Chapter 137: Heart-rending and trivialities

The three of them barely ate something, and Qiu Shuang proposed to go back to work.

After all, in this world, the last thing that can protect you is your job, that is, you can make money to support yourself.

On the way back, Xu Feiran felt extremely sad, and Liu Mu also felt extremely sad.

Looking at the lonely back of Qiu Shuang walking back to the unit, the two couldn't help but shed tears.

Liu Mu took a deep breath: "Bandit, I feel very sad and distressed. Why do you think people are so fickle? Do you know, before I came to live in Fiji, Yu Zhe and I often had a cold war, and he often ignored me, and occasionally I felt that he disliked me. But now that he's been nice to me again, I'm suddenly scared, will he do that to me again in the future?"

Xu Feiran was stunned.

Everyone wants to find feelings, but feelings are the most insecure.

Waiting for idle changes but old people's hearts, but old people's hearts are changeable.

People's hearts are fickle, and who knows if today's lover will change his heart tomorrow?

Xu Feiran shook his head: "No, as long as we live actively, we will definitely be able to avoid some bad things." ”

"Yes, so, I'm going to work hard and make myself better and better. Liu Mu muttered.

Marriage is a contract because of mutual attraction. If it attracts change, the contract can be reversed as well.

What is eternal, perhaps, being alone is eternal.

Zhao Yiran procrastinated until the afternoon at work before replying to Xu Feiran: "Your friend, I'm busy, you call Shen Feng, he is very good at these trivialities." ”

Well, in the eyes of those who have not yet entered love, the relationship is broken and the marriage is out of control, which is just trivial.

However, thinking about Zhao Yiran's assets of tens of billions every day, it may really be trivial and a waste of time to divorce and divide the marriage into several suites.

Xu Feiran endured his heart and gave it to Shen Feng.

After listening to Xu Feiran's description, Shen Feng said to Xu Feiran very conclusively: "Bandit, your friend only has one way to go. ”

Say. ”

"Lower her posture without being humble or silent, win her husband's sympathy, take more benefits, and break up amicably. ”

"Why?" Xu Feiran was a little excited and a little stunned.

She was excited because she subconsciously felt that she was cheap, and she was stunned because she believed in Shen Feng's professionalism.

Just like Zhao Yiran said, the people's prosecutor has never seen anything.

Shen Feng sighed: "Sister, this kid is a lawyer, and he is still a good lawyer, and people will definitely not fight unprepared battles." I'm not saying that your sisters will definitely not be able to win him, after all, there are people outside the mountains, as long as you can afford the money and make the money, you can always catch his problem. But here, there are also some problems, junior, this should be no problem, finance, this is difficult. He has to be heartbroken, two or three months is enough for him to make the company into debt, and even ask to sell the house and bear the debt together, there are many ruthless tricks. And divorced a broken marriage, with such a big capital, I was tired and half dead by tossing, and the result was still divorced, which was unnecessary. ”

"Tell me, how do you lower your profile?"

"Sister, you are also married, and you also have to be taught by your brother?"

"I don't understand the heart of your scumbag. ”

"My brother is a scumbag, I'm sad and hung up the phone. ”

"Hurry up and tell me. Xu Feiran yelled.

Shen Feng immediately had a correct attitude: "Hey." Your attitude. Come, my brother will tell you how a woman can overcome rigidity with softness. ”

"I think at this time, your friend should only be sad, and don't calculate anything else on the bright side. How sad she is that this husband is suddenly going to divorce, so sad that she doesn't know what to do. And don't you say that she doesn't care about the family's money at all? That simply reinforces the image, she's a weak and confused woman with just a bit of a powerful mouth. ”

"Who is a person sad to do?"

"How could it be. Of course, let the other person know. She can send a message to the other person: If I can, can I change it? Maybe I'm unrecognizable in your eyes, but you're still the same in my eyes. If it really doesn't work, please give me a little time. ”

"Anyway, I still love you very much, but I also have self-esteem, even if I die of sadness, I won't stalk that tone. You girls are good at this, and you make it up in advance. See how the other person replies, and if he agrees to slow down, that's best. During this period, don't take the initiative to contact him, and don't send any personal information, including the circle of friends, just take it seriously. ”

"That's what you say, not humble or silent?" Xu Feiran sighed.

"Knowing that people annoy you, you take the initiative not to move forward, and you try to hide your sadness, isn't this called being humble and silent?"

"Okay, you go on. ”

"This timing should be well grasped. At most, in a week, she should impatiently take the initiative to send him a message: Give me your verdict. ”

"If the unfortunate person still refuses to look back, then she won't say anything, if it's a text message, don't reply, if it's a phone call, hear this sentence, at most leave a stunned time, hang up the phone. People don't want you anymore, what's the ink. ”

Then he couldn't find her. Send him a message the next day: Okay, I agree. Please give me a few more days, I'll think about it. As you know, divorce is not a trivial matter for me, I have always had hope before, and I have never really thought about it, and from today on, I will think about it. Don't worry, I'm not delaying time, I just need to think about how I should raise my children and honor my parents by myself. Thank you. ”

"Remember, be polite, gentle, and gentle. By this time, they were already strangers. ”

