Zhang Feng explained: "I can say that. But I think it's more appropriate to say that you've become more attractive than before.

You may not even realize it, but you look much more mature and confident than you used to be. ”

Zhou Yu rolled his eyes.

The system helped me change my temperament, of course I am different from before, and besides, when I have money, I have self-confidence, and a confident man is not the most handsome?

Well, although I admit that I am handsome and attractive, I appreciate your eyes more.

Give you a fish ball and encourage you.

silently pretended to beep, and replied lightly: "Because I'm an adult, stupid." ”

Zhang Feng retorted: "You are stupid, I have been a classmate of you for two years, if I can't see this, I will read all the books in vain." ”

Zhou Yu asked, "Then tell me the reason." Zhang Feng glanced at Lan Yan and said, "I think it must be because you are in love." It's your sister-in-law who changed you. Who would have thought that you would be able to take care of people?"

Gong Yu blinked, looked at Zhou Yu, and asked, "My reason, am I that powerful?"

You don't understand that the power of love is too great: I'll tell you briefly: I have to start Teacher Zhang's class! Zhou Yu faintly felt that this meal was a bit saliva-stuting.

Brain science and psychology research have found that romantic love is a biological program. Acts of love are derived from a variety of attractions (charisma, major histocompatibility complexes, etc.).

Dominated by hormonal action, all crazy behavior is just to pass on genes to offspring. Brain science shows that when people fall in love, the brain constantly releases a specific set of chemicals.

Including the neurotransmitters dopamine, norepinephrine, the hormone, and serotonin released by a substance, the same compound stimulates the brain's pleasure centers and causes side effects such as increased heart rate, loss of appetite, insomnia, and intense agitation, a phase that typically lasts one and a half to three years.

Love is a strong attachment, closeness, yearning between people, and the emotion of selflessness, single-mindedness, and all-encompassing.

Interpretation] (noun) refers to the feelings and friendship between men and women who love each other.

[example sentence] ~ sweet. (as the subject) longing~. (as an object) ~ power. (Final remarks)

Love is a strong attachment, closeness, yearning between people, and the emotion of selflessness, single-mindedness, and all-encompassing. It is usually the contrast between lust and lust.

In Han culture, love is to net the other person's heart, with the attributes of intimacy, lust and commitment, attachment, and emotion, and to have confidence in the longevity of this relationship, and to be able to share a private life with the other person. On the emotional basis of love, in addition to the cross-cultural differences of love, the concept of love has also changed a lot over time.

Love is an integral part of human nature, and in a narrow sense, it refers to love between lovers, and in a broad sense, it also includes love between friends and love between relatives (the feeling of love).

Scientific analysis

Love

Human love and sexual desire reach their peak in the early stages of the relationship, and then become increasingly indifferent and turn into love. The reverie state of lovers who are already in love, and who are attached to each other and reluctant to give up, and who are confused and confused, begins to fade within 15 months of being together, and gradually becomes family affection after 10 years, with exceptions. The biological process through the action of hormones is the combined manifestation of a series of chemical reactions.

The ability of people to experience love has evolved into a signal that a potential partner's partner will be a good parent and may contribute to the adoption of genetic offspring. The chemicals involved in the study of neuroscience are present in the brain and may be involved when people encounter love, including: nerve growth factor, testosterone, estrogen, dopamine, norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, and vasopressin. (Addiction and Euphoric States, namely Dopamine. Like two other modulators that are linked to romantic love, oxytocin and vasopressin) testicles adequate brain levels seem to be important for human male and female sexuality, dopa A, norepinephrine and serotonin in a relationship of attraction is more common.

The chemical trigger that is responsible for passionate love and long-term attachment to love seems to be more specifically involved in the sexual activity of the two people than the specific person involved. In these young brains which diffuse a sort of mist of dopamine, serotonin,norepinephrine, what have you.

Love Ring

Love

There is a "love ring" in the human brain, which can control love. This "love ring" is formed by 4 small areas. These areas are known by experts as the "ventral tegmental area" (VTA), the nucleus accumbens, the ventral globus pallidus, and the nucleus of the middle suture.

Studies have found that the chemistry of love in the brain is the same as drug addiction. Brain scans of people who have recently broken up show additional activity in the nucleus accumbens. Lucy Brown, a neurologist at Albert Einstein College of Medicine, said the phenomenon represents cravings, "similar to cravings for drugs."

Scientists conducted this experiment in people who have been in love for 20 years and found that in addition to the ventral tegmental area, the ventral globus pallidus and the nucleus of the middle suture are also brightened. The ventral globus pallidus is responsible for affection and stress-relieving hormones, and the nucleus of the middle suture is responsible for releasing serotonin, a substance that "calms the mood," Fischer said.

