Chapter 323: Meeting the Parents (Part II)
Father Xu said unhurriedly: "Your director is my old subordinate, who has worked under me for three years, and I am also prepared if you are prepared." Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info Your director showed me the psychological profile report. I don't like it, not only do I not like it, but I also kind of hate it. I stuck to the golden mean, I wanted to do something, but I didn't want to have something to do with myself. You're pretty much the same as me, and what I hate the most is my own personality. In your seven sets of careers, you have not once taken the initiative to take responsibility, not even passive, and each time you are ready to let others take the blame. Lack of courage to take responsibility. ”
Su Cheng asked, "What about now?"
Xu's father said: "I don't like it either, maybe it's because I don't like this kind of character, but my daughter was educated by me too bravely." Although I don't like and even hate your personality like me, I can't deny that you are suitable to be my daughter's friend. But ......"
"But?" Xu Xuan and Su Cheng looked at Father Xu together.
Father Xu poured tea and took a cup to Su Cheng: "But your origin is unknown, you are the assistant of the big pineapple, I don't doubt it." But your character is much worse than a big pineapple. You may have inherited some of the abilities of the big pineapple, but you lack the bearing, cultivation and philosophy of the big pineapple. Big Pineapple has a need for money, which is one of the reasons why he stopped being a cop and switched to a detective, because detectives can make more money. But he didn't break the law, and not only that, but even though he was no longer a police officer, he was still very law-abiding. It is difficult for many capable people to abide by the law, because abiding by the law means that they have lost a lot of eyes and lost a lot of opportunities to get rich. ”
Father Xu said: "Judging from the memoirs, the big pineapple has dealings with many royal families, merchants and powerful people in Europe, and they respect the big pineapple very much. Not purely because he is older, he is a famous detective, but more importantly because of the personality of the big pineapple. You have only learned the surface, not the bones. Of course, everyone is different, and you can't be forced to make a big pineapple. When I was young, I was a college student and a police officer, and my idol at that time was the big pineapple, and because of the contrast, I had a worse impression of you. ”
Su Cheng was speechless: "What Uncle said is true." ”
Father Xu said again: "Xuanzi is very assertive, she likes me and can't change it, if I can change it, I don't want to change it, I don't know if the next one will be worse." In my heart I am against your association, and I must explain my attitude. At the same time, I will not hinder your association, and I will bless you. Xiao Su, you are also an assertive person, you know that your life is arranged by yourself, and I don't ask you to change anything. They are all smart people, you have to know in your own heart, and you have to be responsible for yourself. ”
I like this old man, although Father Xu said that he didn't like Su Cheng, which meant that he didn't like Su Cheng to be his son-in-law. But Su Cheng likes Father Xu, and explains his thoughts directly and kindly. It's hard for you to change and work hard to make Father Xu change his mind about you, but you don't need to change yourself. Xu's father's criticism of Su Cheng before can be understood as guiding Su Cheng to know himself. A philosopher has said that the person who knows you least is yourself.
Su Cheng also knew the family status of Xu's mother and Xu's father, although Xu's father was very poor, although the two divorced, and although they had been separated for many years, the eldest of the family was Xu's father. Xu's father is neither humble nor arrogant to live under the aura of his wife, in his early years, because he loves his wife, and later because he loves his daughter, he also lives in the villa purchased by Xu's mother, but he never uses Xu's mother's money, and even does not accept valuables such as cars and clothes. Maybe because of this, Xu's mother was dissatisfied.
Mother Xu and Father Xu got married, and she knew in her heart that she owed Father Xu, and the more Father Xu didn't care, the more she cared. It was easy for her father to become rich and start a business on his own, but Xu's father did not accept material support, and at the same time, Xu's father still loved her. But Xu's father didn't consider Xu's mother's feelings, Xu's mother needed a kind of recognition, she made money and hoped that the whole family would share the happiness of making money, Xu's father's high made Xu's mother even more inferior, and at the same time angry. With the rise of the mainstream money values in society, she finally got the dignity she deserved from other men.
It seems that Xu's mother is wrong, but Xu's father is actually wrong first, he cares too much about his wife's achievements, he sticks to his inner self-esteem, and he doesn't know that he hurt Xu's mother, Xu's mother is bright and clean, and he doesn't mention his hobby of smoking cigars. A proud person resists the erosion of the value of money first, but this may not be pride, maybe it is inferiority, maybe it is self-esteem, maybe it wants to retain the dignity of being a father.
Of course, Su Cheng didn't dare to say this, his status was different.
