and made a promise for a long time.

After the breakup, the girl cried, made trouble, tried everything to please her, begged, and finally didn't get it, because she couldn't get any response, to be exact, she got a sentence: I don't love you anymore.

You may think that the boy is ruthless, but from the story alone, we can't draw conclusions.

The girl lives every day tormentedly, her life is disrupted, she has no mental troubles, physical disorders, and relies on memories to support her life. Day after day, the girl slowly began to reflect on herself, thinking about it, in fact, the breakup was not so sudden, in the memory of the boy in the first half of the breakup more than half a month was not as enthusiastic as before, love to answer, ignore it, find all kinds of excuses, say that she is busy, the girl is sensible every time and say don't be too busy, pay attention to rest.

Now it seems that in fact, it is just lying to yourself, who doesn't know those old excuses and lies, but doesn't want you to leave so soon.

The sense of self-protection leads to the self-lying mechanism, that is, to lie to oneself, self-protection is understood by everyone, and lying is also understood, after the two are combined. To put it simply, in order to reduce the pain caused by others or oneself, the brain chooses to avoid reality, does not accept self-judgment, and contradicts the subconscious and the true self.

The girl deceived herself for more than half a month, wanting to get through it strongly and accompany the boy all the way, she actually knew that it was impossible, but she chose to continue, ignoring the coldness from the boy, pretending to be very sensible, why, because she was afraid that losing him would hurt her heart.

The result is the same, the heart will really hurt, but it is not like a sudden crit like a storm crashing on the shore, but a cycle like the rolling Yangtze River.

That's all for the story, there's nothing wrong with being a girl who cheats on herself.

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