The seven-year itch

A team of researchers at the State University of New York at Stony Brook is studying whether love can be "eternal." The researchers showed the two groups of subjects photographs of their lovers and used magnetic resonance imaging to scan their brains. Scans show that about 1 in 10 couples who have spent 20 years together quickly secrete a large amount of dopamine, a chemical in their brains after seeing a picture of their lover. As a neurotransmitter, dopamine transmits feelings of joy and excitement, which can be called the "happy hormone". The chemical reaction of the dopamine burst described above is more common in the brains of new couples.

The chemical reaction of the aforementioned dopamine burst is more prevalent in the brains of new couples.

Hormone triangle evolutionary psychologists, neurobiologists and hormone researchers have tried to re-answer the age-old question of "love" that humanity has been exploring since its liberation from obscurantism. The more they studied the history of human evolution and the mechanism of action of hormones, the more they realized that xy, love, and partnership did not originate from divine arrangements, but depended on the biological programs that ignited the fire of passion.

Human attitudes towards love are tightly controlled by genes and hormones. The primitive reproductive impulse of our ancestors still profoundly influences human thinking and action to this day. Whether it's mate-picking, jealousy, or having an affair, experts have discovered that unconscious evolutionary forces are everywhere, and that the only goal of all crazy moves is to pass on one's own genes to offspring.

Experts believe that XY, love, and partnership form a triangle of love through the interaction of various hormones. Testosterone secreted by the sexual Q organ controls sex and stimulates dopamine secretion.

Men with high testosterone levels rarely marry, often have relationships with strangers of the opposite sex, and break up quickly. Dopamine, norepinephrine, and complex amines in the blood are hormones that act on love.

Dopamine improves a person's concentration and the purposefulness of their actions. Norepinephrine can make people's hearts beat wildly or they can't think about it. Small amounts of complex amines in the blood can lead to compulsive behaviors.

In addition, dopamine also increases the secretion of testosterone. Partnerships are influenced by oxytocin and vasopressin, which create feelings of intimacy and trust and reduce the secretion of dopamine and testosterone. Oxytocin strengthens the mother-child relationship, while vasopressin stimulates paternity in men.

There is a time limit

Love

Anthropologist American anthropologist Helen Fisher, a female scientist, believes that the monogamous life of changing partners, or fixed relationships with a limited duration, is the primitive mode of living together in line with human nature. In this way, how fragile are the lifelong vows of newlyweds? Are sexuality, love, and partnership really just hormones? Are people in love like monkeys in heat?

Animal habitologists look for answers to these questions by looking at the animal kingdom. Humans' close relatives chimpanzees and bonobos provide abundant material. The researchers came to a clear conclusion: there are no long-term partnerships in the primeval forest, and promiscuity is like a supreme duty for both male and female orangutans. Chimpanzees are world champions in this regard. Female chimpanzees are still willing to mate with males during menstruation. They like to change their sexual partners, but they are not welcomed by the rude and savage males, but by the gentle males who play with the baby chimpanzees and give them sugar cane.

Ethologists believe that it is human nature to be greedy and lustful. But human behavior is decisively different from that of its animal relatives: unlike chimpanzees, humans maintain long-lasting relationships with people of the opposite sex. Because a woman needs a reliable partner to help her raise her children.

David Bass, an evolutionary psychologist at the University of Texas, said: "It takes a lot of energy from a man to do an act of X between the sexes, and the consequence can be that a woman becomes pregnant in October and has to use a lot of physical energy." In addition, pregnancy also excludes the opportunity to combine with other members of the opposite sex. The difference between men and women

Childbearing does not mean the end of the partnership. Women need someone to help them raise their children all year round. A man who loves a child is essential to her and their offspring.

There is only one problem that women face in this regard: men actually want to have a lot of partners. One-night stands are not a big deal for men.

American psychologists Russell Clark and Elaine Hatfield ask a charming lady to help them run an experiment. "Would you like to spend the night with me tonight?", the beautiful woman asked a strange man on the campus of a university. Seventy-five percent of the men said they could go with her immediately. Most of the remaining 25 percent expressed regret, saying they had an appointment tonight. When the questioner was replaced by a beautiful man, only 6% of the women said they could go to his house, but no one agreed to leave immediately.

This experiment reveals the main contradiction of human reproduction. Men and women adopt different strategies for childbearing, with men seeking quantity and women seeking quality. Women want to keep a reliable partner by their side at least for a while, while men prefer to mess with flowers.

Therefore, it is indeed surprising that in real life men and women tend to maintain relationships for long periods of time. So what is the force that unites the very different sexes to raise their offspring? Biologists believe that it is the power of hormones.