Xu Xuan sat on the armrest of the sofa beside Su Cheng and said, "I know you're getting a divorce." ”
Nani, Su Cheng looked at Xu Xuan, do you have to mention it today? Can't you wait for me to leave?
Xu Xuan said: "I know you want to say, don't worry about adults and children. But because of you like this, I am very suspicious of love and family affection, and I don't even dare to think about what will happen to Su Cheng in the future. Dad, you broke through many obstacles and sacrificed a lot to marry my mother. "Pinch someone's flesh, pick it up, pick it up.
Su Cheng said: "Love does not need to be sacrificed, but chosen, my uncle chooses to face difficulties, is willing to bear the loss of work and career, marrying my aunt, not a sacrifice, many people will think, I sacrifice so much, shouldn't you be kind to me? Just like educating children, parents have sacrificed so much for you, don't you want to reciprocate? I personally think that this kind of giving and sacrifice is voluntary and cannot be reciprocated. ”
Xu Xuan was very satisfied, touched the back of Su Cheng's head, and said, "Mom, you have sacrificed a lot for our family, sacrificing a lot of time, and even I can only see you once a month." "I pinch.
Su Cheng: "I am willing to do things for my family, I hope my family can recognize my efforts and my achievements, sacrifice so much, I don't need much in return, I just need the warmth of my family." "I won't say, dead woman, can you rehearse with me before, I'm under a lot of pressure, you're their daughter, what can they do to you? They are very annoyed, to find out the punch bag, who can be more suitable than me?
Xu Xuan also played on the spot, and saw that his father and Su Cheng had a good chat, so he began to ignite the fire.
There was an awkward silence, Xu Xuan pinched, and then pinched...... Su Cheng endured it, this is called sacrifice......
Father Xu sighed deeply and spoke: "Xuanzi, what happens at home, it's a slap that doesn't make a sound." There are a lot of things that I have done wrong, many things can be undone, and many things can be changed, but some things cannot be undone. That's why I don't like a son-in-law like Xiao Su. But I think the reason why Xiao Su is suitable to be your boyfriend, he is very close to my personality, and there are many contrasts, Xiao Su is very slippery, and what about me? too arrogant, too clear, and sometimes it can even be said that he is empty-eyed, Lao Tzu is the first in the world. You don't have to worry about me and your mother, it's true that we're getting divorced, and divorce is good for us. No matter what happens to us, you will always be our daughter. ”
Father Xu means that he knows that he has some injustice to Mother Xu. He thinks that he has sacrificed so much, and Xu Mu should accept it calmly. He ignored Xu's mother's inner appeal for equal status of husband and wife. This mistake can be corrected, especially because the father knows his mistake. But Xu's mother's cheating mistake is devastating, and Xu's father's character can't tolerate Xu's mother's mistakes.
The conflict between husband and wife is an internal contradiction, and loyalty is the cornerstone of husband and wife, once broken, it cannot be repaired. Except for many rich wives who tolerate their husbands' cheating. For them, as long as their husbands and families can give them money to spend, they will turn a blind eye.
Mother Xu didn't express an opinion, stood up and said, "Xuanzi, I'll help you." ”
Su Cheng immediately changed the topic of such an embarrassment: "Xu Xuan, you want to cook yourself?"
Xu Xuan asked rhetorically, "What?"
Su Cheng said: "I remember that you don't cook, and you only know instant noodles and scrambled eggs." ”
Xu Xuan asked, "What?"
Su Cheng touched his chest with his right hand: "I feel ...... Very happy. ”
Count your acquaintances, Xu Xuan glanced at his father, and what his father said was right. Su Cheng didn't care if the food he cooked was delicious or not, he didn't even think that he was willing to cook, but he did it himself and gave Su Cheng something he didn't expect.
Mother Xu wore an apron: "Xiao Su, the memoirs say that your cooking skills are quite good, after you became a big pineapple assistant for a year, the big pineapple was found to have high blood sugar, high blood lipids and high blood pressure. ”
Su Cheng smiled bitterly and said, "Auntie, are you praising me?"
"Praise you. Mother Xu had prepared a lot of things to say to Su Cheng, but after Father Xu finished speaking, she found that Father Xu had said everything he wanted to say.
Xu Xuan asked curiously, "Why are you good at cooking?"
Su Cheng said: "In the orphanage, I am a cook, and everyone has to help do something. After I went to the UK, one of my classmates, my father, was the head chef of a Michelin-starred restaurant, and he taught me how to cook Western food, and I taught him how to cook home cooking. Plus cramming to learn Chinese food online. Big pineapple is not picky about eating, he likes to eat meat, especially fatty meat, and it just so happens that I am best at braised three-layer meat. Plus he uses meat as a staple ......"
