Passed down from father to son

The men of the family are seldom mentioned, because they seldom communicate with them, and their ideas seem to be still stuck in the feudal society, and they cannot accept the rules of the new society for a while, and for the time they boast of being people of the new world.

For the topic of father-to-son inheritance, I probably have to start with myself, I probably inherited the flaws from my father's personality, and I am a wooden, timid, and face-loving person. I always longed to be like my mother, thoughtful and different. But I've developed that kind of personality since I was a child, and I can't change it for a while.

On the contrary, the elder brother's personality is mostly influenced by his mother, and he is doing things in a hurry, as the eldest son of a family, he seems to have a heavier burden on his shoulders, but fortunately, the family is simple, the clan relationship is not complicated, and there is nothing he needs to solve first.

Passed down from father to son, I don't know whether to say that I passed on certain things from my father, or if my brother passed on some of my father's things, because I felt that the character that I was affected by was a very bad thing, and I only slightly eliminated some of it after years of struggle, and a single weakness made me feel that I had never been able to stand up, and that I would always be a person who needed to be taken care of.

My brother seems to be much stronger than me, and he has more experience than me, and he often acts like an old man, teaching me a few words, and I occasionally refute a few words, but thinking about it, it seems that he needs someone to listen to him more, and I am strong enough to live well alone for the time being.

My brother seems to be living in a patriarchal society, and because I am with my sister and mother, my thoughts are more delicate, and I am very different from him.

The elder brother is influenced by his father, and most of them are common things in the code of ethics, and they don't seem to be able to give enough respect to women, they will think that men are the mainstay, and women are good or bad only because men choose correctly or not. A woman's excellence and greatness are all because men choose and achieve her.

Of course, it's a bit exaggerated, what my father's thoughts are, I don't know, as I just said, we rarely communicate, his outlook on life and values, has long been destroyed in the living expenses of our three children, this is something he is proud of, of course, this is also their choice.

As for my brother, I just learned about the fixed-point things, so I had to take them out of context and give him a deformed judgment.

Many times, it is difficult for us to understand a person, because his ideas are in conflict with us too much, and sometimes their own ideas are full of contradictions, and what we have to do is to figure out our own things.