In biosociology, since the stages of desire and attraction are temporary, one-third of the stages are long-term relationships that need to be considered. Attachments are unions that promote relationships that last for years or even decades. Attachments are usually based on commitments such as marriage and children, or mutual friendship based on common interests and hobbies.

It has been linked to higher levels in the chemical oxytocin and vasopressin to a greater extent than a short-term relationship. Enzo Emanuele and colleagues report that the protein molecule of nerve growth factor has higher levels when people first fall in love, 12-24 months later, maintaining the same relationship, but no longer in the same mental state as before.

Biosociologists tell us that when we fall in love, we all fall into the naturally occurring flow of phenylpropylene that runs through the emotional centers of our own brains. The difference in the type of love and the outlook on emotions determine whether people prefer to be in love with the same sex or the opposite sex. For example, some people who believe in Plato's theory of love firmly believe that there is true love only between people of the same sex, and that nothing more than sex and procreation exist between people of the opposite sex.

Game-style: Treat love as a game, not very single-minded, just hoping to win the "love game";

Possessive: a strong, exclusive, dependent love that is prone to jealousy and places great emphasis on commitment and loyalty between the two parties;

Realistic: This kind of love is very rational, very realistic and practical, only considering whether it comes from a similar family background, whether it is beneficial to career development, whether it can be a good parent, etc.;

Altruism: selfless, altruistic love, gentleness, caring, loyalty and unconditional giving, without expecting anything in return;

One-in-one: Both parties work and live diligently under the common goal, just like many great men in history, their love is poignant and romantic.

Companion: The two parties are together to accompany each other, care for each other, and share each other's sorrows and joys. The more common one, which is similar to the one-piece type;

Good friend style: like a close friend relationship, there is no sense of mystery and impulse, and it is mostly developed from ordinary friends;

Romantic passion: romantic, affectionate love, largely based on external attraction, typified by love at first sight;

Platonic love: Purely spiritual and not carnal love between heterosexuals/homosexuals. Ideal view of love (metaphor for an extremely romantic or simply unattainable view of love).

Cultural customs

Love classics that have been praised in China since ancient times, such as the love stories between Fan Li and Xi Shi, Lu Bu and Diao Chan, Li Longji and Yang Yuhuan, Chen Yuanyuan and Wu Sangui, and Li Zicheng. In today's pop culture, whether it's movies, TV series, pop songs, love is still an important theme. Love is often the subject of all kinds of artworks. In modern times, science fiction stories are also used to make people think about what love is.

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The red plum Tufang is happy to become a couple, and the green willow smiles and is forever united

Yellow flowers and green trees, fragrant grass and sky, words are not as good as Jingduo heart proud purple swallow red warbler, fragrant and wild, endless talent and beauty

The incense covers the hibiscus tent and the candle shines brightly

Zhixiu, Lanxin, Rongzi, Yulu, Hongyi, Fengcai, Gao Huanyunxiao.

Qixi Festival, also known as the Qiqiao Festival, Qiqiao Festival or Qijie Festival, originated in China and is a traditional festival in Chinese areas and East Asian countries, celebrated on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month. From the legend of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl.

Since in the past, the fate of women could only be married to women, husbands and children, so many women believed in the legend of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, and hoped to take the Weaver Girl as an example. Therefore, every time the seventh sister is born, they will sacrifice to the seventh sister, praying that they can be clever and get a happy marriage. This is where the name "Qiqiao" comes from. Women also prepare thin needles made of brass (seven-hole needles) to thread the needles through the moon and the wind with five-colored threads. Over time, Tanabata has also become a "Daughter's Day".

In 2012, Wu Bing'an, Ye Shuxian and other experts jointly proposed to list the Qixi Festival as a national legal holiday.

The legend of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl is one of the four major folk legends in China, and it is also the earliest and most widely circulated legend in China's folk literature, and has a very important position in the history of China's folk literature.

Legend has it that Cowherd's parents died early, and he was often abused by his brother and sister-in-law, and was only accompanied by an old cow. One day, the old cow gave him a plan and taught him how to marry a weaver girl. On that day, the beautiful fairies did bathe in the Milky Way and frolic in the water. At this time, the Cowherd, who was hiding in the reeds, suddenly ran out and took the Weaver Girl's clothes. The frightened fairies hurriedly went ashore, dressed and flew away, leaving only the Weaver Girl. At the begging of the Cowherd, the Weaver Girl agreed to be his wife. After marriage, the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, the Farmer and the Weaver Weaver, loved each other, and lived a very happy life. The Weaver Girl also gave birth to a son and a daughter to the Cowherd. Later, when the old cow was about to die, he told the cowherd to keep its skin and put it on when it was in trouble for help. After the old cow died, the couple reluctantly peeled off the cow and buried it on the hillside.