Cut the three-layer meat into large pieces, then simmer in oil, add spices and seasonings, and take a bite to the mouth. The fat is plump, the lean meat is silky, and the pork skin is tender...... After finding out the three highs, Su Cheng stopped getting it, but the big pineapple learned to order takeout. No way, study again, change the tricks to get the big pineapple to eat, as healthy as possible, it can be said that Su Cheng is self-taught through the Internet and is proficient in many cuisines. Back in City A, Su Cheng likes crayfish of non-serious cuisines, boiled smorgasbord and the like......
The villa nanny is on holiday today, although it is said that Xu's mother and Xu Xuan are working together, most of them are done by Xu's mother herself, which is not only for Su Cheng, but also for Xu's father. Xu's mother didn't cook in person for many years, mostly because she didn't have time, and later because Xu's father didn't eat with her, she didn't have that mind. Today is a rare opportunity, and after today, tomorrow will go to get the certificate, decades of feelings have made the kitchen very sad.
Mother Xu said: "Xuanzi, remember what my mother said, there are some things not to do, especially after getting married." Take my example, you know?"
Xu Xuan said: "Mom, you and my dad are really just that?"
Mother Xu replied: "There are some things that cannot be undone, and divorce is not a bad thing, let me tell you, in fact, I prefer Hua Zihan more than Su Cheng." Hua Zihan has a stable life and stable living conditions, and can be said to be the dream lover of many women. Falling in love with Su Cheng will not be more romantic than having a cold conversation with Hua Zihan. Not to mention getting married. You are throwing away the gold mountain and guarding the green mountain. ”
Xu Xuan said: "Mom, if you think so, if you marry Hua Zihan, I can calculate what I am doing after I turn sixty." Besides, if you don't call, you can't help it. ”
Xu Mu said: "See for yourself." As your dad said, you're both adults and very mature in your minds. ”
Xu Xuan: "Mom, how is your company?"
Mother Xu said: "It's okay." ”
"Are you alright?"
Xu Mu replied: "The Hua Group's ability is still quite big, and I don't know what method to use to create the illusion that a certain country is going to have a civil war, and many banks have agreed to postpone loan repayment." Let my company seize the opportunity and take a breath. Although the losses are still very large, they are no longer bankrupt. Mrs. Hua is really powerful, the total assets of global energy are estimated to be at least more than 70 billion, and she used 5 billion to take 30% of the equity of global energy. ”
"This can't be promised. ”
"What if you don't agree? People have made conditions, and some venture capital companies want to inject capital, but it is useless. Mrs. Hua can make a certain country appear as a civil war, which is the most powerful. Although Fahrenheit Group has a global business and is one of the top ten furniture brands in the world, it has connections in many countries, such as in the United States and senators. ”
The U.S. senator will not directly collect money, if you give him 10 million, he may not receive it. But if you give him 10 million in campaign money, he will legally accept it. When you become a senator, you naturally help your own proprietor within the framework of legality. It's a game of politics and money. Assuming that a majority of Americans are in favor of tariffs, the senator will not raise an objection to the tariffs, and the Fahrenheit Group will understand. If everyone is dispensable, then you can fight for it.
Xu Xuan glanced at Xu's mother, and did not think of the ghost group or the hanging ghost, if Su Cheng heard it, he would suspect that Mrs. Hua had a connection with the ghost group, maybe it was not the hanging ghost, but the members of the ghost group from other countries. But one can only doubt, because there are still various possibilities. Mrs. Hua gave the mushroom boss 100 million to help me do something, and people might agree. Mrs. Hua bought 30% of the 70 billion with 5 billion. Either networking, business.
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The atmosphere in the living room was good, and Father Xu just didn't like this son-in-law, but he didn't have any opinion on Su Cheng himself. You have a 30-year-old young man, 200 pounds, 1.6 meters, ugly, poor, but kind-hearted and eager to help people. Full marks for such neighbors. But such a son-in-law...... Can you be a friend with a beautiful soul...... Ugly, poor, fat and warm-hearted, you can only be a good person.
Let go of Su Cheng's son-in-law, Father Xu and Su Cheng still have a lot of topics, Su Cheng has been hesitant in the topic, should he go further, or should he take a step back?
Su Cheng still decided to go further, after all, offending his father-in-law is a small matter, but pleasing his girlfriend is a big matter. Su Cheng asked, "Uncle, what are your plans after you divorce your aunt?"