"Okay, at this point, you're going to have to play too. called him around the next day and asked him why he wanted to divorce and if there was a mistress outside. At first, he was aggressive, when he was still his wife's best friend. In the end, I softened and pleaded for my best friend, and if she couldn't plead, you pleaded for her. For example, what you saw her sadness, her life is worse than death, and how you feel sorry for the child, and how good they were in the beginning, how you are optimistic and envious, all of them are said again. If he tells you that she is not good, you can say good things from the perspective of your girlfriend and parents or simply from the position of an outsider on the basis of understanding, so that he can feel that it is actually excusable. In the end, I definitely can't talk about it, okay, turn my face, scold him and hang up the phone. ”

"Then after a day or two, you take the lawyer and talk to him very helplessly. The central idea is just one, this girlfriend is so useless, she only knows how to cry and cry, and she resolutely does not ask for it, you really can't get used to it, so you decided to let go of the murderous aura towards him and help her deal with things. ”

"You're sure to grasp it. Then, there are the conditions. You're good at it too. Xiaozhi is moved by emotion and reason, and tries to let him pay more alimony. ”

"Co-authored and sang so many plays, TMD just wanted to ask him for more alimony?" Xu Feiran was angry.

"A 30-year-old divorced woman, don't ask for more alimony, what do you want? Do you give affection? Does he give dividends from the company? Does he give stock options or even real estate? Then you can only ask for more money. Children don't need money? The elderly don't need money? They don't need money? Anyway, if they want to leave, they can't get anything else, so it's wisest to ask for more cash. What's wrong with asking for it? As long as you can get it. When your best friend is really divorced and lacks money and has no hope, it will be nothing to ask for it now. At least for now, there is still something to be done. "Shen Feng hates that iron does not become steel.

"How much alimony is appropriate?" Xu Feiran straightened his attitude. She really had to think about Qiu Shuang's actual situation.

"Didn't you say that the mortgage is about 2,300,000 yuan, and the child needs 8,000 yuan to hire a nanny, and the preschool education or the next kindergarten, primary and junior high school, according to their previous plan, at least 300,000 a year. There are also children's interest classes, you calculate, you should go to college, a little 10,000 yuan a month is always required. Your girlfriend is less than 20,000 a month, and she can't afford it at all. ”

"Be sincere, you must tell him that your girlfriend is determined not to allow you to ask him for money, and you are here on your own initiative. You settle the account for him. You have to stand in the position of the child, and propose that you must not divorce, so that the quality of life of the child will decline. But girlfriends really can't afford it. Therefore, the house is transferred to the child's name, and the girlfriend has the right to live and use it, but he has to pay the full amount of the house in one lump sum. He gave 20,000 yuan a month in alimony until he was 18 years old, which included the children's food, drink, lazar, hobbies, and even occasional medical visits. The cost of attending school is deposited in the education fund of 5 million to be used as a child's tuition fee. After graduating from college, what is not used up goes to the children. ”

"In the end, you take out your bandit's momentum and tell him that xx has been forced by him to be abolished, and her parents are completely ill, and your girlfriends can only take care of this matter to the end. We don't ask too much, and XX doesn't need your support for this dog's day, but the child, you have to raise it, and you still raise it as your own son, and this TM is also your species. ”

Shen Feng spoke awe-inspiring on the phone, and Xu Feiran listened with sincere admiration, and simply took his notes.

"Brother, you're amazing. ”

"Don't be too busy boasting just yet. Finally, you prepare yourself. The worst thing is the condition he gives now, and a little more, that is, he raises the alimony a little, and the rest remains unchanged. A little better is the promise to help pay off the mortgage every month. If the mortgage is repaid at 2 or 30,000 yuan per month, it should be a loan of four or five million, and he will definitely be able to repay it if he grits his teeth, but you say that he has worked for less than 5 years, which means that he is still in the stage of capital accumulation, and he is generally reluctant to take out so much cash. However, I suggest that you also keep this bottom line. The house must also be clear. Then if you want to pay for education, you must also insist that he can not take five million at once, but save one million every year for five consecutive years from this year, and write a good default clause. ”

"You have to tell him that after the divorce, he will soon have a new wife and even a new child, do you want Doudou to go to his new wife to ask for living expenses? This is a guarantee for the child. Don't worry, this kid can get it. You are both soft and hard, and you are appropriately tough. By the way, does this kid know your details?"

"Yes. Went to my house and Fei Heng's house. ”

"Then you belong to the character he is chasing, and you can be more aggressive. Just for the sake of the child, you are an elite lawyer, I don't believe you can't pay this money, you don't care about your own children to pursue the second spring, what do your clients think of your character. It's a boast, it's a threat, it's a threat. ”

"He doesn't want to talk about anything if he gets annoyed. ”

"Isn't this your best friend herself still unexpected? It's a big deal to accept his conditions and take the initiative to find him: Sign it, I really don't want to be involved with you anyway. ”

What does it mean to be smart? Only by following the steps that the other party can give you to get benefits is called being smart.

Xu Feiran patted his ass appropriately: "Brother, I think if you want to calculate your sister-in-law in the future, it is estimated that everyone will help you count the money if they are sold." ”

"Bandit, do you know what I'm most depressed about?"

"What?"

"TMD already knew that you and Zhao Yiran were so rich, and it was okay if they couldn't catch up with you and Zhao Yiran. ”

"Got it, I'm on the horse's hooves. The old horse shook his hooves. Come on, I don't have to make up your mind, you can chase Zhao Yiran. But I heard Zhao Yiran say that your old man is good at beating people with batons?"