When the Weaver Girl and the Cowherd got married, the Jade Emperor and the Queen Mother of the Heavenly Court knew about it, and they were furious and ordered the Heavenly God to capture the Weaver Girl back in the lower realm. The gods took advantage of the Cowherd's absence and captured the Weaver Girl. The Cowherd went home and didn't see the Weaver Girl, so he hurriedly put on a cowhide and chased after the two children. Seeing that she was about to catch up, the Queen Mother was in a hurry, pulled out the golden hairpin on her head and swiped towards the Milky Way, and the shallow Milky Way became turbid in an instant, and the Cowherd could no longer pass. Since then, the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl can only have tears in their eyes, looking at each other across the river, for a long time, the Jade Emperor and the Queen Mother can not resist the sincere feelings between them, and they are allowed to meet once a year on July 7, according to legend, every seventh day of the seventh month, the magpie in the world will fly to the sky, and meet on the magpie bridge for the Cowherd and Weaver Girl in the Milky Way. In addition, in the dead of night, people can also hear the love words of the Cowherd and Weaver Girl in the sky under the grape trellis or other melon and fruit trellises.

These all show that love has a certain role in helping a person, from Dick Silk to the counterattack of the male god.

You just like to say it......

Stop! Zhou Yu immediately shouted: Brother, don't say it, brother, I'll call you brother, you see if we talk about it next time, the hot pot is almost cold.

Then he appropriately changed the topic, and finally stopped the following remarks, which he was too good to say.

Zhou Yu rubbed Gong Yu's little head and replied affirmatively: "Well, Sister Yu is already very powerful. ”

Gong Yu squinted his eyes, and his little head rubbed his palm upward, like a kitten that pleases his master.

Li Meiling muttered: "Mom, the power of love." I want to be in love. ”

Zhou Yu took out a piece of lotus root from the bottom of the pot and put it in Li Meiling's bowl: "Eat lotus root." ”

She frowned and asked suspiciously, "Are you scolding me?"

Zhou Yu smiled lightly: "No, you think too much." ”

Gong Yu laughed out loud and said, "Don't bully Meiling." ”

Meiling glared at Zhou Yu and said hatefully: "You're just saying I'm ugly!"

A serious Zhou Yu, shook his head and said, "You're not ugly, you're just a single dog." ”

Meiling slapped her chopsticks on the table and shouted, "My mother wants to fall in love!

Zhou Yu pursed his lips disdainfully, and continued to hit her: "You must know that being single and being alone are two concepts. ”

"Who said I didn't want anyone!" Meiling raised her chin and looked at Zhang Feng: "Senior brother, what do you think of my sister?"

Zhang Feng actor put his body up, folded his hands and said: "Female" female donor, the old man's name is to quit color!"

Meiling gritted her teeth, glared at her eyes and said, "You deserve to be single!"

......

Zhang Feng's voice changed, and then said: "By the way, Brother Yuan, I will go home on the train tomorrow morning." ”

Zhou Yu asked suspiciously, "Why are you in such a hurry to go back?"

Zhang Feng shook his head and replied: "I've seen the environment or something, and it's not interesting to play." Besides, a hotel room costs a lot of money a day. ”

Zhou Yu waved his hand: "Say that and you'll see the outside." If you really want to leave tomorrow, give me a call and I'll take you to the train station at the time. ”

Zhang Feng shook his head and politely refused: "The relationship between the two of us really doesn't have to be like this, you have something to do with you, can I still get lost as a big person?"

Well, call me when the time comes to work, and I'll go find you.

ok！

......

After the separation, the two of them began to be greasy and crooked and sweet again!

He～Tui～

I didn't expect you to be double-sided, a certain Meiling thought!

Zhou Yu saw his embarrassment

Silently sandwiched a piece of lotus root.

Zhou Yu showed a kind smile from his brother-in-law: "Meiling, come, eat lotus root." ”

Meiling: "......"

Heaven does not give birth to me Li Meiling, and the eternal cowardice is like a long night.

Well, this look is a bit rigid.

I wittily retreated first.

The day the broken sword is reforged, when Meiling returns!

Well, that's it.

I endure.

The next morning, Zhou Yu stood on the balcony on the second floor, looking at the flowers and plants in the yard.

It is not difficult to add a swing to the yard, the simplest kind is nothing more than two steel pipes fixed to the ground.

But how do you do it aesthetically pleasing and safe?

Looking into the distance and seeing the park in the middle of the community planted with trees, Zhou Yu had an idea.